Would you tell?

Date: 30-11-2010 1:51 am (14 years ago) | Author: Samboko
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- at 30-11-2010 01:51 AM (14 years ago)
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Would you tell your friend, who is about or going to get married eventually if you found out that his/her partner is cheating on them?

Note: I didnt say the cheater was caught red handed. But you confirmed it that he/she cheats.....and what if the cheater cheats with best man to be or maid of honor to be? Would you not tell your friend or you will?


(i dont know if there is a topic on this before, so if there is, pardon my repetition)

Posted: at 30-11-2010 01:51 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
- juleshotluv at 30-11-2010 02:09 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 01:51 AM
Would you tell your friend, who is about or going to get married eventually if you found out that his/her partner is cheating on them?

Note: I didnt say the cheater was caught red handed. But you confirmed it that he/she cheats.....and what if the cheater cheats with best man to be or maid of honor to be? Would you not tell your friend or you will?


(i dont know if there is a topic on this before, so if there is, pardon my repetition)

I like that, I should be doing that as well.

Back to the topic, I would leave her to do the talking.
Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:09 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 4kasibe247 at 30-11-2010 02:10 AM (14 years ago)
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 Cool Cool Cool leave her to do d talking
Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 30-11-2010 02:20 AM (14 years ago)
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nope..take your own share and leave the rest...let her talk for herself

Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:20 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- samboko at 30-11-2010 02:22 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: juleshotluv on 30-11-2010 02:09 AM
Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 01:51 AM
Would you tell your friend, who is about or going to get married eventually if you found out that his/her partner is cheating on them?

Note: I didnt say the cheater was caught red handed. But you confirmed it that he/she cheats.....and what if the cheater cheats with best man to be or maid of honor to be? Would you not tell your friend or you will?


(i dont know if there is a topic on this before, so if there is, pardon my repetition)

I like that, I should be doing that as well.

Back to the topic, I would leave her to do the talking.


How would she do the talking when she has never caught her bf cheating and no one ever told her?
Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:22 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bitte at 30-11-2010 02:24 AM (14 years ago)
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this topic is some how copied from the original
Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:24 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- samboko at 30-11-2010 02:26 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bitte on 30-11-2010 02:24 AM
this topic is some how copied from the original


abeg, link me up with the original.....
Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:26 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- juleshotluv at 30-11-2010 02:26 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 02:22 AM
Quote from: juleshotluv on 30-11-2010 02:09 AM
Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 01:51 AM
Would you tell your friend, who is about or going to get married eventually if you found out that his/her partner is cheating on them?

Note: I didnt say the cheater was caught red handed. But you confirmed it that he/she cheats.....and what if the cheater cheats with best man to be or maid of honor to be? Would you not tell your friend or you will?


(i dont know if there is a topic on this before, so if there is, pardon my repetition)

I like that, I should be doing that as well.

Back to the topic, I would leave her to do the talking.


How would she do the talking when she has never caught her bf cheating and no one ever told her?

I am in a relationship with him and if there is anything i need to know, it needs to come from him.
Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:26 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 30-11-2010 02:27 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 01:51 AM
Would you tell your friend, who is about or going to get married eventually if you found out that his/her partner is cheating on them?

Note: I didnt say the cheater was caught red handed. But you confirmed it that he/she cheats.....and what if the cheater cheats with best man to be or maid of honor to be? Would you not tell your friend or you will?


(i dont know if there is a topic on this before, so if there is, pardon my repetition)


No matter how close we are, and there's no prove of catching the other party cheating red handed, i will never make such mistake by telling anything. some people if you tell them such things, will still insist and marry the other party, later on, you will turn the biggest enemy for them because they will see you as a stumbling block to stop their happy relationship earlier by coming with such story.

Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:27 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bitte at 30-11-2010 02:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 02:26 AM
Quote from: bitte on 30-11-2010 02:24 AM
this topic is some how copied from the original


abeg, link me up with the original.....
never mind you commented on it too
Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:33 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- juleshotluv at 30-11-2010 02:34 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 30-11-2010 02:27 AM
Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 01:51 AM
Would you tell your friend, who is about or going to get married eventually if you found out that his/her partner is cheating on them?

Note: I didnt say the cheater was caught red handed. But you confirmed it that he/she cheats.....and what if the cheater cheats with best man to be or maid of honor to be? Would you not tell your friend or you will?


(i dont know if there is a topic on this before, so if there is, pardon my repetition)


No matter how close we are, and there's no prove of catching the other party cheating red handed, i will never make such mistake by telling anything. some people if you tell them such things, will still insist and marry the other party, later on, you will turn the biggest enemy for them because they will see you as a stumbling block to stop their happy relationship earlier by coming with such story.

