1st, 21 is a full blown adult and the guy isn't married right? 2ndly, the girl sort of needed reassurance and emotional support from the guy which as a typical Nigerian man, the guy chickened out nonchalantly but in all honesty, both of them were going through the same thing. As much as the girl felt she was the victim, they both were cos the guy too was nervous and tensed about the whole thing, yes guys do get worried when someone's pregnant for them especially when they're not ready to be a father, they feel scared and guilty not knowing what may happen during or after the abortion but please Nigerian men try to be more emotionally supportive especially towards the woman you love please. All it could have taken was the guy rallying around the girl showing her that she wasn't alone and not leaving her to go through the whole process by herself. That isn't appropriate at all! They both did it together and they both should handle the outcome together too.
Posted: at 8-02-2021 09:32 AM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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