Why do most women always go back to an abusive relationship?

a great bang and kicking and lots of abusive words was rained on her and she swore she would never return....... weeks after she was sighted again with d guy laughing all d way and that same night of reconciliation she was abused again.... yet she keeps on coming back.... so i wonder.... WHAT IS IT THAT ALWAYS BRING HER BACK.....WHAT DOES HE  HAVE THAT MAKES HER ALWAYS COME BACK TO HIM??

Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

this lady is working and most of them are working class ladies..... so being dependent might not really be the issue...... and if she does not know what she wants, why does she think she needs him?

Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:48 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

being dependent doesnt always mean financially, it cud b emotional attachment, or maybe she is addicted to sex with him

Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I cant stay in an abusive relationship..........

My take is that it is either that such ladies were physically abused as kids or probably they saw as their dads beat up their mums and so they have come to see it as a normal thing.......but for people like yours faithfully who never got beaten by my dad, I cant stand a man that physically abuse me............am fragile!

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Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

some women liked to be controlled in a hard way. in fact some ppl hv orgasm through violent treatment.
violence  pumps some form of segxwal adrenalin in their system.
it's all abt segxwal trait nothing to do wit love or financial dependence.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

THEY ARE PLAIN DUMB AND STUPID(PDS)

Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

>>>ladeelaracraft i mean MOST times cos it is becoming rampant.... this ladies do regret having this men around them and often times promised never to go back but before u know it they are already in their arms, knowing so well that if it leads to marriage it could be deadly..... >>>> mazi i wonder why someone will love to be torn apart during sex and after sex all in d name of pleasure... they shd be educated on the pleasure others derives from being touched or treated with care and gentleness. >>> prince dave.... u might call them that but can we figure out what they may always be thinking and proffer if not an answer a remedy for it?

Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:19 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

HOW OLD BIG IS THE KOKO B4 I COMMENT

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Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:24 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

>>>>>>>>>>>>KENNE  each time i approach she is always swearing never to go back again, she claims she always find herself always going back.... she even confuse of how she was beaten to coma..... she is equally confuse and needs help.... millions are out there and needs our help.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

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Posted: at 10-01-2011 02:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac