African-American Women Needs Advice On Liberian Women (Page 6)

Well, well bred Africans have talked to you that all you need is your husband as the best teacher. As I believe you are educated, it is enough to know that no country have homogeneous character and no recipe for behaviour.

What is paramount in African culture is: there must be respect and Christian values in your relationship with him. Do not shout at him publicly, no matter what. Do not assume the boss of the house, ignoring him. Do no imbibe the "complete" western emancipated tendencies if you wish to live with him long. Do not think that he needed for papers. IT IS IRRITATING. See him as a partner, who two of you must work together to make it work. Do not allow your ego to replace your sense of partnership, especially during the time of family crises. Know that this imminent. Allow him to mingle with Africans, because that reinforces his root which he will never wish to miss or forget. Do not expect kiss on the subway, on the street and in public transport, etc regularly. ETC.

DO NOT FORGET: LOVE GOES THROUGH THE STOMACH. See cooking as normal and Feed him well.

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igbonnanna, I really appreciate your words of wisdom. You are absolutely correct. Initially in our relationship, I did "irritate" him about his motives for marrying me. Thankfully, he loved me enough to push past my insecurities. I've read some of your other posts on other forums and have perceived that you are a very eloquent, intelligent, and refined man. I have one question. Please explain the highlighted part. Thanks

Posted: at 11-02-2011 01:17 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

sweet

Posted: at 11-02-2011 10:16 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

gbam!!! buh da spaglish is so high 

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Posted: at 11-02-2011 10:44 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I C

Posted: at 11-02-2011 10:50 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

hmmm

Posted: at 11-02-2011 01:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Your ignorance amuse me. I "Sound" white simply because I'm using proper English and not subjecting myself to profanity, name calling and violence. Whew, in that case, I prefer to sound white any day!!!

[/quote]you are such a silly & stupid lady,trying to cover your ignorance by referring it to me.don't let me remind you, who you really are.i guess it hasn't skip your tiny mind..

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Posted: at 11-02-2011 05:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Wow!  America has more Nigerian people than any other continent in the world except Africa.  This woman was ill informed and needed guidance and teaching, not humiliation.  Perhaps I should not be on this site either since I am American and White too.  So she asked a question?  There is no such thing as a stupid question, only a stupid answer.  One must remember; before looking into the horses mouth, don't kick him in the teeth first?  OUCH!!!  :'(

Posted: at 11-02-2011 07:41 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

I urge you to stop seeking attention on this site. Besides, we are not phsycotherapists.

Posted: at 11-02-2011 08:29 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

YOUR MAN IS IN A BETTER POSITION TO TEACH YOU HIS CULTURE................BESIDES MAJORITY OF THE FORUMITES HERE ARE NAIJA.............SO PLEASE GO TO YOUR MAN.

Posted: at 11-02-2011 09:51 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

l wonder what u are doing inthis website.those it look like americawhite website to u.u are here looking for blackman to hang wit sorri not available.tell the america black woman to seek for such advice from liberiapals.not naijapals.u know what the sound of the name nigeria iritate other country citizens we are okay with that cos we know who we are.but pls back totally off from us and our website.

Posted: at 11-02-2011 11:18 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming