Vibing With Someone Does Not Determine They Are Your Friend - Singer Simi Reveals

Date: 07-12-2023 6:15 am (2 months ago) | Author: Olusanya Akinrinola
- at 7-12-2023 06:15 AM (2 months ago)
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Renowned singer Simi recently shared valuable advice on social media regarding the true meaning of friendship and the importance of guarding one’s personal space. In her message, Simi cautioned against loosely using the term ‘friend’ for just anyone, highlighting that not everyone deserves this title.

Simi pointed out that casual interactions or occasional good vibes don’t necessarily qualify someone as a best friend. She spoke on the need for people to protect their space and to be selective about who they allow into their hearts and spirits. The singer’s message was clear: just because someone makes you smile doesn’t mean they should have unrestricted access to your inner world.

She further elaborated that sometimes, when people feel they are investing more in a relationship than the other person, it doesn’t always mean that the other person is a bad friend or doesn’t like them. It might simply be a case of the other person not seeing the relationship in the same way. Simi stressed the importance of understanding that no one’s life revolves around another person, and it’s okay for feelings and perceptions to differ.

Simi advised her followers to focus on those who reciprocate their feelings and efforts. She underscored the significance of communication in understanding and nurturing relationships. Ending her note on a positive note, Simi encouraged her fans and followers to have a great day, leaving them with profound thoughts on maintaining healthy and meaningful relationships. Her insights serve as a reminder of the importance of mutual respect and understanding in friendships.

“Y’all just be calling ANYBODY your friend and then act surprised when they act like your enemy

You can be cool or vibe with someone every once in a while, but that def does not mean you’re now besties. Protect your space and stop giving every single person that made you smile once access to your heart and spirit.

And this might be hard to hear (read) – but sometimes when you’re riding hard for someone that is not doing the same for you, it’s not always because they don’t like you or that they’re “bad friends” they probably just never really saw you the same way. you saw then.

That. Is. Okay.

Nobody’s life revolves around you except your own. Choose the people that choose you too.

If you’re confused, communicate.

Now stand up from your pity party and have a great day today”


Posted: at 7-12-2023 06:15 AM (2 months ago) | Hero

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