Lady Seeks Advice Whether She Should Travel Abroad For Masters Or Get Married

A young woman of 22 was asked by the man she was dating to choose between marriage and doing her master's in the United Kingdom with a fully-funded scholarship, and she was confused about what to do. Most Twitter users wanted her to drop the man like a bad habit and focus on her education because she is only 22. There is nothing wrong with getting married at 22; the only issue is when marriage stops her from pursuing her life’s goals.

A man who gives her such an ultimatum is not right for her; their goals do not align. If anything, they are poorly suited for each other and need to part ways as soon as possible. A person who loves us wants us to grow, to be better and to achieve our highest potential.

His insecurities may be a reason why he wouldn't want her to leave him and 'level up' or it could be that he cannot handle a long distance relationship but he could just break up the relationship without giving an ultimatum.
But will the decision to leave Nigeria and the man she loves hurt? Yes, and the nagging fear that she would never find someone else like him will trail behind her like the luggage she would carry to the airport – only heavier.

But our heart lies to us in the throes of heartbreak, healing happens, and we meet someone better, someone more aligned with our life goals.
what do you think?

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Posted: at 17-01-2022 01:06 PM (3 years ago) | Addicted Hero

The advice  is for you to go for your masters. That guy has no love for you. Men are there waiting for you. it is your  future and you don't have to joke with. You not have this opportunity again but men are always there seeking your hands in marriage. The boy wants to tie you down and he has nothing to offer. Think wisely, best wishes

Posted: at 17-01-2022 05:05 PM (3 years ago) | Upcoming