my relationship is really complicated now,should i let him go??? (Page 2)

Date: 03-01-2011 3:42 pm (13 years ago) | Author: oladapo olawumi
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- DiannaB at 4-01-2011 02:11 AM (13 years ago)
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NEVER LOVE ANY MAN MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF, AND NEVER SACRIFICE YOUR HAPPINESS ESPECIALLY IF HE'S NOT WILLING TO MEET YOU HALF WAY
Posted: at 4-01-2011 02:11 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 4-01-2011 02:29 AM (13 years ago)
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give him a break..not a breakup...since he needs his space give it to him..let him miss you...if he see that you doesn't call any longer or he doesn't see you anymore..he will keep wanderling what is going on with you....then he will come back to his right sense and call to you..to ask for come back.
Posted: at 4-01-2011 02:29 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- samboko at 4-01-2011 02:34 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: lahwummie on  3-01-2011 03:42 PM
We into a 4yr relationship now and we were so much in love,but for the past few months things have not being ok.We both in our early twenties now,he uses a BB and i dont,he dosent care again n alwyz on his fone chatting even when i talk to him he prefers smiling to his fone and many more crazy things happening.  Now i ask him if he his tired of me,he says his tired of our every day quarell but not me and so i am,but d problem is each time i ask for a break up he does not answer me,e tells me no! I dont double date n i can neva and not even a male friend, he knows that and am thinking thats y his taking me 4 granted....i really dont know what to do cause am really tired and things are becoming worse for me,i end up crying everyday each time i think of him,his really bad to me now and each time i try us talking about it off,it courses another quarel and his never ready 2 listen 2 me...This a new year and i dont want myself down again,please wat do u think i can do? Let him go? Stay wiv him in pains n hope things get better?

Hey gal, the first question you have to ask yourself is, "do you intend to marrying this guy?" 4yrs in a sincere and peaceful relationship until lately is not what i will advice you to just let go. Dont mind all the people advising you to get out, how many of them can sacrifice 4yr into one relationship and throw it away because a problem arises? Dont married couple fight, quarrel and even keep malice sometimes yet ended up to resolve the issue? Please, pick advice carefully. When you see a relationship without hardship pls dont hesitate to post it here.

Besides, if both of you guys are still in early 20s im afraid one of you will soon abandon the relationship. Guys in early 20 dont think of getting married when they can get 10s of beautiful gals out there instead of staying with one from early age. It is boring staying with one gal when you still have a long way to settle down. The guy is having his moment and trust me, 100 of you cant stop him! And thats a bitter advice, isn't?

For you to love him more than he loves you already shows that the relationship will probably wont go anywhere near marriage. Im sorry to say that. Go and check it out (i dont have stat on it tho), most relationships end up in marriage because the guy love most! 99% woman love against 1% man love do not magnet any man into marriage!

The only cunning way any woman can marry the man she loves most, which is nothing working on most guys is pregnancy. Get pregnant and some men will settle for it just to avoid polygamy.
Posted: at 4-01-2011 02:34 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- samboko at 4-01-2011 02:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  4-01-2011 02:29 AM
give him a break..not a breakup...since he needs his space give it to him..let him miss you...if he see that you doesn't call any longer or he doesn't see you anymore..he will keep wanderling what is going on with you....then he will come back to his right sense and call to you..to ask for come back.

makes a lot of senses to me. More like the saying, "if you think the person you are with dont appreciate you, step aside for awhile, if you are valued he/she will come back for you"
Posted: at 4-01-2011 02:36 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- misty120 at 4-01-2011 03:26 AM (13 years ago)
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Letting go can be painful...but staying in a relationship that no longer bring you happiness is more painful. Maybe it is going to take him losing you...before he can realize what you mean to him and just maybe.....by breaking up, you will open the door for Mr Treat You Right to walk in.....Do what you have to do for your own peace of mind and happiness
Posted: at 4-01-2011 03:26 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- justceetah at 4-01-2011 05:38 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: DiannaB on  4-01-2011 02:11 AM
NEVER LOVE ANY MAN MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF, AND NEVER SACRIFICE YOUR HAPPINESS ESPECIALLY IF HE'S NOT WILLING TO MEET YOU HALF WAY
hmm
Posted: at 4-01-2011 05:38 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pointzero at 4-01-2011 05:39 AM (13 years ago)
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.......windows shutting down.......
Posted: at 4-01-2011 05:39 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- justceetah at 4-01-2011 05:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  4-01-2011 02:29 AM
give him a break..not a breakup...since he needs his space give it to him..let him miss you...if he see that you doesn't call any longer or he doesn't see you anymore..he will keep wanderling what is going on with you....then he will come back to his right sense and call to you..to ask for come back.
taking note
Posted: at 4-01-2011 05:41 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 5-01-2011 12:20 AM (13 years ago)
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take note wel well
Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:20 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ucheblack22 at 5-01-2011 05:23 AM (13 years ago)
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Look girlfriend, asking for break up gives him more room to hurt u, u love him but believe u me, he loves u no more, his BB has got him more girls so, instead of asking for break up, break up n find ur happiness else where unless u dont want to be happy. I would rather be alone than be in arelationship tha does not make me happy. chikina
Posted: at 5-01-2011 05:23 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- anifel20 at 5-01-2011 05:30 AM (13 years ago)
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I guess u must have read all the comment here.......just sing craig david.....i'm walking away if u really want to break up......Just do it and get it over with. Technology is a major cause of break up in relationship, he has found a new love in his BB.....so u just buy wakaman. Stop calling him, stop visiting him, stop picking his calls for a start and see if he changes.
Having Male friends does not mean u are double dating, for u info.
Posted: at 5-01-2011 05:30 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Veevuzela at 5-01-2011 05:53 AM (13 years ago)
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i no fit shout...9ja pple n BB...dis oyibo machine will cause more harm dan gud Smiley
Posted: at 5-01-2011 05:53 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 5-01-2011 10:35 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Veevuzela on  5-01-2011 05:53 AM
i no fit shout...9ja pple n BB...dis oyibo machine will cause more harm dan gud Smiley
lol oyibo machine....then a lot of tins go harm u oo
Posted: at 5-01-2011 10:35 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kinkino at 5-01-2011 12:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  5-01-2011 10:35 AM
Quote from: Veevuzela on  5-01-2011 05:53 AM
i no fit shout...9ja pple n BB...dis oyibo machine will cause more harm dan gud Smiley
lol oyibo machine....then a lot of tins go harm u oo


d oyinbo machin dey caus katakata ooooo
Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 5-01-2011 12:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kinkino on  5-01-2011 12:09 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  5-01-2011 10:35 AM
Quote from: Veevuzela on  5-01-2011 05:53 AM
i no fit shout...9ja pple n BB...dis oyibo machine will cause more harm dan gud Smiley
lol oyibo machine....then a lot of tins go harm u oo


d oyinbo machin dey caus katakata ooooo
no b d machine na  Cheesy btw katakata is also a plant  Smiley
Posted: at 5-01-2011 12:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mazi at 6-01-2011 01:50 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: lahwummie on  3-01-2011 03:42 PM
We into a 4yr relationship now and we were so much in love,but for the past few months things have not being ok.We both in our early twenties now,he uses a BB and i dont,he dosent care again n alwyz on his fone chatting even when i talk to him he prefers smiling to his fone and many more crazy things happening.  Now i ask him if he his tired of me,he says his tired of our every day quarell but not me and so i am,but d problem is each time i ask for a break up he does not answer me,e tells me no! I dont double date n i can neva and not even a male friend, he knows that and am thinking thats y his taking me 4 granted....i really dont know what to do cause am really tired and things are becoming worse for me,i end up crying everyday each time i think of him,his really bad to me now and each time i try us talking about it off,it courses another quarel and his never ready 2 listen 2 me...This a new year and i dont want myself down again,please wat do u think i can do? Let him go? Stay wiv him in pains n hope things get better?

u better start looking for d black goat in d day time b4 nite comes.
Posted: at 6-01-2011 01:50 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Saeed1010 at 7-01-2011 12:58 AM (13 years ago)
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Read inbetween d lines...i knw it's gonna b hard bt i'd advice u 2 4get abt him n move on wit ur life cos it's obvious dat he doesn't need u n he's 2 selfish 2 let u go...there's no point stayn in a relationship dat brings u PAINS!!!
Posted: at 7-01-2011 12:58 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- truthisbitter at 7-01-2011 12:38 PM (13 years ago)
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E NO HAPPY SAY E SEE WHO LOVE AM.......E DEY BEHAVE LIKE SMALL BOY......BCOS E NO SAY YOU TOO MUCH LOVE AM............DISCHARGE THE MONKEY...I DEY HERE
Posted: at 7-01-2011 12:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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