all im trying to say is that, different people with different ways and capabilities as regard handling situation like this. if u know its going to be hard for you to get over this person, please and please, turn down the offer as this could lead to your ruins both emotionally and mentally. but if u feel u are strong enough, then u can give it a chance but u have to always remind yourself the fact that YOU ARE JUST FRIENDS NOW and NOT LOVERS anymore. just spoke to a patients who is really sick bcos of this kind of situation
if you know the answer already then what was the need for this topic?(I guess for others huh)  i don't know all the answers my dear, that is why i brought it to the forum, seeking your honest opinion so i could be sure i am on the right path.... My patient is still on the ward and counseling is one of the recommended therapy
Gotcha!
I hope you get the right answer. | Posted: at 23-11-2010 07:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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r u sure
I think he is confused.   | Posted: at 23-11-2010 07:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Selu") Selu at 23-11-2010 07:14 PM (13 years ago)  (m) y not, u can be friends...ds is where maturity comes into an act  Maturity keh! Be matured and feel very bad weneva some1 else does it or leave and be free from hurting yourself? | Posted: at 23-11-2010 07:14 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "4kasibe247") 4kasibe247 at 23-11-2010 07:22 PM (13 years ago) (m) y not, u can be friends...ds is where maturity comes into an act Maturity keh! Be matured and feel very bad weneva some1 else does it or leave and be free from hurting yourself? half a loaf is better than none n if one truly love someone, y not accept d friendship than loosing d relationship n communication entirely.... | Posted: at 23-11-2010 07:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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y not, u can be friends...ds is where maturity comes into an act Maturity keh! Be matured and feel very bad weneva some1 else does it or leave and be free from hurting yourself? half a loaf is better than none n if one truly love someone, y not accept d friendship than loosing d relationship n communication entirely....
You mean crumbles!
For someone who still has feelings for that person, that so called friendship can be tormenting and toxic!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-11-2010 07:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "4kasibe247") 4kasibe247 at 23-11-2010 07:36 PM (13 years ago) (m) unless s/he wants to be a stalker 4 d rest of their life...this is reality...u cant force a horse to drink water from d river... | Posted: at 23-11-2010 07:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Selu") Selu at 23-11-2010 07:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) Don't tell me anybody u communicate with is your friend. For me none is beta. | Posted: at 23-11-2010 07:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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And thats is why every man for himself abi? | Posted: at 23-11-2010 07:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Selu") Selu at 23-11-2010 08:23 PM (13 years ago) (m) In a situation as the one above. | Posted: at 23-11-2010 08:23 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 23-11-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) r u sure
Very sure!
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 23-11-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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yea yea  | Posted: at 23-11-2010 10:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 23-11-2010 10:44 PM (13 years ago) (m) yea yea Yum yum 8)8)8)8)
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 23-11-2010 10:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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wow! really? | Posted: at 23-11-2010 10:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 23-11-2010 10:52 PM (13 years ago) (m) wow! really?
Hell no!
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 23-11-2010 10:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 23-11-2010 11:45 PM (13 years ago) (m) the one u love so much just broke up with u on some flimsy excuse and s/he is asking to JUST BE FRIENDS. how easy do they think it is transiting from a lover to a friend? would you accept the offer? Humans are selfish jare, no mind dem Women are Especially Guilty of dis
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 23-11-2010 11:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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the one u love so much just broke up with u on some flimsy excuse and s/he is asking to JUST BE FRIENDS. how easy do they think it is transiting from a lover to a friend? would you accept the offer? when u put it like this it sounds cruel...usually when this happens I'm usually the one that initiates this....the only time i didnt initiate it is with a guy that wants to get back together. I guess it depends on how the break up happens | Posted: at 23-11-2010 11:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 24-11-2010 12:02 AM (13 years ago) (m) bodam bam
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 24-11-2010 12:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "brightossy") brightossy at 24-11-2010 01:11 AM (13 years ago) (m) Oh for goodness sake, Where's Pincedafe?
d 'S' on his keyboard don comot. | Posted: at 24-11-2010 01:11 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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the one u love so much just broke up with u on some flimsy excuse and s/he is asking to JUST BE FRIENDS. how easy do they think it is transiting from a lover to a friend? would you accept the offer? na that one i like pass | Posted: at 24-11-2010 01:29 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 24-11-2010 02:56 AM (13 years ago) (f) from an experience is not gonna be easy sha..but is not a bad idea if you both are still friends,,but the communication is not gonna be like as it were before..like calling each others every min of the day..inadditon,seeing each other is stilll gonna cut down,probably you both can only see each other maybe 2times in a month.that feelings as a lover or whatsoever will slowly die but is going to take a while..one ave to be in control of the whole thing.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 24-11-2010 02:56 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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