Lady Whose Marriage Ended After 7 Months Calls Out Ex-husband For Being Ashamed to Show Her Off

Date: 09-06-2023 8:34 am (3 months ago) | Author: kacy lee
- at 9-06-2023 08:34 AM (3 months ago)
Online (f)

A Nigerian lady, Hazel Ajuamiwe, whose marriage ended after 7 months, has called out her ex-husband who she accused of being ashamed to show her off after they got married.

Sharing details of some incidents that happened while they were married, the Nigerian lady claimed that her ex-husband married her for selfish reasons and was also mean to her while she was pregnant.

Hazel further revealed that he never posted their wedding photos and also said he wanted to maintain his single status on Facebook for “security reasons”.

She wrote;

“This is one of the many pictures that never got posted because he wanted to maintain his single status on Facebook but claimed that it was for security reasons and he wanted us to maintain our privacy.

“I am a very private person; so I believed him until I realized that we were not on the same page.
Besides marrying me for selfish reasons; he was ashamed of me…a whole spec like me
He constantly told me how his exes looked and would randomly post their pictures and talk about their skin and how he wanted me to look better so when they see me, they’d know that he upgraded.

He ridiculed my dressing and wanted me to wear makeup for every outing; no matter how brief. In his words, ‘I don’t want you to give me any reason to look at another woman.’

He didn’t care that I was struggling with a new pregnancy. Even when I made effort; he will ‘forget’ to tell me that I looked beautiful.
“One time; he came to the bank to meet me and we went to the supermarket to get groceries. Dude tried so hard to act like he didn’t know me and we were not together.

When I introduced him to the manager, he had a scowl on his face. I didn’t notice initially until I called him ‘baby’ and he ignored me. I called him ‘baby’ again and he scolded me…”see how you’re just saying baby baby.”

“All the other places we went to, he stayed very far from me and was on the phone the whole time, I still haven’t found the words to describe how I felt that day. I survived… But the night he woke me up at 4am (I was more than 6 months pregnant) to cuss me out for telling my sister in law how he was treating me; he made sure to tell me how I was nothing and didn’t measure up to the women in his life.

He said, “do you know the kind of women I left to marry you, you this thing.” He went on to call me many more unprintable names and added my sister in law to the insults.
Then he said, “my mother warned me about marrying an Umuahia woman (at this point I want to state that his mother died when he was 16), but I didn’t listen. I have asked questions and they told me that Umuahia women are domineering and evil.”
“Umuahia people, come and collect your sub…because the insults he gave Umuahia people is immense; yet he worships Nnamdi Kanu of IPOB who is from Umuahia and happens to be my second cousin. The following night; I woke from sleep to hear him on the phone with someone and he was telling this person how he doesn’t know how he married me because nothing about it made sense. He claimed that I held him down with some form of supernatural whatever and now that his eyes have cleared I had become repulsive to him and he couldn’t stand the sight of me.

“No wonder he had in a spate of abuse told me, ‘you can go and burn more bay leaves to tie my legs.’ I burn bay leaves occasionally to get rid of mosquitoes and pesky fruit flies instead of using insecticide. And burning bay leaves relaxes my nerves and makes me sleep better, so I didn’t understand what he said until I overheard that phone conversation. I was too numb to even cry…

He follows the likes of AllahKaduna who tell them that they’re alpha males and the prize…well, I was not in competition with anyone for anything so I removed myself from struggling for any prize biko.

“He loves to insult women on social media but is always in women’s inboxes asking for money…I lost count of how many women kept sending him money for only God knows what; and when I complained, he would say that I’m just being insecure…he still won’t pay any bills or buy anything for me or the house. The next time a random stranger told me I was beautiful; I was shocked to hear it. I had forgotten that I was beautiful because I was constantly belittled and demeaned by the one person who should have been praising me.

“It has been one joy ride finding my way back to myself…and right now my voice is stronger than ever.
7 months of marriage that felt like 7 years of torture…”

Posted: at 9-06-2023 08:34 AM (3 months ago) | Addicted Hero
- angelzizi at 9-06-2023 09:30 AM (3 months ago)
This is one of the men that struggle with their segxwality, it wasn't the lady he married that made him repulsive he clearly isn't into women. When they live lying to themselves, any woman that unfortunately comes into their lives becomes a victim of their bottled up emotions, they start expressing it negatively towards the woman cos she's not what they want and she's like a bridge to their desires....poor lady!! Glad she saved herself from such horror  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 9-06-2023 09:30 AM (3 months ago) | Gistmaniac
- Kormeijama at 9-06-2023 10:31 AM (3 months ago)
Online (m)
He's a man but ignorantly imcompetent and  repulsive.
Posted: at 9-06-2023 10:31 AM (3 months ago) | Gistmaniac
- kp45 at 9-06-2023 11:53 AM (3 months ago)
Online (m)
There is something
Posted: at 9-06-2023 11:53 AM (3 months ago) | Hero
- gogoman at 9-06-2023 12:52 PM (3 months ago)
bitch please move on!!! write all this poem won't change anything  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 9-06-2023 12:52 PM (3 months ago) | Grande Master
- nikiniki at 9-06-2023 01:04 PM (3 months ago)
Thank God! MOve on, he is sick!
Posted: at 9-06-2023 01:04 PM (3 months ago) | Gistmaniac


  1. Watch 2022 Prophecy Of Nigerian Man About ‘Popular Star’ Which Come To Pass On Naira Marley

  2. Late Singer Mohbad’s Mother Finally Speak On What Her Son Told Her About Naira Marley

  3. Watch As Car Used To Carry Singer Mohbad’s Body For Autopsy Developed Mechanical Fault (Video)

  4. Aproko Doctor Reveals Possible Reasons Why ‘Fresh Blood’ Was Found In Mohbad’s Grave

  5. Mohbad’s Autopsy Concluded Barely 24 Hours After Exhumation

  6. Video: Police Allegedly Tear Gassed Scores Of Mourners During Mohbad's Candlelight Procession

  7. Shame on You! Don Jazzy Comes Under Fire Over His Late Tribute to Mohbad

  8. Smoke Out Whoever That Killed Mohbad – Sam Larry Speaks Again From Hiding (Video)

  9. “People Don’t Understand How Difficult It Is To Stay Sane In Our Industry” –Singer Korede Bello

  10. Why ‘Fresh Blood’ Was Spotted in Mohbad’s Grave - Aproko Doctor Gives Detailed Explanation

  11. 10-Yr-Old Girl Kidnapped In Abia Escapes After Being Taken To Abuja (Video)

  12. "Bullying Made Me Lost All Forms Of Social Skills" – Singer, Kizz Daniel Opens Up

  13. FCT Minister, Nyesom Wike Revokes 165 Plots Of Land In Abuja

  14. Police Advise Sympathizers To ‘Stop Catching Cruise’ With Mohbad’s Death

  15. "I Want To Marry American Singer, Billie Eilish" – Singer Boy Spyce Reveals Wish

  16. Autopsy no Concern Me, Bring Out Those Who Maltreated Mohbad – Bella Shmurda Blows Hot

  17. Tinubu Files Appeal To Stop Chicago University From Releasing His Academic Records To Atiku

  18. Residents In Shock As Man Chops Off Neighbour's Wrist For Allegedly Sleeping With Wife In Kwara

  19. Police Confirm Death Of 3 Siblings, 17 Others Killed During Sagamu Cult War In Ogun

  1. 'Why Niger Delta Region Has Failed To Develop' - Peter Obi Blows Hot

  2. Breaking; 2 Eye Witness Reveals Shocking Truth About Mohbad's Death (VIDEO)

  3. Mohbad’s Father Succumbs to Pressure, Reveals Why He Hurriedly Buried His Son

  4. APC Reacts As Court Orders Chicago University to Release Tinubu’s Academic Record to Atiku

  5. Why I Ordered Chicago University To Release Tinubu’s Academic Records – US Judge

  6. Tribunal Sacks Gombe Speaker, Abubakar Luggerewo

  7. Sanwo-Olu Is Working To Get Justice For Mohbad, Where Peter Obi, GRV? -Reno Omokri Queries

  8. More Revealed as Iyabo Ojo Visits Ex Marlian Artist, DJ Splash, Who Reportedly Lost His Mind

  9. There's Blood Flowing in His Coffin - Eye Witness Present at Mohbad’s Exhumation Reveals (VID)

  10. #JusticeforMohabd; Iyabo Ojo, Other Nollywood Stars Storm Police Headquarters In Lagos (Vid)