My family wants me to marry a Nigerian girl, am in love with another

Date: 13-01-2011 5:28 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Ucy
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- at 13-01-2011 05:28 PM (13 years ago)
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I NEED AN ADVICE BEFORE I MAKE A MISTAKE.

MY FRIENDS AND MY FAMILY WANT ME TO MARRY A CITIZEN OF NIGERIA WHILE I AM IN LOVE WITH A GUINEA GIRL I MET IN MACEDONIA. I AM SO CONFUSED AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.  SHOULD I FOLLOW MY HEART AND CONTINUE MY LIFE WITH THE GUINEA GIRL I MET IN MACEDONIA OR I SHOULD LISTEN TO THE ADVICE OF MY PEOPLE AND COME BACK HOME AND MARRY FROM MY TRIBE.     Undecided Huh? Undecided

Posted: at 13-01-2011 05:28 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- bittersweet at 13-01-2011 06:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Listen to your heart!
Posted: at 13-01-2011 06:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- terdue at 13-01-2011 06:57 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 06:49 PM
Listen to your heart!
straight up,follow ur heart
Posted: at 13-01-2011 06:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 13-01-2011 08:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Posted: at 13-01-2011 08:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ksurrina at 14-01-2011 12:01 AM (13 years ago)
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Sit your parents down and let them know that you are not in Nigeria and so don't know about this Nigerian girl. The lifestyle she is living and that you cannot put your trust into someone that you never develop a friendship with. Marry the girl that around you, you have build this friendship and you have learn to love her. No family members should choose for you. We are no longer under the covenant where parents choose for their children.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 12:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- miss-charming at 14-01-2011 01:48 AM (13 years ago)
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bros follow your heart oooo,you are the one that will leave with her not your family.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 01:48 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Pointzero at 14-01-2011 05:48 AM (13 years ago)
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hmm...........dis 1 pass me.............oh
Posted: at 14-01-2011 05:48 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- yemtop75 at 14-01-2011 06:13 AM (13 years ago)
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jump into the lagoon to know which way to go. are you a baby?
Posted: at 14-01-2011 06:13 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- walerian at 14-01-2011 10:49 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: yemtop75 on 14-01-2011 06:13 AM
jump into the lagoon to know which way to go. are you a baby?
  i believe ur an adult but d way most people responds to questions here isnt nice at all.
wat is wrong in questions asking? if u cant advice as d guy needs then hush.

my guy follow ur heart jare as the women of the house av suggested.
but make sure u let ur people understand ur feelings so they dnt react negatively.
good luck.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 10:49 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ucynice at 14-01-2011 02:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 06:49 PM
Listen to your heart!

i wish my family will understand that i know the best for my self.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 02:42 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ucynice at 14-01-2011 02:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 14-01-2011 12:01 AM
Sit your parents down and let them know that you are not in Nigeria and so don't know about this Nigerian girl. The lifestyle she is living and that you cannot put your trust into someone that you never develop a friendship with. Marry the girl that around you, you have build this friendship and you have learn to love her. No family members should choose for you. We are no longer under the covenant where parents choose for their children.
Thanks for your advice.
       my mother is trying to pull me dowm with tears in her eyes, i think the best thing i have to do is to get married to the girl i love and when we have 1 or 2 baby i will bring her home to show my family.
Posted: at 14-01-2011 02:59 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 14-01-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: yemtop75 on 14-01-2011 06:13 AM
jump into the lagoon to know which way to go. are you a baby?

Does this pix belong to you or you are posing with another person's pix?.....becos I dont understand how a seemingly matured man would talk like dis......

Poster, at the end of the day, who will live with the woman?.......your friends/family or you?.....let them understand that this is your life...and it is better you make your mistake by yourself and be sure, than for some people to come choosing wife for you......this is becoming rampant down here
Posted: at 14-01-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 14-01-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago)
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marriage is too complicated and its a lifelong for someoneelse to decide for u marry only someone u think u can spend d rest of ur life with
Posted: at 14-01-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 14-01-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster almost all the comments minus that immature commentmade from yemtop,are the right thing to do.
you gonna live with her not your family.but try your best to convince them ok! goodluck!
Posted: at 14-01-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 14-01-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago)
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I dey come make i yawn finish
Posted: at 14-01-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 14-01-2011 03:12 PM (13 years ago)
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advice full hia
Posted: at 14-01-2011 03:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 14-01-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago)
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following ur heart is good but then disobeying ur parent is nt right but this marriage case and u ar d one to live with her. so u hv to be sure the girl wnt disappoint u latter cos if she do ur parent will nt be there to listen, they will say they warned u. goodluck
Posted: at 14-01-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blings_is_back at 14-01-2011 03:16 PM (13 years ago)
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ur the one who's getting married not ur family...... follow ur heart... but what happened to naija girls?
Posted: at 14-01-2011 03:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 14-01-2011 03:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 06:49 PM
Listen to your heart!

YU' VE SAID IT ALL
Posted: at 14-01-2011 03:18 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-01-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Ucynice on 14-01-2011 02:42 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-01-2011 06:49 PM
Listen to your heart!

i wish my family will understand that i know the best for my self.

Make them reason with you!
It's a choice for YOUR life,not theirs!
Good luck!
Posted: at 14-01-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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