Is love a "feeling" or a "decision"? (Page 10)

Date: 05-11-2010 2:27 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Frinue Dorothy
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- gosspy at 13-11-2010 09:07 PM (13 years ago)
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whats up
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- omatu at 14-11-2010 12:51 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Jbabygirl on 13-11-2010 05:20 PM
Love is a decision or choice, some feelings are really fake, it fades away with time, expecially when u r expecting so much and u r getting less from dat person, the feelings diminishes straight away. But decision otherwise known as choice will neva elude you, u will forever remember dat this was ur decision or choice & nothing can change that, not some kind of sensitivity or warmthness dat are seasonal.
Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 14-11-2010 12:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 14-11-2010 09:57 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dorro on  5-11-2010 05:05 PM
Quote from: blessT on  5-11-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: Michro on  5-11-2010 02:42 PM
Love is a natural affection and an involuntary


I can partly agree that is a natural affection, bt I don't agree dt is 'involuntary'.
True love is based on strong reasons, it is built deliberately based on ones convictn
of the other person.

When love is built on such reasons, it becomes lasting. True love is not blind, bt can
willingly cover the weaknesses of the other person.
so is it a felling or a decision?Huh?

Those who take love to be a decision are those who love somebody because of his pocket...

Posted: at 14-11-2010 09:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omatu at 14-11-2010 02:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Michro on 14-11-2010 09:57 AM
Quote from: dorro on  5-11-2010 05:05 PM
Quote from: blessT on  5-11-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: Michro on  5-11-2010 02:42 PM
Love is a natural affection and an involuntary


I can partly agree that is a natural affection, bt I don't agree dt is 'involuntary'.
True love is based on strong reasons, it is built deliberately based on ones convictn
of the other person.

When love is built on such reasons, it becomes lasting. True love is not blind, bt can
willingly cover the weaknesses of the other person.
so is it a felling or a decision?Huh?

Those who take love to be a decision are those who love somebody because of his pocket...

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son .....

Thank God for that decision.  We certainly have nothing in our pockets to give Him, but He made that decision to love us.
 Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 14-11-2010 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 14-11-2010 02:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: omatu on 14-11-2010 02:36 PM
Quote from: Michro on 14-11-2010 09:57 AM
Quote from: dorro on  5-11-2010 05:05 PM
Quote from: blessT on  5-11-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: Michro on  5-11-2010 02:42 PM
Love is a natural affection and an involuntary


I can partly agree that is a natural affection, bt I don't agree dt is 'involuntary'.
True love is based on strong reasons, it is built deliberately based on ones convictn
of the other person.

When love is built on such reasons, it becomes lasting. True love is not blind, bt can
willingly cover the weaknesses of the other person.
so is it a felling or a decision?Huh?

Those who take love to be a decision are those who love somebody because of his pocket...

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son .....

Thank God for that decision.  We certainly have nothing in our pockets to give Him, but He made that decision to love us.
 Grin Grin Grin Grin

@nx rev.

Posted: at 14-11-2010 02:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- merit at 14-11-2010 07:20 PM (13 years ago)
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love is DECISION.  is a decision because there are many men and women out there and you dicided to take that person and accept him or her for who they they are
Posted: at 14-11-2010 07:20 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Empress_Ameera at 14-11-2010 07:37 PM (13 years ago)
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I believe love starts off as a feeling, however at some point it can grow into a decision. However ultimately it is a feeling that we decide to embrace...

Posted: at 14-11-2010 07:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 14-11-2010 08:13 PM (13 years ago)
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both!
Posted: at 14-11-2010 08:13 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Michro at 14-11-2010 08:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: merit on 14-11-2010 07:20 PM
love is DECISION.  is a decision because there are many men and women out there and you dicided to take that person and accept him or her for who they they are

That is why I keep saying that love has been cruxified some thousand years ago.
Love no longer exist.

Posted: at 14-11-2010 08:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 14-11-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: firstlove on 14-11-2010 08:34 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on  5-11-2010 02:30 PM
Love is a feeling.
At first, love is a feeling; but on the long run, it became a decision that is a must to take.

Hmmmmmmm

Posted: at 14-11-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- omatu at 15-11-2010 03:10 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Michro on 14-11-2010 08:25 PM
Quote from: merit on 14-11-2010 07:20 PM
love is DECISION.  is a decision because there are many men and women out there and you dicided to take that person and accept him or her for who they they are

That is why I keep saying that love has been cruxified some thousand years ago.
Love no longer exist.
Love was resurrected thousands of years ago.
Love Lives Forever.
 Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 15-11-2010 03:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Rusty914 at 15-11-2010 06:34 AM (13 years ago)
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love's definitely a feeling... when u meet a new person though, u can't say your in love just because you went on a date with the person... when u first meet a person, u are either ATTRACTED to the person or not! that's what u feel, not love!  Smiley
Posted: at 15-11-2010 06:34 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- 14all at 15-11-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago)
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Love is a feeling backed up by a strong decision to make it work. Love as a feeling will never last long without a conscious effort to back it up....thats my believe
Posted: at 15-11-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- kingIyke at 15-11-2010 11:15 AM (13 years ago)
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Love is nt just a feeling, it a decision accompany by feeling. Wen d feeling dies or changes surely one must happen, it is d decision dat u hav made to luv dat wil keep u going. It is nt feeling dat keep two people dat are married 4 10, 20 to 50 years 2geda bt decision.
Posted: at 15-11-2010 11:15 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Jewelgentle at 15-11-2010 02:30 PM (13 years ago)
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you don't  desire to be in love you just find yourself in love.
Posted: at 15-11-2010 02:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- hoyehyehmy at 15-11-2010 03:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  5-11-2010 03:19 PM
Both!

wot do u mean?
Posted: at 15-11-2010 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 15-11-2010 03:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: hoyehyehmy on 15-11-2010 03:09 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  5-11-2010 03:19 PM
Both!

wot do u mean?

If Love purely base on feeling,that one can easily fall in,and one could easily fall out,as we human being can't control our feeling,
but we can decide to continue to love in regardless of what feeling we have..

Posted: at 15-11-2010 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- chibum at 15-11-2010 03:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Love can never be a decision. It's natural, it comes out from the inside.
Posted: at 15-11-2010 03:26 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- chibum at 15-11-2010 03:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Love can never be a decision. It is a strong feeling for something or someone. It is natural and it flows from the heart.
Posted: at 15-11-2010 03:28 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- aphocus at 15-11-2010 05:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Both are in under one principle;I believe that that both work for each other,let assumed a girl got feeling for lot guys,you are to decide for your right choice.
Posted: at 15-11-2010 05:26 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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