It is Urgent, Pls Advise Him.......... (Page 13)

okay...every1 including myself should stop defining the love between the man and his wife...
Dp tell ur friend to do whats in his heart..he is the only person that knows what is good for him... i'm tired of reading forgive ..don't forgive ..throw her out... etc  arghhh 
every1 has their way of loving some1..it may not be idealistic but its their way and we should  all respect that, what is love exactly? love has so many definitions..the 1 that works for us may not work for the other..ppl show love in various forms  so allow him and her to dat 


nobody should jump on me o 

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Posted: at 9-02-2011 04:32 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

It is obvious that ur wife is not an adultereous woman since she confessed to u. It means she can no longer bear the weight of the guilt. You know life is full of temptations it could be either of u. Just remember love counts no errors, it rather builds and uplifts. Instead of considering wat to do to her I rather think it is the time to be around her and rebuild ur love and affection. Many women do it every now and then without any sense of guilt. The devil could be after ur marriage do not let it fight it with ur knees and divine inspiration never with human sentiments and wisdom. There is a blessing very special one awaiting for u do not miss it. The devil is standing against it by this confusion say no to it.

Posted: at 9-02-2011 08:33 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

LET HIM FORGIVE HER. FOR AS LONG AS THE WIFE HAS CONFESSED WITH HER MOUTH, SHE WILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN AND WOULD LOVE THE HUSBAND THE MORE FOR ACCEPTING AND FORGIVING HER.


@DIVINE .P.

Posted: at 9-02-2011 08:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

@TYPICALMAN. ....................................................SRY FOR THE PUBLIC CORRECTION...........IS ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT...........NO ENGLISH LIKE A CHEATER PLS....
Shut up... 'Once a cheater, always a cheater' is not an incorrect sentence. Look for your dictionary. Miss I know it all.
.THAT WAS A POLITE  WAY OF TRYING TO TELL U NOT TO FOOL URSELF IN PUBLIC.....A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE...IS SO UNFORTUNATE THAT YOU WOULD RATHER PREFER TO BE MAKING PUBLIC ERROR.........I GUESS UR DICTIONARY ONLY DEFINED A CHEAT.ER........ONCE AGAIN IS: "ONCE A CHEAT IS ALWAYS A CHEAT"...........CHEAT.ER IS DERIVED FROM American Eng. not British Eng...N HAS NEVA BEEN USED AS ONCE A CHEAT.ER, ALWAYS A CHEAT.ER CORRECTLY........Advice.........you SHOULD learn how to use words..........cos u might not know whom U are talking to......'SHUT UP "IS RUDE, AN IMPOLITE  ........way of responding to some one trying to help u PUBLISH the right TINS........ HUH!

Posted: at 9-02-2011 09:28 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

you have all spoken well.

Posted: at 9-02-2011 09:40 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

try and get the clear pictures of what the scripture says. these are the words of JESUS. matt19:9 And i said unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, shall marry another committeh adultery: whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. GOD is against divorce but in the case of marital unfaithfulness, divorce is acceptable unto GOD. the adultery woman must remain unmarried and his husband is not in bondage to remarry any other woman of his choice. do you know what adultery is?

now listen to this short story, it happen to my uncle who is now late. my uncle was an engineer to guiness for 18yrs an was then married to his wife for 30yrs bare him 5children.my uncle was retrench by guiness the year 1997 and fortunately for him, he won america green card lottery that same year. he left nigeria for america to continue with his profession. after successful 3yrs of work in america, he came back to nigeria to move his wife and his five children to america. the first 3 gown up children were already a graduate from university of benin. it happen that america embassy requested DNA test for the children to acertain the proof of his children beacause the lottery he won was a single green card lottery and not the family type though he was still entitle to move his children to america.could u believed the DNA test could only proove that only two of them are his children. the third child which is a girl and the last born which a boy. they went for further test and it was the same. what a shock to our entire family. the most tragedy of it all is that, the grown up children gang up and muder my uncle as if it was an armed robbers plot. unfaithfully for them, one of the killers was caught because he was putting on my uncle wrist watch. the children confess that they were afraid because my uncle was going to denied them of his riches. is a long story any way. please, don't ever in your life promote adultery, it is deadly

Posted: at 9-02-2011 10:09 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

They have a kid, they have been married for a couple of years (young couple).  I dont know, but the man's profession makes him stay away from home for a long time (that is not an excuse though, but that created a chance for this ugly monster)...but right now he still wont be able to stay home as much as he wants becos that would mean truncating that particular pursuit (no chance)....

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Posted: at 9-02-2011 10:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

VERY COMPLICATED...

Posted: at 9-02-2011 11:02 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Posted: at 9-02-2011 12:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Abeg see me wahala ooo.... Which kind temptation be this... Stick to your British English which I was used to, and I will stick to my American English which I am used to now. Abeg leave me alone. Thank You.

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Posted: at 9-02-2011 12:24 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac