I Became Suicidal After My Best Friend Secretly Recorded My Video, Sent It To My Parents - Lady

Date: 18-05-2023 9:42 pm (1 year ago) | Author: Olusanya Akinrinola
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A young lady narrates the toughest betrayal she went through at the hands of her best friend who secretly recorded her video and leaked it to her parents.
A Twitter user identified as @Inimisioluwa took to the platform to share her painful experience in response to a thread asking about worst friendship betrayal experience worst friendship betrayal.
According to Inimisioluwa, she was in the changing room when her best friend recorded a half-naked video of her to tarnish her image for getting all the boys.
How My Best Friend Betrayed Me

“From my best friend .. It’s was 2018 during the World Cup,govern Sanwolu brought the World Cup love to Alimosho then, I was sick on the last match and my bestir came home to cheer me up and ask us to go swimming, I was a bit not fine but I went with her cos we were very close.

When we got to the pool, we both went into the change room and she brought out her new Tecno spark then and ask for a selfie.., I was still half naked cos I had a bikini bra on with no pantries and I was trying to park my hair well before wearing my bikini pant.

Unknown to me she was recording me while I was combing my hair and dancing to this Burna boy song..Gba, she later told me not to swim again that day cos of my health and she bought me juice while I watch her swim, the next day I was in her house through out and gusting about life.
Aftermath of Leaked Video to My Parents

Later on my mom called me showing me the video that an unknown number sent the video to her phone.. as a Muslim mother.. I was beaten to a pulp that day and I ran out crying to my bestie ..told her somebody sent a video of me to my mom..she was crying and cursing the person.

I got suicidal and my father disowned me ..my mom was the one that helped me pull through and I explained everything to her and told her I don’t know who did the video.. she thought I did the video so I could send to my bf or something ..I always cry and curse the person.

Finding Out About Leaked Video

3month later, one of my bestie friends came to me asking for forgiveness and I ask him what he did to me.. he said my bestie did the video and sent it to him to send it to my mom cos my mom has her number saved and will know whr it’s came from, she denied everything.

The guy showed us proof of chat and my mom got her arrested .. she told the police that I once collected her Boyfriend..and why is it that fine boys always ask me out and she didn’t get anyone to ask her out and I collected her Facebook bf again...her parent beg us.

We released her and I have been so phyuked up .. I don’t trust anyone not even myself cos the girl broke me, she was my only friend and knows every details of my living .. I left the area for a year plus but the stigma is still there...

I didn’t add the part that after they sent it to my mom, they sent it to Abesan news too.. it’s was everywhere on WhatsApp and she will be the one to call me and tell me she saw it on different groups cos my mom seized my phone then and I didn’t have access to internet

I Became Suicidal

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My dad always call me everyday to curse me. say hurtful words. I zero my mind and decide to take sniper cos the embarrassment was a lot and my mom cleared the house from anything poisonous and lock me in my room .without anything to hurt myself and no phone.

I remember tying 3to 4 scarf together to hang myself but my ceiling fan was too weak .. I tried to kill myself multiple times. they called different Alfa to come preach to me and my mom drove me to the hospital to see what people are going through..

They showed me a woman that was half dead cos she took poison and the poison didn’t kill her and she was begging to be saved..I was taken to morgue to see young girls and boys that died .. I am so grateful to my mom cos she redeemed me.

I remember drinking nail dissolver, swallowing a black soap .. maybe it’s will gradually destroy my organs.. I just wanted to die that time.. omooo Iya mi is my gold and silver ...the thought of it now makes me want to live,enjoy and be loved...

I was still friends with her when everything played out and she was the one encouraging me to turn deaf ear to everyone, she took me in when my mom beat me to a pulp and she was the one begging my dad and mum to forgive me, it’s was when the guy confessed I knew I trusted a snake.”


Posted: at 18-05-2023 09:42 PM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
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Posted: at 18-05-2023 09:59 PM (1 year ago) | Grande Master
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- Baye77 at 18-05-2023 10:14 PM (1 year ago)
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As hurtful as this story is, I don't understand...you went to changing room of a pool with your friend to change into swimwear and you say you don't know who made a video of you even after your mum first showed it to you?? How?? Were there other people in the room with you two in close proximity that could have made the video?? That's by the way sha...I've said it countless times, there's no friendship among women. All those rubbish female besties that will be gossiping around town is rubbish. Get married and make your husband your friend, or if not married, make your siblings your friends.
Posted: at 18-05-2023 10:14 PM (1 year ago) | Hero
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- angelzizi at 19-05-2023 07:15 AM (1 year ago)
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Quote from: Baye77 on 18-05-2023 10:14 PM
As hurtful as this story is, I don't understand...you went to changing room of a pool with your friend to change into swimwear and you say you don't know who made a video of you even after your mum first showed it to you?? How?? Were there other people in the room with you two in close proximity that could have made the video?? That's by the way sha...I've said it countless times, there's no friendship among women. All those rubbish female besties that will be gossiping around town is rubbish. Get married and make your husband your friend, or if not married, make your siblings your friends.
Accurate comment here! I guess she's a very gullible one that trusts blindly. Bestie, best friends whatever u call it is nonexistent these days, your immediate family (probably) and you are your own best friend period. I learnt that since I lost my only sister who I could tell everything without fear of discrimination, judgement and condemnation not cos she was my sister but cos I knew she truly loved me and care for my wellbeing and hurting me would be her hurting herself as well cos most times, a family member could be a Judas so chose wisely who to trust and keep in ur inner circles. That "friend" you're trusting with your whole life might just be your worst enemy, let's stay woke please.
Posted: at 19-05-2023 07:15 AM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Baye77 at 20-05-2023 06:04 AM (1 year ago)
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Quote from: angelzizi on 19-05-2023 07:15 AM
Accurate comment here! I guess she's a very gullible one that trusts blindly. Bestie, best friends whatever u call it is nonexistent these days, your immediate family (probably) and you are your own best friend period. I learnt that since I lost my only sister who I could tell everything without fear of discrimination, judgement and condemnation not cos she was my sister but cos I knew she truly loved me and care for my wellbeing and hurting me would be her hurting herself as well cos most times, a family member could be a Judas so chose wisely who to trust and keep in ur inner circles. That "friend" you're trusting with your whole life might just be your worst enemy, let's stay woke please.
Yes right.
May God comfort you.
Posted: at 20-05-2023 06:04 AM (1 year ago) | Hero
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- angelzizi at 20-05-2023 09:34 AM (1 year ago)
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Quote from: Baye77 on 20-05-2023 06:04 AM
Yes right.
May God comfort you.
Thank you! Smiley
Posted: at 20-05-2023 09:34 AM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
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