The Family Zone (Page 6)

Quote from: 2spicy4u on  2-01-2011 06:18 AM

My confession is: I like a family friend(my mom's friend son) and don't know if I should tell him or not. He calls me sister cause we grew up together and it's hard cause I like him. we r pretty close ( we call each other, txt,skype) just name the whole 9 yard. I don't know what to do should i tell? will he get mad? am confuse here.

Hmm usually family friend's & mother of childrens usually encourag that kind of thing, we'll i wouldn't advise u 2 do what i cna't & also i am not in dat position but i guess i ave been in close-type of positions it's just weird tho but if u guys r close u should try get it over 2 him he might just feel d same way.

Gudluck!

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Posted: at 4-01-2011 03:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

I think in my humble opinion. there is nothing wrong letting him know your feelings,forget about the name calling,wishing you the best

Posted: at 4-01-2011 05:14 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

abeg come tell me too , me too i like to call u SIS

Posted: at 4-01-2011 10:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Forget him and keep ur respect. I think what u feel for him is lust & nt love.

Posted: at 4-01-2011 11:06 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

hmmm

Posted: at 4-01-2011 12:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

I do know something which is very important... pretty, i will like you to consider two things: 1... do you think he feels the same about you? 2... do you know if he has Girl friend? ...i want you to know that there is nothing wrong with that... in as much as you are not from the same mother or father...

Posted: at 4-01-2011 12:44 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Girl I will advice that you go for it now that the two of you are still single, is better for you to do it now and if he say’s NO then so be it that you will later find out that he also have the same filling for you and also he is a shame to take the NO answer.

And then may be the two of you later find different partners and then find our that the two of you fill the same way for each other then you will start been unfaithful to your partner, so Girl as for me take a step now what ever the out come is part of life experience as along as the two of you are not related is just family friend.

People will say what ever they want to say but remember that you are not in this world to make people happy but to make yourself happy.

Posted: at 4-01-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

sis...u can go ahead and tell him wat u feel for him,i've tried it once and it worked for though i messed up the whole thing.tell him ur mind but be careful not to have sex with him now..

Posted: at 4-01-2011 01:07 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Abeggi, gbagbe e e u are sister to brother, why can't u forget about anything called self love, u can love each other on a ground level, don't take it to partner's level. No spoil the guy o, let the guy say it himself, and if he doesn't gbagbe ee. Go out and look for another guy. There might be sometin u like about the guy, that's true but go outside and search u will surely see more than that in so many guys out there.

Posted: at 4-01-2011 04:41 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Girl, who are you deceiving? no one here is a baby. You and that your so call small family friend have been dating in the dark.
Now you want to make it open because you are really deap in what was supose to be one night stand.
If you open up to tell me the truth, then i will profile him for you in your best interest, but if you are really telling the truth that nothing has happened, then don't let anything happen to the family relationship over the years because of your segxwal ego.

Posted: at 4-01-2011 10:38 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie