Her libido has been active while she was young and this is what she carried into her marriage which means her libido is the controller rather than her. With that clarification made she would be a repeat offender whenever it takes over and whoever is around her would be a victim. The only thing her husband can do is make her a tag along anytime he would be going anywhere or else the same would happen again................Make her his baggage!!! | Posted: at 9-02-2011 12:46 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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If read carefully, it would be noted that the woman loves her husband.....The post said "she made a blood chilling confession" and the "husband has been away".......A woman is some times vulnerable which is difficult to control most times and any thing that must have happened was as a result of that .............The man should forgive his wife since he still loves her........She confessed cos she could not live with the quilt...........we all have our points..........and he should travel less ... if he still needs his wife............some women can not stand it.......so when the husband is not there, they fall prey to the temptation.....bad deed yes!....men stay with ur wives and avoid long term traveling.........she would neve have done it if the husband was around................not an intentional act, the mood called for it ............and she couldn't help....forgive and travel less.. | Posted: at 9-02-2011 01:10 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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If read carefully, it would be noted that the woman loves her husband.....The post said "she made a blood chilling confession" and the "husband has been away".......A woman is some times vulnerable which is difficult to control most times and any thing that must have happened was as a result of that .............The man should forgive his wife since he still loves her........She confessed cos she could not live with the quilt...........we all have our points..........and he should travel less ... if he still needs his wife............some women can not stand it.......so when the husband is not there, they fall prey to the temptation.....bad deed yes!....men stay with ur wives and avoid long term traveling.........she would neve have done it if the husband was around................not an intentional act, the mood called for it ............and she couldn't help....forgive and travel less..
Whaaaaat!!! So you are saying a man should leave his business trips to stay with the wife at all times. If a woman /man can't control themselves when their spouse(s) travel, then they should remain unmarried. Marriage is not for suckers and flip floppers ... So how about this? Could it be that the wife have been waiting for the husband to travel so she could finally carry out that thoughts running through her mind?
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 9-02-2011 01:27 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 9-02-2011 01:30 AM (13 years ago)  (m) If read carefully, it would be noted that the woman loves her husband.....The post said "she made a blood chilling confession" and the "husband has been away".......A woman is some times vulnerable which is difficult to control most times and any thing that must have happened was as a result of that .............The man should forgive his wife since he still loves her........She confessed cos she could not live with the quilt...........we all have our points..........and he should travel less ... if he still needs his wife............some women can not stand it.......so when the husband is not there, they fall prey to the temptation.....bad deed yes!....men stay with ur wives and avoid long term traveling.........she would neve have done it if the husband was around................not an intentional act, the mood called for it ............and she couldn't help....forgive and travel less..
rubbish!!!
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 9-02-2011 01:30 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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@I ILOVEIT(...Mr rubbish.).........yea rubbish like u said ..wen it comes to a woman is a taboo, but wen it comes to men it becomes normal that's wat is rubbish......adultery is not just doing the act.........wen u look at a woman lustfully, u ve also committed the act which 98% of men are guilty of.I guess, if she not confess u wouldn't ve the right to judge her........some tyms ..........all we need to do is 2 examine our selves first b4 pointing accusing fingers at some else..... | Posted: at 9-02-2011 01:45 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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If you can't forgive, let go.
When you choose the behavior, you choose the consequences. If you continue to throw this in your partner's face, you will eventually run him/her off. Ask yourself if this is going to be a life sentence for your partner. Can you heal from this and forgive? If not, don't continue to live in anger and/or be with someone who causes you pain.
I agree with yu babes! a frn confessed to her bf and they got back together. He still doesnt trust her 2 years later and it is pure agony for her. Exactly! Stuff like dat is hard to Forget buhh it shudnt b like that afterall she confessed. wud yu rather she didnt? sumone once sed confession is releasing the burden of yur guilt onto sumone else. whilst that may b good for yur soul, sum confessions leave the the recipient angry, tired or guilty. | Posted: at 9-02-2011 01:50 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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What a taboo. under the ten commandment during the reign of MOSES, thou shall not commit adultery was the 4th law. i will advice him to forgive her and give her a certificate of divorce and send her away. adultery is as deadly as the venom of a cobra. there should be no compromise about it. he will get over it withing the shortest possible time. what prompted her to commit such devlish act will happen again. she commited the act not because of sex starving, because adultery is in her adrenalin. she is a cheap sloth wife. woe unto that woman that commit adultery, it would have been better if she wasn't born.
