my relationship is really complicated now,should i let him go???

Date: 03-01-2011 3:42 pm (14 years ago) | Author: oladapo olawumi
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- at 3-01-2011 03:42 PM (14 years ago)
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We into a 4yr relationship now and we were so much in love,but for the past few months things have not being ok.We both in our early twenties now,he uses a BB and i dont,he dosent care again n alwyz on his fone chatting even when i talk to him he prefers smiling to his fone and many more crazy things happening.  Now i ask him if he his tired of me,he says his tired of our every day quarell but not me and so i am,but d problem is each time i ask for a break up he does not answer me,e tells me no! I dont double date n i can neva and not even a male friend, he knows that and am thinking thats y his taking me 4 granted....i really dont know what to do cause am really tired and things are becoming worse for me,i end up crying everyday each time i think of him,his really bad to me now and each time i try us talking about it off,it courses another quarel and his never ready 2 listen 2 me...This a new year and i dont want myself down again,please wat do u think i can do? Let him go? Stay wiv him in pains n hope things get better?

Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:42 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- onyiis at 3-01-2011 03:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Any relationship that you are not happy abaut should be deleted

Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 3-01-2011 03:46 PM (14 years ago)
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If you really want to break up,why are you waiting for his approval?
It seems you can't let it go,probably because u really love this guy,but do you really want an one sided relationship?

Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 3-01-2011 03:49 PM (14 years ago)
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u deserve happiness and if d relationship is making usad den let it go but try  talkin to him ask him what d problem is (2nd Q)  ask him if he loves u(1st Q) if his answer takes time be careful
Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 03:49 PM (14 years ago)
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U dnt need to consult babalawo to tell u say dat d guy don tire......simple

Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 3-01-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago)
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U DIS POINTZERO
Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 3-01-2011 03:54 PM (14 years ago)
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when a door closes , a window will open somewhere

Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 03:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  3-01-2011 03:52 PM
U DIS POINTZERO

Wetin I do?

Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 3-01-2011 03:59 PM (14 years ago)
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u talk true

Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 04:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on  3-01-2011 03:59 PM
u talk true
Thanx ma dear

Posted: at 3-01-2011 04:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 3-01-2011 04:07 PM (14 years ago)
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you ask for a break up?.no need to ask for break,just do the job.well,you both should take a break.stay away from each other for awhile.if its really meant to be,it will be.if he miss you ,then he will change.but if he dont miss you,then he wont even call you no more.
Posted: at 3-01-2011 04:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 04:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Learnin

Posted: at 3-01-2011 04:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- justceetah at 3-01-2011 04:22 PM (14 years ago)
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I guess ur answer is already in ur post "break up or stay with him in pains". My dear its clear u've been showering him with luv thatz why he's behaving dis way.He doesn't deserve u so make up ur mind quick cos this is a new year and its won't to start in a sad mood

Posted: at 3-01-2011 04:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- juleshotluv at 3-01-2011 05:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lahwummie on  3-01-2011 03:42 PM
We into a 4yr relationship now and we were so much in love,but for the past few months things have not being ok.We both in our early twenties now,he uses a BB and i dont,he dosent care again n alwyz on his fone chatting even when i talk to him he prefers smiling to his fone and many more crazy things happening.  Now i ask him if he his tired of me,he says his tired of our every day quarell but not me and so i am,but d problem is each time i ask for a break up he does not answer me,e tells me no! I dont double date n i can neva and not even a male friend, he knows that and am thinking thats y his taking me 4 granted....i really dont know what to do cause am really tired and things are becoming worse for me,i end up crying everyday each time i think of him,his really bad to me now and each time i try us talking about it off,it courses another quarel and his never ready 2 listen 2 me...This a new year and i dont want myself down again,please wat do u think i can do? Let him go? Stay wiv him in pains n hope things get better?


Wait, do you need his permission to walkout of the relationship? Are you tire down or something? Undecided
Posted: at 3-01-2011 05:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 05:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Maybe na carpenter hammered her with a nail to d guys life

Posted: at 3-01-2011 05:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- juleshotluv at 3-01-2011 05:17 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Pointzero on  3-01-2011 05:14 PM
Maybe na carpenter hammered her with a nail to d guys life

Oh ok, I see! I would advice that carpenter to unhammer her and set her free.  Undecided
Posted: at 3-01-2011 05:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 05:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: juleshotluv on  3-01-2011 05:17 PM
Quote from: Pointzero on  3-01-2011 05:14 PM
Maybe na carpenter hammered her with a nail to d guys life

Oh ok, I see! I would advice that carpenter to unhammer her and set her free.  Undecided

Yeap pls let him use his pinchers to remove d nail

Posted: at 3-01-2011 05:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 3-01-2011 05:19 PM (14 years ago)
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If ur not happy u shud end d relationship.... He is tired of fighting and u will

keep bringing d fight up cos u dont understand his behaviour....
Posted: at 3-01-2011 05:19 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- juleshotluv at 3-01-2011 05:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Pointzero on  3-01-2011 05:18 PM
Quote from: juleshotluv on  3-01-2011 05:17 PM
Quote from: Pointzero on  3-01-2011 05:14 PM
Maybe na carpenter hammered her with a nail to d guys life

Oh ok, I see! I would advice that carpenter to unhammer her and set her free.  Undecided

Yeap pls let him use his pinchers to remove d nail

Nah, she has to do it..you can only do so far by advising her. Whatever happen after that is her own problem.
Posted: at 3-01-2011 05:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pointzero at 3-01-2011 05:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: juleshotluv on  3-01-2011 05:21 PM
Quote from: Pointzero on  3-01-2011 05:18 PM
Quote from: juleshotluv on  3-01-2011 05:17 PM
Quote from: Pointzero on  3-01-2011 05:14 PM
Maybe na carpenter hammered her with a nail to d guys life

Oh ok, I see! I would advice that carpenter to unhammer her and set her free.  Undecided

Yeap pls let him use his pinchers to remove d nail

Nah, she has to do it..you can only do so far by advising her. Whatever happen after that is her own problem.
So ur point is dat I ve to stay clear right?

Posted: at 3-01-2011 05:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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