Right!
Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:34 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- samboko at 30-11-2010 02:36 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bitte on 30-11-2010 02:33 AM
Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 02:26 AM
Quote from: bitte on 30-11-2010 02:24 AM
this topic is some how copied from the original


abeg, link me up with the original.....
never mind you commented on it too


Really? I have no clue bro....im serious i have no clue.....my post has been on my mind all day.....
Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:36 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mallorca at 30-11-2010 02:49 AM (14 years ago)
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lolzzz

Posted: at 30-11-2010 02:49 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- samboko at 30-11-2010 03:04 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 30-11-2010 02:27 AM
Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 01:51 AM
Would you tell your friend, who is about or going to get married eventually if you found out that his/her partner is cheating on them?

Note: I didnt say the cheater was caught red handed. But you confirmed it that he/she cheats.....and what if the cheater cheats with best man to be or maid of honor to be? Would you not tell your friend or you will?


(i dont know if there is a topic on this before, so if there is, pardon my repetition)


No matter how close we are, and there's no prove of catching the other party cheating red handed, i will never make such mistake by telling anything. some people if you tell them such things, will still insist and marry the other party, later on, you will turn the biggest enemy for them because they will see you as a stumbling block to stop their happy relationship earlier by coming with such story.



Dirtykid.....i'd wanted to say you caught the cheater red handed but the cheater didnt see/know you caught him/her.....


Juleshotluv, so if ur man is cheating on u, he will come and tell you or what are you saying? you will ask him or what?
Posted: at 30-11-2010 03:04 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bitte at 30-11-2010 03:12 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 02:36 AM
Quote from: bitte on 30-11-2010 02:33 AM
Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 02:26 AM
Quote from: bitte on 30-11-2010 02:24 AM
this topic is some how copied from the original


abeg, link me up with the original.....
never mind you commented on it too


Really? I have no clue bro....im serious i have no clue.....my post has been on my mind all day.....
cool don't worry your post is interesting...
Posted: at 30-11-2010 03:12 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- juleshotluv at 30-11-2010 03:17 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 03:04 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 30-11-2010 02:27 AM
Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 01:51 AM
Would you tell your friend, who is about or going to get married eventually if you found out that his/her partner is cheating on them?

Note: I didnt say the cheater was caught red handed. But you confirmed it that he/she cheats.....and what if the cheater cheats with best man to be or maid of honor to be? Would you not tell your friend or you will?


(i dont know if there is a topic on this before, so if there is, pardon my repetition)


No matter how close we are, and there's no prove of catching the other party cheating red handed, i will never make such mistake by telling anything. some people if you tell them such things, will still insist and marry the other party, later on, you will turn the biggest enemy for them because they will see you as a stumbling block to stop their happy relationship earlier by coming with such story.



Dirtykid.....i'd wanted to say you caught the cheater red handed but the cheater didnt see/know you caught him/her.....


Juleshotluv, so if ur man is cheating on u, he will come and tell you or what are you saying? you will ask him or what?

All I am saying is that it  cant be hear say...
Posted: at 30-11-2010 03:17 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 30-11-2010 03:28 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 03:04 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 30-11-2010 02:27 AM
Quote from: samboko on 30-11-2010 01:51 AM
Would you tell your friend, who is about or going to get married eventually if you found out that his/her partner is cheating on them?

Note: I didnt say the cheater was caught red handed. But you confirmed it that he/she cheats.....and what if the cheater cheats with best man to be or maid of honor to be? Would you not tell your friend or you will?


(i dont know if there is a topic on this before, so if there is, pardon my repetition)


No matter how close we are, and there's no prove of catching the other party cheating red handed, i will never make such mistake by telling anything. some people if you tell them such things, will still insist and marry the other party, later on, you will turn the biggest enemy for them because they will see you as a stumbling block to stop their happy relationship earlier by coming with such story.



Dirtykid.....i'd wanted to say you caught the cheater red handed but the cheater didnt see/know you caught him/her.....


Juleshotluv, so if ur man is cheating on u, he will come and tell you or what are you saying? you will ask him or what?

Ok, even if you caught the cheater red handed and he/she didn't know you did, then i suggest you talk it one on one private with the cheater to confirm actually if he/she did cheat, then after that if you're right, warn the cheater not to do it again, advise him/her to stick to your friend or you will expose that. and then keep quiet and watch if that will happen again. I will still advise you keep your peace if you see that your friend is in deep blue sea kind of Love with that cheater, because that will not stop them getting together even if you tell, but be ready to face the other rhythm, because is a must to come afterwards. 

Posted: at 30-11-2010 03:28 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Adikpe at 30-11-2010 09:00 AM (14 years ago)
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Me, I no go talk oo! I no wan scatter person marriage o!
Posted: at 30-11-2010 09:00 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sixtyhoneyy at 30-11-2010 09:54 AM (14 years ago)
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no comment
Posted: at 30-11-2010 09:54 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- simele at 30-11-2010 09:56 AM (14 years ago)
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WAITING
Posted: at 30-11-2010 09:56 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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