a great bang and kicking and lots of abusive words was rained on her and she swore she would never return....... weeks after she was sighted again with d guy laughing all d way and that same night of reconciliation she was abused again.... yet she keeps on coming back.... so i wonder.... WHAT IS IT THAT ALWAYS BRING HER BACK.....WHAT DOES HE HAVE THAT MAKES HER ALWAYS COME BACK TO HIM??
Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:40 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Treasure2 at 10-01-2011 01:44 PM (14 years ago) (f)
She does not knw what she want for her self or she is dependent on the dude.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
clevy4me at 10-01-2011 01:48 PM (14 years ago) (f)
this lady is working and most of them are working class ladies..... so being dependent might not really be the issue...... and if she does not know what she wants, why does she think she needs him?
Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:48 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
this lady is working and most of them are working class ladies..... so being dependent might not really be the issue...... and if she does not know what she wants, why does she think she needs him?
being dependent doesnt always mean financially, it cud b emotional attachment, or maybe she is addicted to sex with him
Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 10-01-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 10-01-2011 01:56 PM
Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 01:48 PM
this lady is working and most of them are working class ladies..... so being dependent might not really be the issue...... and if she does not know what she wants, why does she think she needs him?
being dependent doesnt always mean financially, it cud b emotional attachment, or maybe she is addicted to sex with him
Exactly!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 10-01-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago) (f)
I cant stay in an abusive relationship..........
My take is that it is either that such ladies were physically abused as kids or probably they saw as their dads beat up their mums and so they have come to see it as a normal thing.......but for people like yours faithfully who never got beaten by my dad, I cant stand a man that physically abuse me............am fragile!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
@ poster- ur title, dont yu mean SOMETIMES? not all women go back to an abusive relationship. In ansa to ur question it cud also b family pressure too n effect of this on their reputation. Sum might even go as far as blaming themselve for not doing enuf to make their marriage successful.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
some women liked to be controlled in a hard way. in fact some ppl hv orgasm through violent treatment. violence pumps some form of segxwal adrenalin in their system. it's all abt segxwal trait nothing to do wit love or financial dependence.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
clevy4me at 10-01-2011 02:09 PM (14 years ago) (f)
>>Dirtykid if u overhead them, did u ask them why they like such manners...... this is what i want to know. >>>> divineproject.... what of those the parent never fought? >>>> laydeelaracraft if it is sex that makes her attached to him....... does she ever wonder what will happen if she looses the hush for sex from this ill treatment(beatings)?
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
princedafe at 10-01-2011 02:10 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 01:40 PM
a great bang and kicking and lots of abusive words was rained on her and she swore she would never return....... weeks after she was sighted again with d guy laughing all d way and that same night of reconciliation she was abused again.... yet she keeps on coming back.... so i wonder.... WHAT IS IT THAT ALWAYS BRING HER BACK.....WHAT DOES HE HAVE THAT MAKES HER ALWAYS COME BACK TO HIM??
THEY ARE PLAIN DUMB AND STUPID(PDS)
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My take is that it is either that such ladies were physically abused as kids or probably they saw as their dads beat up their mums and so they have come to see it as a normal thing.......but for people like yours faithfully who never got beaten by my dad, I cant stand a man that physically abuse me............am fragile!
PLS BROS SHE IS FRAGILE HANDLE WITH UTMOST CARE OR .............
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
clevy4me at 10-01-2011 02:19 PM (14 years ago) (f)
>>>ladeelaracraft i mean MOST times cos it is becoming rampant.... this ladies do regret having this men around them and often times promised never to go back but before u know it they are already in their arms, knowing so well that if it leads to marriage it could be deadly..... >>>> mazi i wonder why someone will love to be torn apart during sex and after sex all in d name of pleasure... they shd be educated on the pleasure others derives from being touched or treated with care and gentleness. >>> prince dave.... u might call them that but can we figure out what they may always be thinking and proffer if not an answer a remedy for it?
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:19 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
a great bang and kicking and lots of abusive words was rained on her and she swore she would never return....... weeks after she was sighted again with d guy laughing all d way and that same night of reconciliation she was abused again.... yet she keeps on coming back.... so i wonder.... WHAT IS IT THAT ALWAYS BRING HER BACK.....WHAT DOES HE HAVE THAT MAKES HER ALWAYS COME BACK TO HIM??
Yu can Ask her
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:21 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
clevy4me at 10-01-2011 02:30 PM (14 years ago) (f)
>>>>>>>>>>>>KENNE each time i approach she is always swearing never to go back again, she claims she always find herself always going back.... she even confuse of how she was beaten to coma..... she is equally confuse and needs help.... millions are out there and needs our help.
Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:30 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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