My Fiancee visited me recently where i based, during her staying she pleaded i should get rid of my ex- girlfriend pictures. She is of the opinion that, keeping her pictures is like am still attached to her. To make her happy and feel secured i removed all her pictures and hid it where she cant stumble on them, not only that i deleted her phone nos also. Only for me to discovered she is still in touched with her ex- whatever on face book, i confronted her she didnt deny it she said they were just friends nothing attached. What do i do people. We are getting married soon. No yabbis abeg una.
Olumba-Olumba, listen bro,
You just shown you are a great guy by doing what she asked for - removing those pix and phone nos. Good job bro. Well, you should know that you have just shown given her a big rope, which when you married, you should be ready to get trussing with it.
My word is my bound and whatever i say i stand by it. Any woman/friends of mine know that, so if your soon-to-be-wife cant believe your words unless she get a prove, there is a problem (im not saying she should be doubted tho). As a man, what you wont take when you marry it is highly recommended that you dont take it during courting/dating.
What i heard from married men is, if your wife is 1% not good, be ready to deal with 10% worst when you are married. If she can make you submit now with a single word she will make you her wife after marriage. I have no experience but i always ask married men how to deal with any issue i have or notice with my woman, and they always say "if you cant or wont be able to deal with all her bad behavior now that you are still single, pls dont marry her otherwise you will run away from the marriage in the end - she will be X10 worst whatever she is now".
Did she remove his ex from his facebook?
Or did she try to make you believe that nothing btw them anymore?
Did agree with her to keep chatting with her ex?
Bros me, as for me i wont mind about her relationship with ex but she shouldnt be asking me to do what she wont do.
Mind you, all ex-es are easy to put back down to bed! Beware!
Posted: at 25-11-2010 05:13 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming |
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