Causes of Broken Relationships (Page 2)

Date: 28-02-2011 5:36 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Pholake
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- estilizo at 1-03-2011 09:56 AM (14 years ago)
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noted.....duhhhhhhhhhh

Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:56 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 1-03-2011 09:58 AM (14 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:58 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Dan_Fulani at 1-03-2011 10:01 AM (14 years ago)
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Three top reasons are poor communications, financial problems, and refusal to compromise..


dan fulani
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Enockia at 1-03-2011 10:30 AM (14 years ago)
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U er very correct nd thanks for sharing

Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:30 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blessedme at 1-03-2011 10:59 AM (14 years ago)
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 Wink
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Greggiyke at 1-03-2011 11:28 AM (14 years ago)
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This is good one. If we put stuffs like this to work, we will have more successful marriages and relationship.
Good job Pholake.
Posted: at 1-03-2011 11:28 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ann4Best at 1-03-2011 11:37 AM (14 years ago)
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gud one Smiley
Posted: at 1-03-2011 11:37 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- truenaija2 at 1-03-2011 11:43 AM (14 years ago)
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@poster u r too much dis is very correct mayb i try to b less intelligent thank u Cool
Posted: at 1-03-2011 11:43 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- macgreat at 1-03-2011 11:46 AM (14 years ago)
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Nice one

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- Michro at 1-03-2011 11:52 AM (14 years ago)
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Alright poster!

Posted: at 1-03-2011 11:52 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dee4evr at 1-03-2011 12:13 PM (14 years ago)
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Other factors are manageable but infidelity is a very foremost factor that causes broken relationships.
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- macgreat at 1-03-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago)
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*Nodes*

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- ammiemimi at 1-03-2011 12:23 PM (14 years ago)
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thanks 4 dat info
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- pholake at 1-03-2011 01:00 PM (14 years ago)
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 Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss :-*to u all....wish everyone successful marital life......
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- blessedme at 1-03-2011 01:06 PM (14 years ago)
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amen and u too
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 01:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eomo on  1-03-2011 01:43 AM
Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than

There is this old saying of a woman who went to an elderly man to complain that her husband beat her every time. The elderly man sensed that the cause of her beating was her words. The old man told her to wait for him to get her a medicine that will stop the beating. The old man gave her a cowry and told her to put the cowry in her mouth immediately an argument is about to start. He told her she must not say a word once the cowry is in her mouth because if the cowry falls then she will get more beating that she may loose her life. She followed the old man's word to the letter and there was no more beating that even the husband was shocked that his wife becomes very quiet when there is an argument. He called his wife one day and asked what the secret was and she opened up to the husband. Both of them went to the old man and he told them that there was nothing to the cowry. She stopped using the cowry and realised that her bad mouth was the cause of her beating. She learned to be quiet and they lived happily together.

I like the principle of not adding fule to the fire during an argument. However, once things have cooled down, she needs to tell him what she thinks otherwise there mite b a bigger risk
Posted: at 1-03-2011 01:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 01:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on  1-03-2011 01:00 PM
Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss :-*to u all....wish everyone successful marital life......

you too
Posted: at 1-03-2011 01:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onedoor1010 at 1-03-2011 02:03 PM (14 years ago)
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THANKS FOR THE IDEA.............
Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 1-03-2011 02:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  1-03-2011 01:09 PM
Quote from: eomo on  1-03-2011 01:43 AM
Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than

There is this old saying of a woman who went to an elderly man to complain that her husband beat her every time. The elderly man sensed that the cause of her beating was her words. The old man told her to wait for him to get her a medicine that will stop the beating. The old man gave her a cowry and told her to put the cowry in her mouth immediately an argument is about to start. He told her she must not say a word once the cowry is in her mouth because if the cowry falls then she will get more beating that she may loose her life. She followed the old man's word to the letter and there was no more beating that even the husband was shocked that his wife becomes very quiet when there is an argument. He called his wife one day and asked what the secret was and she opened up to the husband. Both of them went to the old man and he told them that there was nothing to the cowry. She stopped using the cowry and realised that her bad mouth was the cause of her beating. She learned to be quiet and they lived happily together.

I like the principle of not adding fule to the fire during an argument. However, once things have cooled down, she needs to tell him what she thinks otherwise there mite b a bigger risk
Yes, u're right....we should be able to tell each other when we're hurt but respectfully......
Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 1-03-2011 02:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  1-03-2011 01:11 PM
Quote from: pholake on  1-03-2011 01:00 PM
Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss :-*to u all....wish everyone successful marital life......

you too

thank u.....
Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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