Causes of Broken Relationships (Page 3)

Date: 28-02-2011 5:36 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Pholake
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- pholake at 1-03-2011 02:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  1-03-2011 01:06 PM
amen and u too

Thanks......
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- Eucharia at 1-03-2011 02:27 PM (13 years ago)
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thanks for sharing
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- lanudja at 1-03-2011 02:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Yea noted.
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- pholake at 1-03-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Eucharia on  1-03-2011 02:27 PM
thanks for sharing

U're welcome.... Smiley
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- phelixyd at 1-03-2011 03:23 PM (13 years ago)
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nice talk, beautiful lesson
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- gimac at 1-03-2011 03:51 PM (13 years ago)
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ok
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- ebinyi at 1-03-2011 04:34 PM (13 years ago)
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all of it perfect. with xperiece
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- nnennababe at 1-03-2011 05:23 PM (13 years ago)
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noted..tanx
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- GOLDENMEDAH at 1-03-2011 05:37 PM (13 years ago)
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ok, thanks 4 ur sharing
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- pholake at 1-03-2011 05:39 PM (13 years ago)
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@phelixyd, ebinyi, nnennababe and GOLDENMEDAH....tanx.... Cheesy
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- interpo77 at 1-03-2011 09:52 PM (13 years ago)
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its quite educative, noted n tanks
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- interpo77 at 1-03-2011 09:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eomo on  1-03-2011 01:43 AM
Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than

There is this old saying of a woman who went to an elderly man to complain that her husband beat her every time. The elderly man sensed that the cause of her beating was her words. The old man told her to wait for him to get her a medicine that will stop the beating. The old man gave her a cowry and told her to put the cowry in her mouth immediately an argument is about to start. He told her she must not say a word once the cowry is in her mouth because if the cowry falls then she will get more beating that she may loose her life. She followed the old man's word to the letter and there was no more beating that even the husband was shocked that his wife becomes very quiet when there is an argument. He called his wife one day and asked what the secret was and she opened up to the husband. Both of them went to the old man and he told them that there was nothing to the cowry. She stopped using the cowry and realised that her bad mouth was the cause of her beating. She learned to be quiet and they lived happily together.
hahhah,where i go fit buy that cowry
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- youjoy at 1-03-2011 11:21 PM (13 years ago)
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thank for this wonderful message if only those who are married will listen to this there will be no divorcing
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- youjoy at 1-03-2011 11:22 PM (13 years ago)
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thank for this wonderful message if only those who are married will listen to this there will be no divorcing
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- laydeelaracraft at 2-03-2011 12:05 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on  1-03-2011 02:25 PM
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Quote from: pholake on  1-03-2011 01:00 PM
Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss :-*to u all....wish everyone successful marital life......

you too

thank u.....

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Posted: at 2-03-2011 12:05 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 2-03-2011 12:06 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on  1-03-2011 05:39 PM
@phelixyd, ebinyi, nnennababe and GOLDENMEDAH....tanx.... Cheesy

yu forgot prince  Shocked
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- pholake at 2-03-2011 08:10 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  2-03-2011 12:06 AM
Quote from: pholake on  1-03-2011 05:39 PM
@phelixyd, ebinyi, nnennababe and GOLDENMEDAH....tanx.... Cheesy

yu forgot prince  Shocked
How can I? U know he's a prince, so I can't pair him..... Grin Grin Grin Prince, I hail o.......
Posted: at 2-03-2011 08:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 2-03-2011 08:11 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: youjoy on  1-03-2011 11:21 PM
thank for this wonderful message if only those who are married will listen to this there will be no divorcing

Exactly.....
Posted: at 2-03-2011 08:11 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osemekaanthony at 2-03-2011 09:06 AM (13 years ago)
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As a marriage counselor i have always let couples know about the following facts if they are to sustain theier relationship in marriage.

1. Marriage is a work: Both couples are to determine to work as a team in marriage.Marriage is not for one person alone and when it become one sided there will be a broken relationship,remember " two are better than one" and a"wise woman builded her home but the foolish destroys it with her own hand.

2.Interferrance of extended family can as well cause a broken relationship among couples" Remember a man shall leave his father and mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall become one" that is one in purpose and everything.

3.When couples are rigid holding on to there moral principles and not letting go certaining issues it can cause broken relationship.
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- pholake at 2-03-2011 09:09 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: osemekaanthony on  2-03-2011 09:06 AM
As a marriage counselor i have always let couples know about the following facts if they are to sustain theier relationship in marriage.

1. Marriage is a work: Both couples are to determine to work as a team in marriage.Marriage is not for one person alone and when it become one sided there will be a broken relationship,remember " two are better than one" and a"wise woman builded her home but the foolish destroys it with her own hand.

2.Interferrance of extended family can as well cause a broken relationship among couples" Remember a man shall leave his father and mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall become one" that is one in purpose and everything.

3.When couples are rigid holding on to there moral principles and not letting go certaining issues it can cause broken relationship.
Very true.....thank u for this beautiful addition
Posted: at 2-03-2011 09:09 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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