Naijapals your opinions are needed

Date: 22-02-2011 11:45 am (13 years ago) | Author: Mildred Ogbuja
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- at 22-02-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago)
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What advice will you give to my best friend chidiebere. She shared with me an issue troubling her and i don't know what to say to her, but i will appreciate your opinions. She is in love with a guy that is based in US and the guy loves her as well.

As a matter of fact he actually used 7 years to ask her out. and she finally gave him a chance after she discover he loves her trully. but eight months ago he proposed to her and she is having trouble giving him an answer. She is deeply in love with him and she greatly wants to be his wife but she is unsure of if he is the right person for her.

A part of her wants to accept his request but another part is not sure if he is the one. she have prayed about it but yet it disturbs her any time she thinks of his request, although he is totally sure she is the right person for him. Please any one that actually went through such problem before or knew of some one who did can gives his or her opinion on what she should do. Should she accept or not?Huh??

Posted: at 22-02-2011 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- kebella at 22-02-2011 11:48 AM (13 years ago)
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insecured!! let her visit paster king...............brb

Posted: at 22-02-2011 11:48 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 22-02-2011 11:53 AM (13 years ago)
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Let me get this right! He is in US and she is in Nigeria? In all these years they never met? Huh?

Posted: at 22-02-2011 11:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 22-02-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago)
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hmm interesting,so it took him 7 good years to ask her out..huh!  Undecided .anyway i see your friend trying to play hard to get..but truly she's deceiving herself by playing this kind of game. let her stop confusing herself and decide what she really want.if she love the guy in return let her accept his proposal b4 it's too late for her.but if there's something she discovered in the guy that irritate her,let her quit and stop toiling with the guy heart & time.
Posted: at 22-02-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- solid_solid at 22-02-2011 12:01 PM (13 years ago)
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nonsense post  
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:01 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- olumbareal at 22-02-2011 12:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: solid_solid on 22-02-2011 12:01 PM
nonsense post  

Nawa oooooo!
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 22-02-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago)
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No one makes choice of partner for u... if she tinks she luvs d dude nd d dude in return luvs her whats d agitation for? except dere is smting ur not tellin?
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Henchmann at 22-02-2011 12:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 22-02-2011 11:48 AM
insecured!! let her visit paster king...............brb

Yes oh,

Pastor king has d answer Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:23 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ade_su_wa at 22-02-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago)
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she just doesnt know what she wants
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Henchmann at 22-02-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Abeg, I don run comot here sharp sharp
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- qunodinga at 22-02-2011 12:31 PM (13 years ago)
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brb
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Mildredrules at 22-02-2011 12:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 22-02-2011 11:53 AM
Let me get this right! He is in US and she is in Nigeria? In all these years they never met? Huh?
No, she have been with the guy since her college times but she only give full commitment to him during her tertiary studies.
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:48 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- ajaymoni at 22-02-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago)
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make the girl go sleep. May be she is dating smone else. real joncing girl
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Mildredrules at 22-02-2011 12:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 22-02-2011 11:48 AM
insecured!! let her visit paster king...............brb
Thank you for that note, but i believe that you won't give such advice to your own relation.
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:53 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Mildredrules at 22-02-2011 12:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: solid_solid on 22-02-2011 12:01 PM
nonsense post  
thank you for the opinion, its well noted.
Posted: at 22-02-2011 12:55 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Mildredrules at 22-02-2011 01:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on 22-02-2011 12:16 PM
No one makes choice of partner for u... if she tinks she luvs d dude nd d dude in return luvs her whats d agitation for? except dere is smting ur not tellin?
tanx alot, i will relate this comment to her. Since they both love each other i think they could settle with each other but i can't push her to make a choice above her heart.
Posted: at 22-02-2011 01:01 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 22-02-2011 01:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Mildredrules on 22-02-2011 12:48 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 22-02-2011 11:53 AM
Let me get this right! He is in US and she is in Nigeria? In all these years they never met? Huh?

No, she have been with the guy since her college times but she only give full commitment to him during her tertiary studies.




If she has that instinct which holds her back, something it's wrong there!Tell her to try to figure out what exactly gives her that feeling!

Posted: at 22-02-2011 01:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Mildredrules at 22-02-2011 01:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 22-02-2011 01:01 PM
Quote from: Mildredrules on 22-02-2011 12:48 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 22-02-2011 11:53 AM
Let me get this right! He is in US and she is in Nigeria? In all these years they never met? Huh?

No, she have been with the guy since her college times but she only give full commitment to him during her tertiary studies.




If she has that instinct which holds her back, something it's wrong there!Tell her to try to figure out what exactly gives her that feeling!


I will do so.
Posted: at 22-02-2011 01:07 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 22-02-2011 01:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Ok
May God enlighten her!

Posted: at 22-02-2011 01:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kinkino at 22-02-2011 01:10 PM (13 years ago)
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no comment
Posted: at 22-02-2011 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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