logten at 10-02-2011 10:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) My name is oludu muyiwa blessing, could you believe that my own wife is keeping marlins with my own mum, to the extend that my own mum cooked food and gave her to eat and she refuse the food after that she went along and bought food outside, and the food she went and buy outside is the same food my mum cooked, how i wish is different food she went and bought i will think that she don't have appetite of eating the food that day.but its not that i legally married her we where dating each other when she got pregnant for me and presently she is still leaving in our house, the same room with that my mum that she is beefing with. Attached is my picture, i want Naijapals to go through this mail and post it, for Nigerians to advice me for what to do course am confuse now and i don`t know what to do please. here is my phone number should in-case you need it. i am 20yrs of old and the girl is 18yrs of old. we have been into the relationship for the past 4yrs now before this pregnant of a thing.......
WAKA...for wasting my tyme Posted: at 10-02-2011 10:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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aliaaz at 10-02-2011 11:02 PM (14 years ago) (m) lol
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in  ;) Posted: at 10-02-2011 11:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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nnennababe at 11-02-2011 12:26 AM (14 years ago) (f) see wahala.... Posted: at 11-02-2011 12:26 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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igbonnanna at 11-02-2011 12:43 AM (14 years ago) (m) What the guy asked for was for help.........so every other comment aside what he wants is not considered useful to him...the deed has been done.....criticizing and condemning his actions will not change any thing.......Is only in Africa that it seems they both are not matured enough to handle issues like that..(African mentality) .....out here, tins are different. 18 and and 20 are fully grown adults to handle what ever life brings their way; and to be responsible for their actions................OLUDU you are the man,....plead with ur mum to understand and bear with her....pregnancy some times creates room for aggressiveness ......your mum should treat her like she were her own daughter, then she might be a bit eased and feel comfortable at that..........wish you all the best, and wish her safe delivery .............Age is not maturity........beware!
out there? where? Europe or America? What is African mentality here? The contributions here from interesting ladies here like Treasure, Kebella, BS, etc. etc. are the right rebuke to a duns who instead of thinking his books and how to build his future he is thinking honeypot and woman nyash and feeling it normal to bring a woman to her Mama. Igbo people no dey do so. No Mama will even accept u for one day in her home if u sabi phyuk, u must sabi maintain. Ur parents must tell u b4 hand. My Papa go tell u say, hia his own home, u must go rent ur home, pay for it. What a hell do they or the boy have to disturb the Mama in her own, upon that with another woman and pickin go soon come. The pregnant girl get stress and need space which she no dey get, and d boy no dey catch the joke. I wonder why Africans go learn from Oyibo and turn the practice upside down? Posted: at 11-02-2011 12:43 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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giftmurphy at 11-02-2011 12:51 AM (14 years ago) (f) My name is oludu muyiwa blessing, could you believe that my own wife is keeping marlins with my own mum, to the extend that my own mum cooked food and gave her to eat and she refuse the food after that she went along and bought food outside, and the food she went and buy outside is the same food my mum cooked, how i wish is different food she went and bought i will think that she don't have appetite of eating the food that day.but its not that i legally married her we where dating each other when she got pregnant for me and presently she is still leaving in our house, the same room with that my mum that she is beefing with.
Attached is my picture, i want Naijapals to go through this mail and post it, for Nigerians to advice me for what to do course am confuse now and i don`t know what to do please. here is my phone number should in-case you need it. i am 20yrs of old and the girl is 18yrs of old. we have been into the relationship for the past 4yrs now before this pregnant of a thing.......
u r too young 2 do dis...marriage is 4ever fin...not 4 play....dont bring babies 2 dis world 2 suffer pls... Posted: at 11-02-2011 12:51 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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thebulla02 at 11-02-2011 01:39 AM (14 years ago) (f) YOU GUYS OR SO YOUNG ITS A PITY YOU GET HER PREGNANT, CAUSE IF SHE WASN,T PREGNANT I DONT THINK YOU WOULD MARRY HER YOU NEED TO GET A JOB TO START TAKING CARE OF YOUR PREGNANT WIFE AND GET HER OUT OF YOUR MOTHER HOUSE. IF YOU PEACE IN THE FAMILY. Posted: at 11-02-2011 01:39 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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out there? where? Europe or America? What is African mentality here? The contributions here from interesting ladies here like Treasure, Kebella, BS, etc. etc. are the right rebuke to a duns who instead of thinking his books and how to build his future he is thinking honeypot and woman nyash and feeling it normal to bring a woman to her Mama. Igbo people no dey do so. No Mama will even accept u for one day in her home if u sabi fcuk, u must sabi maintain. Ur parents must tell u b4 hand. My Papa go tell u say, hia his own home, u must go rent ur home, pay for it. What a hell do they or the boy have to disturb the Mama in her own, upon that with another woman and pickin go soon come. The pregnant girl get stress and need space which she no dey get, and d boy no dey catch the joke. I wonder why Africans go learn from Oyibo and turn the practice upside down? When you have a problem, u a need a solution.........n dats the only answer to that problem..".Solution"......rebuking, condemning, etc is compounding to the problem and is of no relevance to him cos the deed has been done.........apart from help which he is requesting for .............every other tin is of no use to him..........respond to the contest and not out of contest......... Posted: at 11-02-2011 01:50 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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livingday at 11-02-2011 03:44 AM (14 years ago) (m) Eating food meant for elders...............
The girl appeared to have eaten this forbidden apple since she was aged 14. Too young I may say. The man himself might have started playing mum and dad at 16, yet still too young for the snake between his legs to go in search of victim. Posted: at 11-02-2011 03:44 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Treasure2 at 11-02-2011 08:16 AM (14 years ago) (f) What the guy asked for was for help.........so every other comment aside what he wants is not considered useful to him...the deed has been done.....criticizing and condemning his actions will not change any thing.......Is only in Africa that it seems they both are not matured enough to handle issues like that..(African mentality) .....out here, tins are different. 18 and and 20 are fully grown adults to handle what ever life brings their way; and to be responsible for their actions................OLUDU you are the man,....plead with ur mum to understand and bear with her....pregnancy some times creates room for aggressiveness ......your mum should treat her like she were her own daughter, then she might be a bit eased and feel comfortable at that..........wish you all the best, and wish her safe delivery .............Age is not maturity........beware! I THINK YOU WILL MAKE A GOOD TEACHER, BUT MIND U THAT U DON'T INSULT PEOPLE WHILE MAKING YOUR CONTRIBUTION. LET AFRICAN BE WITH THEIR MENTALITY AND YOU KEEP YOUR EUROPEAN MATURITY. IF YOU WANT TO INSULT, THEN WATCH YOUR BACK VERY WELL, BC U WILL GET MORE THAN U ARE BARGINING NOW. HELLO MISS, I DON'T KNOW THE CONTEST AT WHICH YOU ARE SEEING THIS, IT WAS NEVA MEANT TO INSULT..........N BESIDES, I AM AN AFRICAN.......TNX FOR UR COMPLIMENT
MY DEAR, AM NOT VERY PLEASED WITH AFRICAN MENTALITY. IF YOU WANT TO MAKE UR INPUT, U STAY ON THE LINE, DON'T JUMP FROM INSULT TO ADVISE.
Hello miss Treasure,........it does not make sense singling out out two words out of the whole sentence.........point of correction i did not insult any one or ridicule any.......OK?............u rather did wen diverted the topic and started insulting the boy.....what is African mentality? .............is the way Africans looks at issues......is not an insult or abusive words.....may be you should ask yourself wat it means b4 letting it upset you....well! as for wat i bargained for !.....oh yea! is quit unfortunate that you don't even how much............
I SEE THAT U ARE MISS POINT OF CORRECTION, CAN YOU EXPLAIN TO ME WHAT IS AFRICAN MENTALITY Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:16 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 11-02-2011 08:20 AM (14 years ago) (f) What the guy asked for was for help.........so every other comment aside what he wants is not considered useful to him...the deed has been done.....criticizing and condemning his actions will not change any thing.......Is only in Africa that it seems they both are not matured enough to handle issues like that..(African mentality) .....out here, tins are different. 18 and and 20 are fully grown adults to handle what ever life brings their way; and to be responsible for their actions................OLUDU you are the man,....plead with ur mum to understand and bear with her....pregnancy some times creates room for aggressiveness ......your mum should treat her like she were her own daughter, then she might be a bit eased and feel comfortable at that..........wish you all the best, and wish her safe delivery .............Age is not maturity........beware! I THINK YOU WILL MAKE A GOOD TEACHER, BUT MIND U THAT U DON'T INSULT PEOPLE WHILE MAKING YOUR CONTRIBUTION. LET AFRICAN BE WITH THEIR MENTALITY AND YOU KEEP YOUR EUROPEAN MATURITY. IF YOU WANT TO INSULT, THEN WATCH YOUR BACK VERY WELL, BC U WILL GET MORE THAN U ARE BARGINING NOW. HELLO MISS, I DON'T KNOW THE CONTEST AT WHICH YOU ARE SEEING THIS, IT WAS NEVA MEANT TO INSULT..........N BESIDES, I AM AN AFRICAN.......TNX FOR UR COMPLIMENT
MY DEAR, AM NOT VERY PLEASED WITH AFRICAN MENTALITY. IF YOU WANT TO MAKE UR INPUT, U STAY ON THE LINE, DON'T JUMP FROM INSULT TO ADVISE.
Hello miss Treasure,........it does not make sense singling out out two words out of the whole sentence.........point of correction i did not insult any one or ridicule any.......OK?............u rather did wen diverted from the topic and started insulting the boy.....what is "African mentality"? .............is the way Africans look at issues......is not an insult or abusive words.....may be you should ask yourself wat it means b4 letting it upset you....well! as for wat i bargained for !.....oh yea! is quit unfortunate! cos you don,t even know how much..........................
I DON'T KNW WHAT IT MEANS AND I WILL LIKE YOU TO LET ME KNW. Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:20 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 11-02-2011 08:21 AM (14 years ago) (f) @ Treasure...u knw in dis forum jst like any other forum, nothing is real. 4rm those who condemn to those who play mr/miss nice guy. nd u knw ppl understand nd communicate differently. some ppl will hv something different in mind communicating nd it will be received differently, might nt b exactly wot dey meant bt simply bcos they arranged it wrongly.
THANKS, BUT I THINK SOME SHOULD LEARN TO PLAY MY THE RULE. Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:21 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 11-02-2011 08:23 AM (14 years ago) (f) HMMMMMM @ AJANNI
na wetin i do ooo --- treasure 1 2 3 4 5 ---  , WHY NOT MAKE IT 10. Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:23 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 11-02-2011 08:24 AM (14 years ago) (f) see wahala....
NO BE SMALL Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 11-02-2011 08:28 AM (14 years ago) (f) What the guy asked for was for help.........so every other comment aside what he wants is not considered useful to him...the deed has been done.....criticizing and condemning his actions will not change any thing.......Is only in Africa that it seems they both are not matured enough to handle issues like that..(African mentality) .....out here, tins are different. 18 and and 20 are fully grown adults to handle what ever life brings their way; and to be responsible for their actions................OLUDU you are the man,....plead with ur mum to understand and bear with her....pregnancy some times creates room for aggressiveness ......your mum should treat her like she were her own daughter, then she might be a bit eased and feel comfortable at that..........wish you all the best, and wish her safe delivery .............Age is not maturity........beware!
out there? where? Europe or America? What is African mentality here? The contributions here from interesting ladies here like Treasure, Kebella, BS, etc. etc. are the right rebuke to a duns who instead of thinking his books and how to build his future he is thinking honeypot and woman nyash and feeling it normal to bring a woman to her Mama. Igbo people no dey do so. No Mama will even accept u for one day in her home if u sabi fcuk, u must sabi maintain. Ur parents must tell u b4 hand. My Papa go tell u say, hia his own home, u must go rent ur home, pay for it. What a hell do they or the boy have to disturb the Mama in her own, upon that with another woman and pickin go soon come. The pregnant girl get stress and need space which she no dey get, and d boy no dey catch the joke. I wonder why Africans go learn from Oyibo and turn the practice upside down? PLS TELL MISS AFRICAN MENTALITY Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:28 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 11-02-2011 08:30 AM (14 years ago) (f) Eating food meant for elders...............
The girl appeared to have eaten this forbidden apple since she was aged 14. Too young I may say. The man himself might have started playing mum and dad at 16, yet still too young for the snake between his legs to go in search of victim. Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:30 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Treasure2 at 11-02-2011 08:31 AM (14 years ago) (f) out there? where? Europe or America?
What is African mentality here? The contributions here from interesting ladies here like Treasure, Kebella, BS, etc. etc. are the right rebuke to a duns who instead of thinking his books and how to build his future he is thinking honeypot and woman nyash and feeling it normal to bring a woman to her Mama.
Igbo people no dey do so. No Mama will even accept u for one day in her home if u sabi fcuk, u must sabi maintain. Ur parents must tell u b4 hand.
My Papa go tell u say, hia his own home, u must go rent ur home, pay for it. What a hell do they or the boy have to disturb the Mama in her own, upon that with another woman and pickin go soon come.
The pregnant girl get stress and need space which she no dey get, and d boy no dey catch the joke.
I wonder why Africans go learn from Oyibo and turn the practice upside down?
When you have a problem, u a need a solution.........n dats the only answer to that problem..".Solution"......rebuking, condemning, etc is compounding to the problem and is of no relevance to him cos the deed has been done.........apart from help which he is requesting for .............every other tin is of no use to him..........respond to the contest and not out of contest.........
HISSSSSSSSSSSS Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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ajanni at 11-02-2011 08:38 AM (14 years ago) (m) ITS WELL BEYOUND 10, YOU NO DEY SEE WELL ? PUT ON YOUR READING GLASSES NOW , OLD WOMAN Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:38 AM (14 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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Treasure2 at 11-02-2011 08:42 AM (14 years ago) (f) U DON DEY KOLO OOO Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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