He was widowed a couple of years ago. He wants to remarry a gal young enough to be a companion for any of his three sons and also a peer of his last born daughter. His children r united on opposing him insisting that their late mum deserves more respect. So the man is now renting another house for his new marriage. Are the children right?
Why do Men always think Between their Legs even When they're Almost heading to their Graves? U r a man, answer Posted: at 14-01-2011 08:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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He was widowed a couple of years ago. He wants to remarry a gal young enough to be a companion for any of his three sons and also a peer of his last born daughter. His children r united on opposing him insisting that their late mum deserves more respect. So the man is now renting another house for his new marriage.
Are the children right?
They are neither right or wrong, every individual as well as member of a family is entitled to their own opinion! It's perfectly normal for his children to feel the way the do, not only for the fact that he is re-marrying after the death of their late mother but for the fact that she is much younger than what is seen as 'normal' or 'acceptable' to society because even if they were to accept her whole-heartedly how would society see it? so thus is could be the reason as to why they condemn their fathers wish of marrying a new young wife. However, the children should be paying attention to the health & happiness of their father, & if accpting the new young wife would be the antidote to his upkeep they should support it. Finally, i think the father should bear in mind his childrens view, opinions & feelings about the whole situation, sit them all down and have a proper conversation about how they can make things work within the home. How young is the babe? p.s i'm not really a fan of such issues but watevaaaaa.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! Posted: at 14-01-2011 08:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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interpo77 at 14-01-2011 08:21 PM (13 years ago) (m) i think both side has their reasons, the dad has to revive his life with another woman despite of the age cos age is not against love, then the children in their part demands more respect 4 their past mother,well in this case, let the both just reach a compromise .let the dad marry someone close to his age nd let the children allow him marry anytime he choses period Posted: at 14-01-2011 08:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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i think both side has their reasons, the dad has to revive his life with another woman despite of the age cos age is not against love, then the children in their part demands more respect 4 their past mother,well in this case, let the both just reach a compromise .let the dad marry someone close to his age nd let the children allow him marry anytime he choses period
Is some1 supporting 'serial monogamy' here?
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! Posted: at 14-01-2011 08:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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serababy at 14-01-2011 08:38 PM (13 years ago) (f) NAWAOOOOOOOOO Posted: at 14-01-2011 08:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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otagermo at 14-01-2011 08:44 PM (13 years ago) (m) passing Posted: at 14-01-2011 08:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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aliaaz at 14-01-2011 09:07 PM (13 years ago) (m) Lol
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in ;) Posted: at 14-01-2011 09:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ajanni at 14-01-2011 10:33 PM (13 years ago) (m) He was widowed a couple of years ago. He wants to remarry a gal young enough to be a companion for any of his three sons and also a peer of his last born daughter. His children r united on opposing him insisting that their late mum deserves more respect. So the man is now renting another house for his new marriage.
Are the children right?
thats absolutely nonsense, and probably the man is not the biological father of those children , even if the house was built by their late mum , they should not have sent their dad packing anyway , he have every right to re-marry under any law , and like he is a decent man sef , and supose he was flirting around with the woman , what would they have done then ? killed him ? thats why is not so good to give some children too much liberty these days, i know of one prof , some few years back , while advicing his son to face up his study well and be of a good conduct , that useless boy was telling his father , that if he is not so please with him , he should pack out to go and live in his father,s house , that he is in his father,s house so , imagine that Posted: at 14-01-2011 10:33 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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macto at 14-01-2011 11:43 PM (13 years ago) (m) The family need to talk. They should let the old man marry who he wants to marry,age not withstanding. Posted: at 14-01-2011 11:43 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Ab4ril at 15-01-2011 12:01 AM (13 years ago) (m) rubbish
WHICH VILLAGE U COME SELF??? na waooooo! Posted: at 15-01-2011 12:01 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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paulbenson at 15-01-2011 12:05 AM (13 years ago) (m) rubbish
WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT? THE MAN JUST DECIDED TO BE HAAPY AGAIN. THE CHILDREN SHOULD LET HIM BE, THOUGH IS NOT THEIR FAULT, IS JUST IMMATURITY. THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT WILL MAKE THEIR FATHER LIVE LONG. AH! CHILDREN!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 12:05 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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betty55 at 15-01-2011 12:22 AM (13 years ago) (f) for him to remarry is not wrong but to marry a young girl who is supose to be his children girlfriend that is where he goes wrong.those children need someone they can call mother.the man is selfish he should consider his children happiness first.most widower always look for women who can make the children and him happy.by looking for a mature lady with much love to share not a gold digger teenager Posted: at 15-01-2011 12:22 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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mallorca at 15-01-2011 12:31 AM (13 years ago) (m) nawa o
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2slimshady at 15-01-2011 02:11 AM (13 years ago) (f) The children are doing wat is best for them but dat does not mean that they are right................cos their dad has d right 2 chose if he wants a companion or not
U ar very correct!!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 02:11 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Michro at 15-01-2011 02:17 AM (13 years ago) (m) I think they're completely right...
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent Posted: at 15-01-2011 02:17 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Some men just don't get it.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 15-01-2011 02:48 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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destiny247 at 15-01-2011 02:52 AM (13 years ago) (m) wetin come dey worry d children na? abi dey wan make their popsi died of conji ni? Posted: at 15-01-2011 02:52 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Michro at 15-01-2011 02:54 AM (13 years ago) (m) wetin come dey worry d children na? abi dey wan make their popsi died of conji ni?
Hehehehehe
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent Posted: at 15-01-2011 02:54 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ajanni at 15-01-2011 05:08 AM (13 years ago) (m) life must continues some how Posted: at 15-01-2011 05:08 AM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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rational at 15-01-2011 06:49 AM (13 years ago) (m) but its biblical till dearth do them apart,read the gospel of st john to the Corinthians 7' till end,a widower has the right to remarry but that's should be in a way not to cos chaos in d family,age sometimes need to be considered,what matters is mutual understanding.. Posted: at 15-01-2011 06:49 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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