t's been a common phenomenon that some girls find guys attractive and chat them up. It happens such that, when the guy has little or no interest in them, they show a great deal of interest and sometimes talk them into a relationship.
I understand before the guy accepts such proposal, he might have been somewhat interested in the girl, and they both start to kick it. What do you think about this situation? Do you think it's normal for a woman to talk up a guy for a relationship? If you think so, why?
If your opinion is that it ain't normal, why? If it's happened to you before, can you share a little bit of your experience?
PS: In some parts of Africa, they see it as the woman throwing away her pride of womanhood.
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you!
Posted: at 29-12-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
juleshotluv at 29-12-2010 11:50 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Nowadays some women dont wait for men to approach them, they approach the men. if you see something you like, go for it right? that is boldness...
Posted: at 29-12-2010 11:50 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
chiglamour4u at 21-01-2011 05:47 PM (14 years ago) (f)
if u hv the boldness then y nt. but sm guys take datas an advantage to act as dey like in the relationship and nt taking it serious. moreover u the one dat ask him out dat will be on his head
Posted: at 21-01-2011 05:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
princedafe at 21-01-2011 06:41 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: omorewa on 29-12-2010 11:36 AM
t's been a common phenomenon that some girls find guys attractive and chat them up. It happens such that, when the guy has little or no interest in them, they show a great deal of interest and sometimes talk them into a relationship.
I understand before the guy accepts such proposal, he might have been somewhat interested in the girl, and they both start to kick it. What do you think about this situation? Do you think it's normal for a woman to talk up a guy for a relationship? If you think so, why?
If your opinion is that it ain't normal, why? If it's happened to you before, can you share a little bit of your experience?
PS: In some parts of Africa, they see it as the woman throwing away her pride of womanhood.
na UK u dey like me
it is normal.
end of story
Posted: at 21-01-2011 06:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
diplomatik at 22-01-2011 08:16 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: omorewa on 29-12-2010 11:36 AM
t's been a common phenomenon that some girls find guys attractive and chat them up. It happens such that, when the guy has little or no interest in them, they show a great deal of interest and sometimes talk them into a relationship.
I understand before the guy accepts such proposal, he might have been somewhat interested in the girl, and they both start to kick it. What do you think about this situation? Do you think it's normal for a woman to talk up a guy for a relationship? If you think so, why?
If your opinion is that it ain't normal, why? If it's happened to you before, can you share a little bit of your experience?
PS: In some parts of Africa, they see it as the woman throwing away her pride of womanhood.
i don't see anything wrong with it, sometimes the guy might be shy..but for me personally i prefer the guy get at me
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 22-01-2011 08:16 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
well,for me i see nothing wrong with that,but it depends also if the guy is ready for the relationship.what i mean is ,if the guy will not take that as an advantage,using the word ,cheap gurl.
Posted: at 22-01-2011 09:25 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
interpo77 at 22-01-2011 09:45 PM (14 years ago) (m)
lets forget about african mentality nd western world,it is normal nd i mean gud when a man talk u to a relationship, a 99 percent of relations that last long was the architect of men .is not bad a gul asking a guy out but think if u really need the relationship cos men take it as an advantage ,( afterall no be u ask me out)
Posted: at 22-01-2011 09:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
i dont see anytin wrong in it , jst dat in dis part of d world, d guy may later take d girl 4 granted nd ready to bring it to her attention at any slightest provocation dat, she is d one dat came 4 him afterall
Posted: at 22-01-2011 10:06 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie