It seems these days everyone is rushing into marriage as if it's going out of style.. I think it's completely ridiculous. What's the rush? People want you to spend your entire salary on aso-ebi !!! Abeg oh !!! Maybe I'm the one that's flawed but I really don't see the point in all this rush. What is it? Seriously.... As for me, the moment anyone mentions marriage, I take off. Maybe I'll get to the point where I'm interested but until then, WTH On weekends, sometimes I have up to 4 weddings to attend. Damn !! Or is something going on & nobody told me?
Posted: at 29-01-2011 04:29 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
moniconyez at 29-01-2011 05:41 AM (14 years ago) (m)
BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH
Posted: at 29-01-2011 05:41 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
DamiDavis at 29-01-2011 11:03 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Treasure2 on 29-01-2011 10:14 AM
YOU NEED NOT TO BE TOLD THAT SOMEBODY IS RIPE FOR MARRIAGE AND WANT TO SETTLE DOWN FOR HIS/HER FUTURE.
MARRIAGE WAS THERE, IS THERE AND WILL REMAIN THERE FOR RECREATION.
@POSTER, WHAT IS THE AGE OF THIS PEOPLE THAT ARE RUSHING INTO MARRIAGE?
ASO-EBI IS A CHOICE AND NOT A MOST.
IF YOUR PARENT WERE NOT MARRIED, WOULD YOU HAVE BEEN HERE ASKING WHY THE RUSHING AND WHY DO YOU TAKE OFF WHEN YOU HEAR MARRIAGE?
YOU TOOK A CONVENANT OF NO MARRIAGE IN THE SPIRITUAL REALM AND THAT IS WHY U ARE TAKING OFF AT THE MENTION OF MARRIAGE.
IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE NOW, YOU CAN NEVER BE INTERESTED.
EVERY BODY IS NOT BORN TO MARRY, SO DON'T GET YOUR SELF WORK UP FOR THIS ISSUE, JUST ENCOURAGE THOSE AROUND YOU WHO ARE INTERESTED.
Since we are all airing our opinions here, I thank you for your comments on my post but I take offense at "YOU TOOK A CONVENANT OF NO MARRIAGE IN THE SPIRITUAL REALM AND THAT IS WHY U ARE TAKING OFF AT THE MENTION OF MARRIAGE. IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE NOW, YOU CAN NEVER BE INTERESTED".
You don't know me so you have no right to make such personal comments. maybe I did take a covenant of no marriage in the spiritual realm, who knows. Just to let you know, I'm a youth pastor at my church, overseeing 15-19 year olds the main reason I asked this question is that I'm being harassed by everyone around me wanting to get married or asking why I don't want to buy their aso-ebi & all kinds of stuff.. Lots of these ladies were in teen church a few years ago. Their ages are between 19 and 23 so I'm asking, what's the rush? Have a good day my friend..
Posted: at 29-01-2011 11:03 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
the reason is simple: they lack consciousness of who they r. They r afraid to face situatns. They r lazy to work out their destiny and maximise their potential. For dis reason,most pple rush into marriage jst to ve d opportunity of hanging their responsibility on sm1 else. I rest ma case
Posted: at 29-01-2011 11:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Treasure2 at 29-01-2011 11:30 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: DamiDavis on 29-01-2011 11:03 AM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 29-01-2011 10:14 AM
YOU NEED NOT TO BE TOLD THAT SOMEBODY IS RIPE FOR MARRIAGE AND WANT TO SETTLE DOWN FOR HIS/HER FUTURE.
MARRIAGE WAS THERE, IS THERE AND WILL REMAIN THERE FOR RECREATION.
@POSTER, WHAT IS THE AGE OF THIS PEOPLE THAT ARE RUSHING INTO MARRIAGE?
ASO-EBI IS A CHOICE AND NOT A MOST.
IF YOUR PARENT WERE NOT MARRIED, WOULD YOU HAVE BEEN HERE ASKING WHY THE RUSHING AND WHY DO YOU TAKE OFF WHEN YOU HEAR MARRIAGE?
YOU TOOK A CONVENANT OF NO MARRIAGE IN THE SPIRITUAL REALM AND THAT IS WHY U ARE TAKING OFF AT THE MENTION OF MARRIAGE.
IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE NOW, YOU CAN NEVER BE INTERESTED.
EVERY BODY IS NOT BORN TO MARRY, SO DON'T GET YOUR SELF WORK UP FOR THIS ISSUE, JUST ENCOURAGE THOSE AROUND YOU WHO ARE INTERESTED.
Since we are all airing our opinions here, I thank you for your comments on my post but I take offense at "YOU TOOK A CONVENANT OF NO MARRIAGE IN THE SPIRITUAL REALM AND THAT IS WHY U ARE TAKING OFF AT THE MENTION OF MARRIAGE. IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE NOW, YOU CAN NEVER BE INTERESTED".
You don't know me so you have no right to make such personal comments. maybe I did take a covenant of no marriage in the spiritual realm, who knows. Just to let you know, I'm a youth pastor at my church, overseeing 15-19 year olds the main reason I asked this question is that I'm being harassed by everyone around me wanting to get married or asking why I don't want to buy their aso-ebi & all kinds of stuff.. Lots of these ladies were in teen church a few years ago. Their ages are between 19 and 23 so I'm asking, what's the rush? Have a good day my friend..
YOU DON'T HAVE TO TAKE OFFENCE ON ANY TOPIC IN THIS FORUM BC WE ARE ALL SHARING IDEAS.
YOU ARE A YOUTH PASTOR AND THAT IS WHY YOU ARE GETTING THE INVITATION LIKE THAT AND LIKE I SAID, ASO-EBI IS YOUR CHOICE IF YOU WANT.
AT YOUR QUESTION, WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THIS YOUR TEENS WITH UNWANTED PREGNANCY, I KNW U WILL NOT LIKE IT AND THAT IS WHY THE RUSH. BETTER TO BE MARRIED THAN TO BE SLEEPING AROUND.
SO MY YOUTH PASTOR, PLS ENCOURAGE THIS CHILDREN AND DONT TAKE OFF AT THE MENTION OF MARRIAGE.
Posted: at 29-01-2011 11:30 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
solojaro at 29-01-2011 11:41 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: DamiDavis on 29-01-2011 11:03 AM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 29-01-2011 10:14 AM
YOU NEED NOT TO BE TOLD THAT SOMEBODY IS RIPE FOR MARRIAGE AND WANT TO SETTLE DOWN FOR HIS/HER FUTURE.
MARRIAGE WAS THERE, IS THERE AND WILL REMAIN THERE FOR RECREATION.
@POSTER, WHAT IS THE AGE OF THIS PEOPLE THAT ARE RUSHING INTO MARRIAGE?
ASO-EBI IS A CHOICE AND NOT A MOST.
IF YOUR PARENT WERE NOT MARRIED, WOULD YOU HAVE BEEN HERE ASKING WHY THE RUSHING AND WHY DO YOU TAKE OFF WHEN YOU HEAR MARRIAGE?
YOU TOOK A CONVENANT OF NO MARRIAGE IN THE SPIRITUAL REALM AND THAT IS WHY U ARE TAKING OFF AT THE MENTION OF MARRIAGE.
IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE NOW, YOU CAN NEVER BE INTERESTED.
EVERY BODY IS NOT BORN TO MARRY, SO DON'T GET YOUR SELF WORK UP FOR THIS ISSUE, JUST ENCOURAGE THOSE AROUND YOU WHO ARE INTERESTED.
Since we are all airing our opinions here, I thank you for your comments on my post but I take offense at "YOU TOOK A CONVENANT OF NO MARRIAGE IN THE SPIRITUAL REALM AND THAT IS WHY U ARE TAKING OFF AT THE MENTION OF MARRIAGE. IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE NOW, YOU CAN NEVER BE INTERESTED".
You don't know me so you have no right to make such personal comments. maybe I did take a covenant of no marriage in the spiritual realm, who knows. Just to let you know, I'm a youth pastor at my church, overseeing 15-19 year olds the main reason I asked this question is that I'm being harassed by everyone around me wanting to get married or asking why I don't want to buy their aso-ebi & all kinds of stuff.. Lots of these ladies were in teen church a few years ago. Their ages are between 19 and 23 so I'm asking, what's the rush? Have a good day my friend..
Treasure2. has said it all. so do not take offence because any lady even at the age of 20 yrs. that took off at the mention of marriage to her, may not have done so in her right senses. and any woman who could not get marriage and she is above the age of 40yrs. should go for deliverance.
Posted: at 29-01-2011 11:41 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Abeg oh !!! 
but I really don't see the point in all this rush. What is it? Seriously.... As for me, the moment anyone mentions marriage, I take off. Maybe I'll get to the point where I'm interested but until then, WTH 
........yu already no that 
...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
TRENDING GISTS 
Tension Rise Again In Plateau As Bandits Attack Market, Kidnap Five And Steal Goods
Portable Reveals He Made N70M in Three Days After Fight With Speed Darlington (Video)
VIDEO: Man Caught While Waiting For a Minor he Had Solicited S£x From Online
Rapper, Phyno Unveils His Daughter, Shares Adorable Video to Mark Her Second Birthday
Ex Madrid Player, Xabi Alonso Seals Managerial Move To Real Madrid As Ancelotti Bows Out