didnt the same bible preach forgiveness? besides, if yu divorce her yu r not supposed to sleep with any other woman or remarry until she dies, so really who r yu punishing here? | Posted: at 9-02-2011 01:52 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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hmm | Posted: at 9-02-2011 02:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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let him stop crying joo his own is not the worst some women cheat on thier husband severally without even telling him some even get pregnant for another man in thier husbands house some sleep with small boys at the expense of thier husbands hard earned money she didnt do anything hilarous anything that has not been done she is a very good woman thats why she opened up cos she regrets her action adultery is aspirit tellher to pray and ffast to GOD for him to deliver her of that spirit
Do you know the meaning of trust? That others are doing worse than her does not justify her doing it or merit giving her an award. She should be shown the door because she is capable of other more despicable things in the future. Never trust an adulterous wife! | Posted: at 9-02-2011 02:10 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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@I ILOVEIT(...Mr rubbish.).........yea rubbish like u said ..wen it comes to a woman is a taboo, but wen it comes to men it becomes normal that's wat is rubbish......adultery is not just doing the act.........wen u look at a woman lustfully, u ve also committed the act which 98% of men are guilty of.I guess, if she not confess u wouldn't ve the right to judge her........some tyms ..........all we need to do is 2 examine our selves first b4 pointing accusing fingers at some else.....
This is not a matter of man or woman. The fact is that there is no reason whatsoever for anyone to cheat on their spouse. Also, if eventually a spouse cheats, under no circumstance should it be condoned... The man in question should end the marriage in court and get on with his life PERIOD. If it is the man that's the cheater, the lady should also end the marriage and move on with her life. Once a cheater... always a cheater. It's an addiction.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 9-02-2011 02:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Ahrdonais") Ahrdonais at 9-02-2011 02:14 AM (13 years ago) (m) i disagree with the idea that its a good thing the woman confessed. some knowledge debases u. i think the confession is a second selfish unkindness on the woman's part, the first being the act itself. why debase another with your own debasement. on what the man should do, i think its better to chose a conscious repercussion against the woman, so that both of u dont bear a more likely destructive unexamined and unconscious repercussion | Posted: at 9-02-2011 02:14 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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SRY FOR THE PUBLIC CORRECTION...........IS ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT...........NO ENGLISH LIKE A CHEATER PLS.... | Posted: at 9-02-2011 02:21 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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hmmm | Posted: at 9-02-2011 02:23 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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hmmm | Posted: at 9-02-2011 02:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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SRY FOR THE PUBLIC CORRECTION...........IS ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT...........NO ENGLISH LIKE A CHEATER PLS....
Shut up... 'Once a cheater, always a cheater' is not an incorrect sentence. Look for your dictionary. Miss I know it all.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 9-02-2011 02:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "basedman") basedman at 9-02-2011 02:35 AM (13 years ago) (m) it is not an easy thing to do. but i will say if he realy love his wife he should forgive her. cos for her to confessed to him means that she love her husband and she doesnt want to live with shame, so she confessed to clear her concience. pls forgive her i believe she will not go back to the acts again. | Posted: at 9-02-2011 02:35 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "mallorca") mallorca at 9-02-2011 03:03 AM (13 years ago) (m) I read people saying forgive her this, forgive her that... Even if the man wasn't treating her right, she has no right to cheat. Anyone who has an excuse for cheating is a coward. If she badly wanted to sleep with another man, she should've divorced her husband first before doing that. Personally, I will file for divorce ASAP, no time wasted. I will forgive her but I will not continue to be married to her. Sleeping with another man/woman willingly is never a mistake... it is always intended and whether she confessed or not, it wouldn't make a difference, so long as you weren't forced into the act. That's my own one cent.  may your days be long
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY | Posted: at 9-02-2011 03:03 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "temmy225") temmy225 at 9-02-2011 03:07 AM (13 years ago) (f) It may be difficult for him to forgive and forget, but then, the fact that she confessed to him means that she felt bad about what she did, so I'll say forgive her and try to evaluate yourself to see where you're lacking as far as responsibilities in general is concerned, and try to live up to expectations. Also, very important PRAY always! | Posted: at 9-02-2011 03:07 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "temmy225") temmy225 at 9-02-2011 03:08 AM (13 years ago) (f) It may be difficult for him to forgive and forget, but then, the fact that she confessed to him means that she felt bad about what she did, so I'll say forgive her and try to evaluate yourself to see where you're lacking as far as responsibilities in general is concerned, and try to live up to expectations. | Posted: at 9-02-2011 03:08 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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It may be difficult for him to forgive and forget, but then, the fact that she confessed to him means that she felt bad about what she did, so I'll say forgive her and try to evaluate yourself to see where you're lacking as far as responsibilities in general is concerned, and try to live up to expectations.
I was waiting for someone to come out and blame the man for the wife's nasty acts... And here you are. So the man should evaluate himself and see where he is lacking... Oh no, maybe he should fix his s*x game too (I'm being sarcastic)... Is this reverse psychology or what??? I'm not surprised another female is out here condoning adultery.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 9-02-2011 03:14 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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