Why do most women always go back to an abusive relationship? (Page 4)

Quote from: clevy4me on 10-01-2011 01:48 PM

this lady is working and most of them are working class ladies..... so being dependent might not really be the issue...... and if she does not know what she wants, why does she think she needs him?

There is always an issue of dependence, just not economical. It could be social, physical or emotional. There is always a degree of psychology behind any issue whether they are conscious or unconscious. The mind is very intricate and to fully understand it is nearly impossible. We can't know what we simply don't know and there are many things we feel we may have a grasp on and really do not. She could be working class but have the mindset that having a relationship is better than not. Especially with my experience in the culture..just witnessing several different circumstances, that view that marriage and relationships "looks" better than being single has trapped so many people in nonsensical and destructive situations. I have seen people die in them as well. So..there are so many levels to the argument..not just one viewpoint.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 07:54 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

@johnjasi. may thunder ravish your penis.it is short bodied and mistake for a human being like you that always think every answer is in your penis...nonsense.eran.mtchewwwwww. @ngeri well said my sister..

Posted: at 10-01-2011 08:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Either those women have a rough past, maybe she is scared to be alone, or financialy unstabel,
or she 'enjoys' the beating in a way tht this might be the only physical attention she get from her husband?

Do they have children? Are they married? Do u knw if she is happy with her sexlife?

Posted: at 10-01-2011 08:11 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Beating is not the problem when the love is there.

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Posted: at 10-01-2011 08:25 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

some don't know how to get out the situation ,
my ex was in the same problem be/4 she meet me
and i saved her from the predicament

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Posted: at 10-01-2011 08:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Most Africans women, even with the exposure and education still have some degree of dependency on the male counterpart either consciously or unconsciously, emotionally, financially and most inportantly segxwally. They have a mindset that pulling thru abusive relationships is synonymous to the endurance n perseverance that is needed for every marriage to work. it is very unfortunate that most women still have inferiority complexes...most belive they arent gud enof for their men. i believe this is one of d major reasons most of them kip going back to d abusive partner even if they are tired of it.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 09:48 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

colenzo:
some don't know how to get out the situation ,
my ex was in the same problem be/4 she meet me
and i saved her from the predicament
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R yu sure that yu saved her? After all, she is now an ex like yu sed, it cud b dat yu r too nice 4 her n she is back to ruff-riderz?

Posted: at 10-01-2011 10:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@johnjasi. may thunder ravish your penis.it is short bodied and mistake for a human being like you that always think every answer is in your penis...nonsense.eran.mtchewwwwww. @ngeri well said my sister..


Y re u insultin d guy? beatin woman is against my wish an i hate pple who do so,bt wht d guy says maybe tru....its 2 option either financial prob or sth in d legs...bcz d lady must love one thing frm d guy dats y she kep on goin bck to him,an besides gals lyk dose pple alot i dnt knw y...i guezz dis belong to ladies cos dey knw beta.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 10:10 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

@funichi, what have i done to you naaa? you dont see any other place to send your thunder than my penis. pls redirect it abeg...... but i never know you were the person that has this problem. am sorry ooo.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 10:27 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Abeg my broda tell ehm. cus i dont see the reson why she should be going back to him if not that she has something she thought will be diffecult to get somewhere else.

Posted: at 10-01-2011 10:33 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie