We into a 4yr relationship now and we were so much in love,but for the past few months things have not being ok.We both in our early twenties now,he uses a BB and i dont,he dosent care again n alwyz on his fone chatting even when i talk to him he prefers smiling to his fone and many more crazy things happening. Now i ask him if he his tired of me,he says his tired of our every day quarell but not me and so i am,but d problem is each time i ask for a break up he does not answer me,e tells me no! I dont double date n i can neva and not even a male friend, he knows that and am thinking thats y his taking me 4 granted....i really dont know what to do cause am really tired and things are becoming worse for me,i end up crying everyday each time i think of him,his really bad to me now and each time i try us talking about it off,it courses another quarel and his never ready 2 listen 2 me...This a new year and i dont want myself down again,please wat do u think i can do? Let him go? Stay wiv him in pains n hope things get better?
Hey gal, the first question you have to ask yourself is, "do you intend to marrying this guy?" 4yrs in a sincere and peaceful relationship until lately is not what i will advice you to just let go. Dont mind all the people advising you to get out, how many of them can sacrifice 4yr into one relationship and throw it away because a problem arises? Dont married couple fight, quarrel and even keep malice sometimes yet ended up to resolve the issue? Please, pick advice carefully. When you see a relationship without hardship pls dont hesitate to post it here.
Besides, if both of you guys are still in early 20s im afraid one of you will soon abandon the relationship. Guys in early 20 dont think of getting married when they can get 10s of beautiful gals out there instead of staying with one from early age. It is boring staying with one gal when you still have a long way to settle down. The guy is having his moment and trust me, 100 of you cant stop him! And thats a bitter advice, isn't?
For you to love him more than he loves you already shows that the relationship will probably wont go anywhere near marriage. Im sorry to say that. Go and check it out (i dont have stat on it tho), most relationships end up in marriage because the guy love most! 99% woman love against 1% man love do not magnet any man into marriage!
The only cunning way any woman can marry the man she loves most, which is nothing working on most guys is pregnancy. Get pregnant and some men will settle for it just to avoid polygamy.
Posted: at 4-01-2011 02:34 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming |
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