She dosnt know how to cook !! (Page 17)

Quote from: bittersweet on 12-11-2010 08:53 PM

Quote from: Treasure2 on 12-11-2010 08:52 PM

BS u r right.

Thx,my dear!

"Summarized" means for me a lot, among many other things that the person is not a Nigerian! Understanding how deep rooted this issue is, may take a lot of energy to explain. It may not be surprised if any relationship with a non-Nigerian and Nigerian may not last till Thy Kingdom come. I mean, the quote may be very high than when it's Nigerian - Nigerian families. Our values to marriage life is deep, very deep rooted, though it's not just cooking food. There A LOT.

I know also, upbringing and environment has a lot of role to play in all this regard.

Posted: at 12-11-2010 11:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You have done well with your advices.  Any woman that wants to marry a Nigerian man needs to listen to a lot of the men comments on this topic.    A woman that does not heed the advises of the men regarding this topic will definitely not have a long lasting marriage.

Thanks for speaking out.  Let those that have ears hear what the spirit is saying.
 

Posted: at 13-11-2010 05:31 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

if  he tells me dt i can't cook,its not an emdarassment.he can help by teaching  me how to

Posted: at 13-11-2010 08:57 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Na person wey sabi write long. Abi make dem learn from u how to quote am short. lollll

Posted: at 13-11-2010 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Ok oooo. @ My prick sweet, u r no drinking and @ P J, u r not pissing, shows the weekend is good.

Posted: at 13-11-2010 10:59 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

I don't know about other ppls,but I'm always honest from the first day!
I don't try to fake myself for being liked or something!
That would be a big stupidity!
I hate the cockily behavior of some men,and I could never stand such a guy around me!
If both of them are working, she may be work even more,then after he returns home, and
if she is not back home yet,what he should do? Walking like a rooster through the house, waiting for
her to come back to and serve him?
That is bullshit!
He doesn't have hands or what?
Thx God that nowadays exist guys who doesn't think that way anymore!
I know many married couples  who act like a team in their marriage, they share responsibilities
very well, and they are very happy!
And I also know some, where the woman doesn't know what to do more to please their husband, and they are treated like dirt!
I was amazed to see how much lack of respect is there, and I'll never understand why those women are taking those craps!
This life is too damn short!
 Nobody should suffer for the sake of a marriage, which it's full of humiliations and disconsideration!

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Posted: at 14-11-2010 08:19 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Hatred at the highest level, my friend!

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Posted: at 14-11-2010 08:39 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

If the woman works longer hours than the man, let her use the weekend, if possible, to prepare the meals for the entire week or month, and freeze them.  Does she have children?  Her children have to eat as well.

It is only God that can open the heart of man to love a woman.  A woman that is being mistreated in a marriage needs to look inwards.  Is she following God's words? If she is following God's words, then be patient, and allow God to deal with that wicked man.  It is not the woman's job to change a man's heart!

Marriage is blessed by God.  It is definitely not full of humiliations and disconsideration.  A woman can bring peace into her home if she so desires by being under the man and under God.

Posted: at 14-11-2010 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Marriage is blessed by God,but messed up by ppl!
I've seen too many houses when the man is disconsidering his woman, and she not only that doesn't have any power to change that,
but he doesn't even listen to her!
That's not a marriage, it's pure torment!
Would be many things to say on that, but I think it's not the time or place for that!
Have a nice Sunday!  

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Posted: at 14-11-2010 02:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

I no feel nottin

Posted: at 14-11-2010 07:52 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero