Thoughts Of My Children Save Me From Depression – Ubi Franklin

Date: 21-02-2021 7:35 pm (6 months ago) | Author: Abasiodu Sunday
- at 21-02-2021 07:35 PM (6 months ago)

Businessman and social media personality, Ubi Franklin, says he has not given up on marriage and his kids are his major source of inspiration.

The father of four told Sunday Scoop, “My saving grace in life is the fact that I had kids at an early age. Every time I feel depressed, I tell myself that if I am gone, my kids may suffer because they are my responsibilities. God gave them to me so that I can cater for them.  If I take my life, they may not have the kind of life that I wish they should have. These thoughts keep me alive and motivate me to keep going. Life happens and one needs to understand that you cannot have everything. There are people with perfect homes who do not have the kind of life I have. I only ask God that His will should be done in my life. It is not anyone’s intention or wishes to get married and break up. If you kill yourself because of someone, the person will still move on with their life. Life will always teach us lessons, so we have to keep our heads up and keep pressing forward.

“As for marriage, I am really not thinking about that now. The most important thing for me now is making money. I have been there before, and I’ll say it is a great institution. But I want to make more money. When there is money, there would be more options and you won’t be under pressure to get married.  However, I have not given up on marriage but I have to do all I need to do. I am still young at 35 and I believe at this age, I have done a lot of what some of my peers have not done, especially with my career. But really, it is not how far, because I am not under pressure to prove anything to anyone. I got married at 29 years old and it did not work. But, that does not mean that if I get married again, it won’t work too. I already have kids, so all I have to do is learn how to do things differently with the experiences I have gathered. Doing things with experience is better than when you are a novice. Marriage is a book you write yourself, and it’s an institution that you learn every day.”

Speaking about his relationship with his children’s mothers and his love for blogging, Franklin said,
“Firstly, I am not God. I am dealing with four adults and four children I understand that they cannot always agree with me. Secondly, I know that if I try to fight with all my children’s mothers, I would only give myself a headache. So, in my situation, I know that I cannot always win. I owe myself the responsibility to take care of my kids as best as possible. I am not going to say I am 100 per cent there yet. And like in all relationships, there will be ups and downs."

Posted: at 21-02-2021 07:35 PM (6 months ago) | Gistmaniac
- gogoman at 21-02-2021 11:00 PM (6 months ago)
ok continue
Posted: at 21-02-2021 11:00 PM (6 months ago) | Addicted Hero
- SWORDMAN at 22-02-2021 07:05 AM (6 months ago)
You said you have 4 children probably from different women?? That's means you are problem not the ladies....guy change your ways and control your useless dick. You can stick to one woman if you want or better still go back to one of your former babymama. Abeg make I flip this page
Posted: at 22-02-2021 07:05 AM (6 months ago) | Upcoming
- jema79 at 22-02-2021 11:05 AM (6 months ago)
Ubi and Churchill deserved an Oscar Awards
Posted: at 22-02-2021 11:05 AM (6 months ago) | Newbie
- Kormeijama at 22-02-2021 12:00 PM (6 months ago)
Good man.
Posted: at 22-02-2021 12:00 PM (6 months ago) | Upcoming
- LukeSanders at 10-08-2021 07:18 AM (1 month ago)
It's important to have people around you who can save you from depression. It doesn't matter if it will be children, relatives or just friends. I don't have a family, but my friends are very supportive of me in any situation, and to some extent, this is my salvation from depression. I recently found this source and understand that this is exactly what I've been missing lately. I don't have time to visit a specialist, but it's convenient to discuss my problems during an online therapy session. Now, for me, this is the best way to avoid depression.
Posted: at 10-08-2021 07:18 AM (1 month ago) | Newbie
- DavidGardner at 24-08-2021 07:09 PM (3 weeks ago)
It is just wonderful that a person was able to find inspiration and now he begins to demonstrate outstanding results in his development. Many people who are depressed cannot find a source of inspiration and motivation for themselves. Be confident and read what can give you a push to define your unreal consciousness. Be confident in yourself and you will get many of your plans.
Posted: at 24-08-2021 07:09 PM (3 weeks ago) | Newbie