To the ladies! guys feel free to add opinions. A lady has two guys in her life, let's say she is double dating, and she cares about these guys. The first guy is less ambitious, but really cares so much for her. He is romantic as well! The problem with the first guy is that he has no future! no sound education, no job, no talent.. when she brings up a business idea he ignores her saying "Baby I've got plans"
The second guy is extremely focused, he has bright future ahead. He is less romantic... all he talks about is school, school, school.. he will rather watch 'discovery health channel' when he should be spending time with the girl. He cares about her too, but is career comes first. If you were this lady which of the guys will you choose, have in mind that both guys are willing to spend the rest of theri lives with you.
Posted: at 3-11-2008 03:16 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Hun! Am very ambitious and so can not be wit a guy wit none. Listen no relationship is perfect. So wot u'v got to ask urself is whether the relationship has the most important qualities that u need in a relationship? To me ambitious is more important than romance. Hell, i like romance, but i no dey carry am go bank and it no dey pay bills. If u really need romance dat bad then try and put some romance into the relationship u av wit the ambitious guy. But if not then well the choice is urs. As for me between ambition and romance- is definitly ambition.
Posted: at 3-11-2008 06:12 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
eagleseyez at 3-11-2008 08:28 PM (15 years ago) (m)
wuld romance pay the bills in the house when u tie the knot.? forget romance gurl...think of ur home, how u want it to be, wth time he's gna learn to be romantic...aint no big deal in it.
Posted: at 3-11-2008 08:28 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Hun! Am very ambitious and so can not be wit a guy wit none. Listen no relationship is perfect. So wot u'v got to ask urself is whether the relationship has the most important qualities that u need in a relationship? To me ambitious is more important than romance. Hell, i like romance, but i no dey carry am go bank and it no dey pay bills. If u really need romance dat bad then try and put some romance into the relationship u av wit the ambitious guy. But if not then well the choice is urs. As for me between ambition and romance- is definitly ambition.
couldn't have said it better my self.....think about your overall future, romance is only temporary and at the end of the day u are stuck with a romantic fool, that is of no use to u
live....love....laugh.....
Posted: at 3-11-2008 08:57 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
gen2esther at 21-12-2008 06:19 PM (15 years ago) (f)
I'd rather date the Ambitious guy, bcos with him the children will grow up and watch their father as a role model and will want to follow in his footstep i.e they will also want to be successful in life.
Posted: at 21-12-2008 06:19 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
peacetee at 21-12-2008 08:55 PM (15 years ago) (f)
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Quote from: gen2esther on 21-12-2008 06:19 PM
I'd rather date the Ambitious guy, bcos with him the children will grow up and watch their father as a role model and will want to follow in his footstep i.e they will also want to be successful in life.
Well said Sis
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Posted: at 21-12-2008 08:55 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
To the ladies! guys feel free to add opinions. A lady has two guys in her life, let's say she is double dating, and she cares about these guys. The first guy is less ambitious, but really cares so much for her. He is romantic as well! The problem with the first guy is that he has no future! no sound education, no job, no talent.. when she brings up a business idea he ignores her saying "Baby I've got plans" The second guy is extremely focused, he has bright future ahead. He is less romantic... all he talks about is school, school, school.. he will rather watch 'discovery health channel' when he should be spending time with the girl. He cares about her too, but is career comes first. If you were this lady which of the guys will you choose, have in mind that both guys are willing to spend the rest of theri lives with you.
Its up to the girl now... What does she want later in life, success with possibility of little or no romance, or love and romance with the possibility of no success. Mind you, Some things arent as important later as they appear to be now and with the prper form of motivation, any man will find passion enuf to earn good money. Choose Ur pick!
Posted: at 22-12-2008 04:18 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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