how do i get out of this?? (Page 4)

Date: 04-02-2011 9:12 pm (13 years ago) | Author: sensational girl
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- CLASSIQUEICON at 5-02-2011 02:14 PM (13 years ago)
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My dear just stay focus u r definitely gonna love again it's a matter of time. Don't rush into a relationship for now just take ur time and believe me  the right BO-BO is on his way it might me who knowz. Stay blessed!!!
Posted: at 5-02-2011 02:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- simeon_c at 5-02-2011 02:19 PM (13 years ago)
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can u hear yourself,...u accepted a relationship simply bcos u taught u could luv again..... Roll Eyes that to me is rubish. the truth was that you accepted a relationship simply bcoz you were under the presure of lust. you need prayers if u ask me Embarrassed
Posted: at 5-02-2011 02:19 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- sexy23 at 5-02-2011 09:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truthisbitter on  5-02-2011 09:19 AM
WHAT YOU FEEL IS NOT LOVE BUT INFATUATION OR LUST............THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER AND HE IS MARRIED....PLS.......STOP LOVING HIM..............YOU LOST YOUR CHANCE AND OPPORTUNITY OF BECOMING HIS WIFE ..PLEASE DONT DESTROY A PEACEFUL HOME OR PROBABLY YOU ARE OFFENDED THAT HE IS HAPPILY MARRIED AND YOU ARE NOT.............NOT HIS FAULT.

NON OFF THE ABOVE. yes i lost the chance. so who are u to say is not  love,rather lust or infatuation? Am not trying to destroy his family,lastly am not offened dat he is married..
Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:32 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- dirtykid at 5-02-2011 09:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on  4-02-2011 09:12 PM
AM STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX BUT HE HIS NOW MARRIED,NOW I HAVE A BF WHO SAYS HE LOVES ME BUT I CANT FIND ANYWHERE IN MY HEART TO LOVE HIM. HAVE TOLD HIM DAT I DONT LOVE HIM, BUT HE WONT LET ME GO.I ACCEPTED  D RELATIONSHIP CUS I TAUGHT I COULD LOVE AGAIN BUT NOW I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO AM CONFUSE........

Love Trauma !!
If i may ask, what happened btw you and your Ex ? Why did he become Ex if you truly Love him that much ?

Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sexy23 at 5-02-2011 09:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: grace200 on  5-02-2011 12:59 AM
Oh girl. Stop wasting ur time on marriedman. grow up!
YOUNG LADY AM NOT WASTING MY TIME ON MARRIED MAN,BUT JUST TRYING TO KNOW WAT THE PROBLEM HIS.
Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- truenaija2 at 5-02-2011 09:45 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster dont be angry on some of the comments some people talk anyhow here just tolerate them  Grin or manage them with thier bad mouth Grin
Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sexy23 at 5-02-2011 09:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: simeon_c on  5-02-2011 02:19 PM
can u hear yourself,...u accepted a relationship simply bcos u taught u could luv again..... Roll Eyes that to me is rubish. the truth was that you accepted a relationship simply bcoz you were under the presure of lust. you need prayers if u ask me Embarrassed
prayers i accept.... but ur idea i dont accept
Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:46 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- TOCHI4LOVE at 5-02-2011 09:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on  5-02-2011 09:42 PM
Quote from: grace200 on  5-02-2011 12:59 AM
Oh girl. Stop wasting ur time on marriedman. grow up!
YOUNG LADY AM NOT WASTING MY TIME ON MARRIED MAN,BUT JUST TRYING TO KNOW WAT THE PROBLEM HIS.
WHAT PROBLEM?  Huh?
Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:46 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sexy23 at 5-02-2011 09:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Tuks on  5-02-2011 04:24 AM
I dont fink u got 'real' luv,4 ur ex.Cuz if u do,u'd definitely want d best 4 him,which is movin on wif u life,n leavin him 2 enjoy his marriage.....I guess dia is sumfin u miss abt him,dat u're not tellin us.....Abeg make sumbody pour diz gurl water,cuz e be like say she dey dream!
master tuks am not dreaming,yes there is somting i miss abt him and i dont think i need to go into details.but not wat u are thinkin abt
Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:53 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- dirtykid at 5-02-2011 09:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Poster this your case need special treatment, I know how you feel about this, But most times i wonder why people in Love will separate and will never talk it over to settle the matter, the next thing you will hear is, One is married to another, We always loose what we have, simply because we don't value it in the first place.

Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- TOCHI4LOVE at 5-02-2011 09:57 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  5-02-2011 09:55 PM
Poster this your case need special treatment, I know how you feel about this, But most times i wonder why people in Love will separate and will never talk it over to settle the matter, the next thing you will hear is, One is married to another, We always loose what we have, simply because we don't value it in the first place.
YES MAN
Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:57 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 5-02-2011 10:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on  5-02-2011 09:53 PM
Quote from: Tuks on  5-02-2011 04:24 AM
I dont fink u got 'real' luv,4 ur ex.Cuz if u do,u'd definitely want d best 4 him,which is movin on wif u life,n leavin him 2 enjoy his marriage.....I guess dia is sumfin u miss abt him,dat u're not tellin us.....Abeg make sumbody pour diz gurl water,cuz e be like say she dey dream!
master tuks am not dreaming,yes there is somting i miss abt him and i dont think i need to go into details.but not wat u are thinkin abt

l think yu should Stop Making him yur Excuse for not Moving on with yur Life... Dat will Surely Help yu

Posted: at 5-02-2011 10:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 5-02-2011 10:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on  5-02-2011 09:53 PM
Quote from: Tuks on  5-02-2011 04:24 AM
I dont fink u got 'real' luv,4 ur ex.Cuz if u do,u'd definitely want d best 4 him,which is movin on wif u life,n leavin him 2 enjoy his marriage.....I guess dia is sumfin u miss abt him,dat u're not tellin us.....Abeg make sumbody pour diz gurl water,cuz e be like say she dey dream!
master tuks am not dreaming,yes there is somting i miss abt him and i dont think i need to go into details.but not wat u are thinkin abt

If you don't go into details alittle, We will not know hot to suggest the best option for you, For those who are willing to drop good ideas, Besides how do you know what Master Tuks is thinking ? Do you read minds or what ?

Posted: at 5-02-2011 10:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sexy23 at 5-02-2011 10:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  5-02-2011 09:40 PM
Quote from: sexy23 on  4-02-2011 09:12 PM
AM STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX BUT HE HIS NOW MARRIED,NOW I HAVE A BF WHO SAYS HE LOVES ME BUT I CANT FIND ANYWHERE IN MY HEART TO LOVE HIM. HAVE TOLD HIM DAT I DONT LOVE HIM, BUT HE WONT LET ME GO.I ACCEPTED  D RELATIONSHIP CUS I TAUGHT I COULD LOVE AGAIN BUT NOW I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO AM CONFUSE........

Love Trauma !!
If i may ask, what happened btw you and your Ex ? Why did he become Ex if you truly Love him that much ?
ONE TIN WE DATED 4 GOOD TEN MONTH WITHOUT ANY MISUNDERSTANDING,I LIVE IN SPAIN HE LIVES IN NIGERIA. WE MET  AT THE UNIVERSITY WHERE HE CAME TO STUDY. WE NEVER BROKE UP, WE NEVER SAID ITS OVER BETWEEN US. HE LEFT BECUS HE HAD  A WORKING PROPOSAL IN NIGERIA. EVER SINCE THEN  HE NEVER CAME BACK,ALL HE DID WAS CALLING I COULDNT GO IN SEACRH OF HIM BCUS MY PARENT WONT ALLOW ME DIS WAS 2008 ALL I COULD HEAR IS DAT HE GOT MARRIED LAST YEAR..
Posted: at 5-02-2011 10:38 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- sexy23 at 5-02-2011 10:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  5-02-2011 10:13 PM
Quote from: sexy23 on  5-02-2011 09:53 PM
Quote from: Tuks on  5-02-2011 04:24 AM
I dont fink u got 'real' luv,4 ur ex.Cuz if u do,u'd definitely want d best 4 him,which is movin on wif u life,n leavin him 2 enjoy his marriage.....I guess dia is sumfin u miss abt him,dat u're not tellin us.....Abeg make sumbody pour diz gurl water,cuz e be like say she dey dream!
master tuks am not dreaming,yes there is somting i miss abt him and i dont think i need to go into details.but not wat u are thinkin abt

If you don't go into details alittle, We will not know hot to suggest the best option for you, For those who are willing to drop good ideas, Besides how do you know what Master Tuks is thinking ? Do you read minds or what ?
MOST PPLE THINK I MISS HIM SESSUALLY  WHICH IS NOT TRUE....
Posted: at 5-02-2011 10:41 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- truenaija2 at 5-02-2011 10:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on  5-02-2011 10:38 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  5-02-2011 09:40 PM
Quote from: sexy23 on  4-02-2011 09:12 PM
AM STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX BUT HE HIS NOW MARRIED,NOW I HAVE A BF WHO SAYS HE LOVES ME BUT I CANT FIND ANYWHERE IN MY HEART TO LOVE HIM. HAVE TOLD HIM DAT I DONT LOVE HIM, BUT HE WONT LET ME GO.I ACCEPTED  D RELATIONSHIP CUS I TAUGHT I COULD LOVE AGAIN BUT NOW I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO AM CONFUSE........

Love Trauma !!
If i may ask, what happened btw you and your Ex ? Why did he become Ex if you truly Love him that much ?
ONE TIN WE DATED 4 GOOD TEN MONTH WITHOUT ANY MISUNDERSTANDING,I LIVE IN SPAIN HE LIVES IN NIGERIA. WE MET  AT THE UNIVERSITY WHERE HE CAME TO STUDY. WE NEVER BROKE UP, WE NEVER SAID ITS OVER BETWEEN US. HE LEFT BECUS HE HAD  A WORKING PROPOSAL IN NIGERIA. EVER SINCE THEN  HE NEVER CAME BACK,ALL HE DID WAS CALLING I COULDNT GO IN SEACRH OF HIM BCUS MY PARENT WONT ALLOW ME DIS WAS 2008 ALL I COULD HEAR IS DAT HE GOT MARRIED LAST YEAR..

men are mysterious you just have to be smart if not nothing for you
Posted: at 5-02-2011 10:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 5-02-2011 10:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on  5-02-2011 10:38 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  5-02-2011 09:40 PM
Quote from: sexy23 on  4-02-2011 09:12 PM
AM STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX BUT HE HIS NOW MARRIED,NOW I HAVE A BF WHO SAYS HE LOVES ME BUT I CANT FIND ANYWHERE IN MY HEART TO LOVE HIM. HAVE TOLD HIM DAT I DONT LOVE HIM, BUT HE WONT LET ME GO.I ACCEPTED  D RELATIONSHIP CUS I TAUGHT I COULD LOVE AGAIN BUT NOW I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO AM CONFUSE........

Love Trauma !!
If i may ask, what happened btw you and your Ex ? Why did he become Ex if you truly Love him that much ?
ONE TIN WE DATED 4 GOOD TEN MONTH WITHOUT ANY MISUNDERSTANDING,I LIVE IN SPAIN HE LIVES IN NIGERIA. WE MET  AT THE UNIVERSITY WHERE HE CAME TO STUDY. WE NEVER BROKE UP, WE NEVER SAID ITS OVER BETWEEN US. HE LEFT BECUS HE HAD  A WORKING PROPOSAL IN NIGERIA. EVER SINCE THEN  HE NEVER CAME BACK,ALL HE DID WAS CALLING I COULDNT GO IN SEACRH OF HIM BCUS MY PARENT WONT ALLOW ME DIS WAS 2008 ALL I COULD HEAR IS DAT HE GOT MARRIED LAST YEAR..
really sad buh 4get it n' move on, i tell yu what r/ship with fight n' quarrel dont last, he dont love yu .... sorry to said buh its true, what he feel 4 yu is just pity n' not love

Posted: at 5-02-2011 10:49 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sexy23 at 5-02-2011 11:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: TOCHI4LOVE on  5-02-2011 12:46 PM
@POSTER GO TELL THAT NATIVE DOCTOR TO RELEASE THAT CHAME HE DID FOR YOU  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
I BEG UR PARDON!!!!! IF DAT WAT U BELIVE SORRY I DONT BELIVE IN DAT TALKLESS OF A NATIVE DOCTORS.
Posted: at 5-02-2011 11:00 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- onyin at 5-02-2011 11:01 PM (13 years ago)
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- dirtykid at 5-02-2011 11:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy23 on  5-02-2011 10:38 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  5-02-2011 09:40 PM
Quote from: sexy23 on  4-02-2011 09:12 PM
AM STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX BUT HE HIS NOW MARRIED,NOW I HAVE A BF WHO SAYS HE LOVES ME BUT I CANT FIND ANYWHERE IN MY HEART TO LOVE HIM. HAVE TOLD HIM DAT I DONT LOVE HIM, BUT HE WONT LET ME GO.I ACCEPTED  D RELATIONSHIP CUS I TAUGHT I COULD LOVE AGAIN BUT NOW I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO AM CONFUSE........

Love Trauma !!
If i may ask, what happened btw you and your Ex ? Why did he become Ex if you truly Love him that much ?
ONE TIN WE DATED 4 GOOD TEN MONTH WITHOUT ANY MISUNDERSTANDING,I LIVE IN SPAIN HE LIVES IN NIGERIA. WE MET  AT THE UNIVERSITY WHERE HE CAME TO STUDY. WE NEVER BROKE UP, WE NEVER SAID ITS OVER BETWEEN US. HE LEFT BECUS HE HAD  A WORKING PROPOSAL IN NIGERIA. EVER SINCE THEN  HE NEVER CAME BACK,ALL HE DID WAS CALLING I COULDNT GO IN SEACRH OF HIM BCUS MY PARENT WONT ALLOW ME DIS WAS 2008 ALL I COULD HEAR IS DAT HE GOT MARRIED LAST YEAR..


Too sad to hear the little details of what happened, I don't want to blame you, but if i may, I would ask why you didn't even call him all those while if you truly Love him that much, 2008 till 2011 roughly 4yrs, Why would your parents wouldn't allow you contact the man you Love, Are you still under-age or what, even some Underage girls will still keep in touch, no matter what.  While he was away to Nigeria, were you still single waiting for him all those time ? because this is another thing that could make you forget or think less of him.


Posted: at 5-02-2011 11:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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