I think there should something called moderate in whatever we do. As much as i believe in freedom, freedom should also has control or else it could become madness like what we are experiencing today in europe and america. I chose to call it, freedom madness. I am sorry to add, some people really need to check if their senses are still in place in europe and america. Please get me clear, i love these countries. The country i admire so much in my life is America. But we need to learn more about this very word called, MODERATE.
On the other hand, in some Arab countries with due respect to them, i think things are also to the exstreme. Most of these women have no option. Like the picture we saw above, you see her covered to her nail but her husband is naked at the top. It is an old custom of bondage for women and freedom for men. A man can marry as much as four and a woman can marry one. A man can marry from wherever in the world and a woman can marry only muslim.
every human being knows what is good. The same with a lady whether she is from America or she is from Saudi Arabia. She knows how to dress decent and she knows how to be happy. She knows how to make her family proud. If she wants to be a prostitute, she will still be one no matter the cameras or security on her. The fact that they cover even their very eyes does not make them a saint. Just give people chance to express themselves. Let them be wrong and correct them.
Anyway, i dont mean to offend. let no one take offence. I am just expressing myself like others. I am not saying that i have answers to these things. Have a good weekend everyone.
The reason for forbidding a Muslim woman from marrying a non-Muslim, is that a Christian or a Jewish man believes only in his prophet, and doesn’t believe in prophet Mohamed Salla Allah Allih Wa Salam or any of the other prophets (blessing be upon them).
For example, when this Muslim woman, tries to teach her kids to love and respect all prophets and believe in all of them, her non-
Muslim husband will not agree, because he believes only in his prophet. He will interfere in the way she raises her kids, and prevents her from raising them in an Islamic way. And here comes the real problem, because she will have only two options, whether she leaves the whole thing as it is, and does nothing about it -which will be an insult to her religion- or she argues about the matter, and this will sure lead to more marital problems.
On the other hand, there will be no such problems between a Muslim husband, and a non Muslim wife, because if this wife tried to teach her kids to love and believe in her prophet, her Muslim husband will not refuse that because he already believes in her prophet and all prophets. This is why Islam allows the marriage between Muslim man and non-Muslim woman, and forbids the marriage between Muslim woman, and non-Muslim man. Because Islam respects the marital relationship and wants to guarantee its stability, not because it respects men, and disrespects women …
I hope you will fully understand.
IN ZAKA FADI, FADI GASKIYA, KOMAI TA JA MA A YI MAKA
Posted: at 14-12-2010 01:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero |
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