Your candid help needed

Date: 30-01-2011 11:45 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Oluwole Abiodun Stephen
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- at 30-01-2011 11:45 PM (13 years ago)
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A friend of Mine met this Girl in his rented house,she is a daughter to one of his neighbor. After sometime, they started dating. My friend is a graduate but this Girl did not even complete her secondary school.
He sent her to computer school, after her graduation, The Guy took the last GCE for which she sat for and passed through much efforts from my friend. He is doing this with the intention of marrying her.
He is just thinking of taking UTME for her when She walked up to him last week that she went somewhere where she was told that she must not marry him. Since that time my friend has been sick. He only eats after much persuasion. What do you think He can do now? He has spent almost all his life savings on her!

Posted: at 30-01-2011 11:45 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- Pointzero at 31-01-2011 12:03 AM (13 years ago)
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i think she tried a lil bit by letting the guy know dat it aint gota work out though he has spent money so far...
but come 2 think of it,........................had it been that she went to uni n tell him this after gradg........na there e go worst pass
tell him to take heart n carry on with life...........let him thank his God that he discovered early

Posted: at 31-01-2011 12:03 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Abey_81 at 31-01-2011 08:40 AM (13 years ago)
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Serious findings reveal that this Girl is dating another Guy outside. My friend really loved her.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 08:40 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- MissyBarbie at 31-01-2011 08:54 AM (13 years ago)
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Eeeeyah am sowwy for your friend ooo....anyway life must continue now.....tell him to 4get d babe and look for a better one that will love him forever no matter what...Sowwy once again
Posted: at 31-01-2011 08:54 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 31-01-2011 08:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Abey_81 on 31-01-2011 08:40 AM
Serious findings reveal that this Girl is dating another Guy outside. My friend really loved her.
ma word its still where it is................ur friend should carry on with life..............SUCH IS LIFE

Posted: at 31-01-2011 08:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lanudja at 31-01-2011 09:01 AM (13 years ago)
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Tell ur friend to 4get her...
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:01 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 31-01-2011 09:09 AM (13 years ago)
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Gbam.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:09 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 31-01-2011 09:15 AM (13 years ago)
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Encourage him to find someone else who will appreciate him.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- shaoyang at 31-01-2011 09:17 AM (13 years ago)
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If she is dating another guy already hmm.... ur friend should know wat to do na
But if she's clean then let her be. afterall life goes on
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:17 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- solojaro at 31-01-2011 09:26 AM (13 years ago)
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Tell your friend to not only stay sick, he should also take rope and hang himself, because that girl is the only girl around, he should be ashamed of himself falling mugu to a girl whom he has not paid her bride price.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Abey_81 at 31-01-2011 09:27 AM (13 years ago)
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This is a Girl who was nothing when they met. She was just sitting at home after She dropped out of Secondary school in 2008. This my friend picked her up, sent her to computer school, after her Graduation, found good job for her, now when she can fetch for herself, she wants to bite the finger that has fed her. Anyway, life must go on.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:27 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- solojaro at 31-01-2011 09:40 AM (13 years ago)
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Why is he crying? Did the girl not sleep with him? If so why is he sick?. Tell your friend to open his eyes and see things moving around him.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:40 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bitte at 31-01-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago)
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poster tell your friend to move on simple.cos he can't force the girl to marry him,when her mind is somewhere else.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- MissyBarbie at 31-01-2011 09:57 AM (13 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmm
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyimau20 at 31-01-2011 09:58 AM (13 years ago)
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Let him move on with his life. Its obvious that she dosent love him.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 09:58 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- olumbareal at 31-01-2011 10:04 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 31-01-2011 09:57 AM
Hmmmmmmm


Hi baby! Good morning, how was the weekend? Nice pics.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 10:04 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 31-01-2011 10:07 AM (13 years ago)
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Gr8 fenx and yours? fenx for the comp.  Wink Wink
Posted: at 31-01-2011 10:07 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- olumbareal at 31-01-2011 10:08 AM (13 years ago)
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Tell your friend to move on, he shouldn't kill himself cos of that. Life goes on man, i know its not easy but he got to move on man. This is gonna make him stronger in handling situation like this in future.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- olumbareal at 31-01-2011 10:12 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 31-01-2011 10:07 AM
Gr8 fenx and yours? fenx for the comp.  Wink Wink



Splendid tanx, you are welcome.
Posted: at 31-01-2011 10:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 31-01-2011 10:28 AM (13 years ago)
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this as always being ma anger on dis forum

you are training this girl as wat? have u proposed to her and she accepted?
if yes, y dont u marry her and then start d training in ya houx
it pissed me off when i hear a girl spent dis on a guy and a guy spent dis on a girl
all in d name of marriage and at d end of the day they are now regretting

anyway d did is being done already.....just tell ya frnd to carry on wif his life
next time if he wants to help a girl.....he should do dat after his d wedding except on neutral ground
good luck
Posted: at 31-01-2011 10:28 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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