Why do most women always go back to an abusive relationship? (Page 2)

Date: 10-01-2011 1:40 pm (13 years ago) | Author: christiana etukakapn
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- clevy4me at 10-01-2011 02:41 PM (13 years ago)
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>>>>>>>>>>>onyin   what is the name of this love? cos as far as i know love does not include abuse whether physical or segxwal abuse.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:41 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 10-01-2011 02:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 02:30 PM
>>>>>>>>>>>>KENNE  each time i approach she is always swearing never to go back again, she claims she always find herself always going back.... she even confuse of how she was beaten to coma..... she is equally confuse and needs help.... millions are out there and needs our help.

Abeg She's just Plain Stupid

Stop Stressing yurself for her

In fact, Chase her away whenever She Comes to yu

Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mazi at 10-01-2011 02:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 10-01-2011 02:36 PM
its love.

Adanne....no be love.
it's alotta stupid things combined bt  love.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 10-01-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 02:41 PM
>>>>>>>>>>>onyin   what is the name of this love? cos as far as i know love does not include abuse whether physical or segxwal abuse.
everyone has their own personal reasons for loving sumone.the reason why i love my man ,can not be the same reason why you love your own man.you can find my man rude and i know he's rude but i can neva leave him for that.instead i will want to stick wit him and might even love him more.why?. i'm the only one who can understand him.that does not mean I'm enjoying it though..but if those women still feel comfortable wit the men,then good for them.but i pray they dont end up blind or sumthin.dont get me wrong.i dont and will neva support abuse. its bad,most guys do take advantage.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 10-01-2011 02:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 02:32 PM
>>>Kebella  physically abused.



U MEAN   OR    Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:59 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 10-01-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 10-01-2011 02:54 PM
Quote from: onyin on 10-01-2011 02:36 PM
its love.

Adanne....no be love.
it's alotta stupid things combined bt  love.

lol.true talk..its bad,very bad.allowing a man to turn you into sumthing else.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 10-01-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: shaoyang on 10-01-2011 02:33 PM
11inches
Quote from: kebella on 10-01-2011 02:24 PM
HOW OLD BIG IS THE KOKO B4 I COMMENT

11inches


 Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sobeit at 10-01-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 01:40 PM
a great bang and kicking and lots of abusive words was rained on her and she swore she would never return....... weeks after she was sighted again with d guy laughing all d way and that same night of reconciliation she was abused again.... yet she keeps on coming back.... so i wonder.... WHAT IS IT THAT ALWAYS BRING HER BACK.....WHAT DOES HE  HAVE THAT MAKES HER ALWAYS COME BACK TO HIM?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh??
hmm many things are involved,including love i guess
Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 10-01-2011 03:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 02:09 PM
>>Dirtykid if u overhead them, did u ask them why they like such manners...... this is what i want to know.  >>>> divineproject.... what of those the parent never fought? >>>> laydeelaracraft  if it is sex that makes her  attached to him.......  does she ever wonder what will happen if she looses the hush for sex from this ill treatment(beatings)?

I think she's kinda addicted to the beating from the man, Maybe at the end of it follows rough sex, actually some women like it hard way the only way.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 10-01-2011 03:05 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster i like this topic so much

i ve related cases around ma environment oooooooo
meself dey wonder y them dey go back

merciless beatings, abused and pushed into d gutters, brake d cell phone
if she refuse to see him, he will block her on her way to work beating and rendering curses

sometimes i wonder if these kain of men are human beings or animal
cos me i never see as them turn women who are suppose to be pampered into a wrestling ring oooooo
Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 10-01-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 10-01-2011 01:51 PM
But i over heard most ladies regarding such relationship as the best, They like tough guys with such manners, is that not true ??
in ma own case it is not true
among d r/ships ve kept so far, i ve never met a tough guy

u want beat me say i be ya house girl or ya children?
abeggi spare me jor
Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 10-01-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 02:09 PM
>>Dirtykid if u overhead them, did u ask them why they like such manners...... this is what i want to know.  >>>> divineproject.... what of those the parent never fought? >>>> laydeelaracraft  if it is sex that makes her  attached to him.......  does she ever wonder what will happen if she looses the hush for sex from this ill treatment(beatings)?

Probably somehow these type of ladies have come to see beating as a normal thing.......I cant tell why they allow such..........but me, myself, I wont allow such

Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 10-01-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago)
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What do you expect before from a man that is taking too many of this and this The answer is this

Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- moniconyez at 10-01-2011 03:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 01:40 PM
a great bang and kicking and lots of abusive words was rained on her and she swore she would never return....... weeks after she was sighted again with d guy laughing all d way and that same night of reconciliation she was abused again.... yet she keeps on coming back.... so i wonder.... WHAT IS IT THAT ALWAYS BRING HER BACK.....WHAT DOES HE  HAVE THAT MAKES HER ALWAYS COME BACK TO HIM?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh??

Simple Answer............L.O.V.E  Brings and will keep on bringing her back back back and BACK.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 10-01-2011 03:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 10-01-2011 03:09 PM
Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 02:09 PM
>>Dirtykid if u overhead them, did u ask them why they like such manners...... this is what i want to know.  >>>> divineproject.... what of those the parent never fought? >>>> laydeelaracraft  if it is sex that makes her  attached to him.......  does she ever wonder what will happen if she looses the hush for sex from this ill treatment(beatings)?

Probably somehow these type of ladies have come to see beating as a normal thing.......I cant tell why they allow such..........but me, myself, I wont allow such

Probably you're right , or some of them get addicted to their BF hitting them up little little, that grows to the height of beaten them to coma, and still they keep coming back seeing it as normal.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 10-01-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 10-01-2011 03:11 PM
What do you expect before from a man that is taking too many of this and this The answer is this

there are some men that doesnt do any of these things yet they behave like that
and there are some that does that and behave very normal
i think its an individual thing
Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- samboko at 10-01-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago)
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its love! if its not love what else can it be? didnt they say love endures?
Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sobeit at 10-01-2011 03:23 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster..actually some don't enjoy the abuse or what ever.is just that the physical & psychological trauma has taken over them,
whereby creating this atmospheric confusion ...they just don't know what they're doing to be frank with you.
they needs serious help from somebody that understand their dilemma.
if not,it can leads to suicide.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 10-01-2011 03:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 10-01-2011 03:11 PM
What do you expect before from a man that is taking too many of this and this The answer is this

 
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked


Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 10-01-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 10-01-2011 03:17 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 10-01-2011 03:11 PM
What do you expect before from a man that is taking too many of this and this The answer is this

there are some men that doesnt do any of these things yet they behave like that
and there are some that does that and behave very normal
i think its an individual thing


Maybe those ones you think they don't take They do it secretly  Grin Grin Coming around like they didn't.

I understand, most people engage in such act are been carried away by some silly forces, in most cases is even some of the ladies that will trigger what will lead to this kind of men to beat them up, Because they will always came up with the ideas that will make them start using belt on them. and the ladies doing this knew what will come next once they trigger it. I think for such thing to stop, the ladies that have this kind of men in their life should learn how to control every situation that will lead to beaten or hitting them.
They should be extra wise with such men.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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