my parents inlaw hate me and refuse their son to marry me. what should i do. (Page 5)

Date: 07-03-2011 1:28 am (11 years ago) | Author: ygfxcb uyhgjj
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- harold634 at 8-03-2011 02:40 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: silviasilvestet on  7-03-2011 04:27 PM
Quote from: harold634 on  7-03-2011 08:20 AM
OF A TRUTH U RESERVE EVERY RIGHT TO MARRY A WOMAN OF YOUR HEART. U COULD HAVE FIND OUT WHY YOUR PARENTS WERE AGAINST YOUR WIFE, WERE THEY AGAINST HER B4 U LEFT 4 USA OR AFTER U LEFT 4 USA TO MAKE FORTUNES? U COULD HAVE INFORMED THEM B4 THE COURT MARRIAGE EVEN IF THEY DISAGREE TO ATTEND BUT U KNOW VERY WELL  U HAVE NOTIFY THEM AND GIVE THEM YOUR REASONS AND FACT ABOUT YOUR WIFE. IT IS REALLY GOOD TO HAVE PARENTAL BLESSINGS OF MARRIAGE. AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME TRY TO GET THE ATTENTION OF YOUR CLOSE EDERLY MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY AND GET THEM INVOLVE TO RESOLVE YOUR DIFFERNCES WITH YOUR PARENTS. PLEASE USE THE BEST TONE EVER TO WIN THE HEART OF YOU PARENTS AND THEY WILL BE LEFT WITH NO CHOICE BUT TO REACH A COMPROMISE AND SET THE DATE 4 THE TRANDITIONAL WEDDING. AS 4 YOUR WIFE, TELL HER NO TO HOLD ANY GRIVIANCES AGAINST HER INLAWS BUT TO MATAIN CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. BEST OF LUCK.

d refused me to marry her b4 i left and said her parents are not wealthy and she either be a Dr or ......they are none either and are not reach, the lady in question is respectable, loving , gentle and from a good family. to crown it all she s a graduate. where did i go wrong

IF WHAT U ACTTUALLY WROTE HERE ARE YOUR PARENTS REASONS AGAINST YOUR MARRIAGE, THEIR REASONS ARE NOT JUSTIFIED EXCEPT MAYBE THERE IS SOMETHING ELSE YOUR PARENTS ARE AGAINST WHICH IS DIFFICULT 4 U TO EXPOSE. HOWEVER, TRY YOUR POSSIBLE BEST TO SORT OUT THE WHOLE ISSUE AND IF THEY REFUSE AND CONTINUE TO KICK AGAINST YOUR MARRIAGE, JUST CONTINUE WITH YOUR WIFE. GOD HAS ALREADY BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE.
Posted: at 8-03-2011 02:40 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- harold634 at 8-03-2011 02:48 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  8-03-2011 02:10 PM
you did d right thing

buh are u a woman or a man
cos ya status say woman buh ya write up says man
differentiate pls

ADRESS THE TOPIC AND 4GET THE STATUS.
Posted: at 8-03-2011 02:48 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- proly at 8-03-2011 02:50 PM (11 years ago)
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to me GOD MADE us to knw in the bible he said is there anytin too hard 4 ,me so my advice 4 u is to table ur case b4 him.he si the  God of possibility he nhas neva faild me b4 i ve listened to people testimony so ur own is a small case to him wen he say yes who is dat ur inlaw to say no
Posted: at 8-03-2011 02:50 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 8-03-2011 02:59 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: harold634 on  8-03-2011 02:48 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  8-03-2011 02:10 PM
you did d right thing

buh are u a woman or a man
cos ya status say woman buh ya write up says man
differentiate pls

ADRESS THE TOPIC AND 4GET THE STATUS.
Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 8-03-2011 02:59 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- ajanni at 8-03-2011 08:41 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: kinkino on  8-03-2011 12:56 PM
see ur profil....u b man abi woman??? talk tru b4 i go suggest 4 u
who now ?
Posted: at 8-03-2011 08:41 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- interpo77 at 8-03-2011 10:25 PM (11 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 8-03-2011 10:25 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oohio2007 at 9-03-2011 02:13 AM (11 years ago)
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You secretely married her in court here in nigeria and secretely brought her to join you in the states , she had a baby girl for you.My candid advice is that you beg your parents to see things from your angle.Ask them to forgive you for doing it secretely because you wont want your baby girl to marry secretely without your knowlegde when she is grown up.would you?.You both should pray to God to touch their hearts and finally beg them to bless the union.Parental blessings is very important.Believe me.

Posted: at 9-03-2011 02:13 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kayfem at 9-03-2011 02:25 AM (11 years ago)
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May God help you please pray on this issue please
Posted: at 9-03-2011 02:25 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- livingday at 9-03-2011 02:48 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: gibsonpally on  8-03-2011 02:09 AM
There is confusion as to the gender of the poster. The author appears to be female but she is talking about his wife. @ poster - pls clarify the confusion, or is your husband using your mouth to narrate this tale?

Quote from: blessedme on  8-03-2011 02:10 PM
you did d right thing

buh are u a woman or a man
cos ya status say woman buh ya write up says man
differentiate pls

This same question had been put to this poster but no answer. I therefore conclude that this is either a 'he-woman' or a 'she-man'. A big con-artist, if know what I mean!
Posted: at 9-03-2011 02:48 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Allen-jones at 9-03-2011 02:56 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Allen-jones on  7-03-2011 06:11 PM
Quote from: pholake on  7-03-2011 06:06 PM
Quote from: Allen-jones on  7-03-2011 05:59 PM
It's not by force! Look elsewhere 4 your God-given life companion!

And who says the present girl is not the God-given wife?

Because there are so many spanners in the woodworks. The man hinself may not be God-given. Don't force what God has not brought  together.

@ pholake
Posted: at 9-03-2011 02:56 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Allen-jones at 9-03-2011 03:06 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Allen-jones on  7-03-2011 06:11 PM
Quote from: pholake on  7-03-2011 06:06 PM
Quote from: Allen-jones on  7-03-2011 05:59 PM
It's not by force! Look elsewhere 4 your God-given life companion!

And who says the present girl is not the God-given wife?

Because there are so many spanners in the woodworks. The man hinself may not be God-given. Don't force what God has not brought  together.

@ pholake

Don't mind my comments above. I was only pulling your legs. The reason was that I never believed this story, that is the spanners, because here is a confused gender. A woman author cannot be expected to marry her girlfriend, that is the woodworks. Thus, God cannot give a wife to another woman. This is what I meant by its not by force or not God-given!
Posted: at 9-03-2011 03:06 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Omapri at 9-03-2011 05:42 AM (11 years ago)
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SMDH
Posted: at 9-03-2011 05:42 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- pholake at 9-03-2011 09:23 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Allen-jones on  9-03-2011 03:06 AM
Quote from: Allen-jones on  7-03-2011 06:11 PM
Quote from: pholake on  7-03-2011 06:06 PM
Quote from: Allen-jones on  7-03-2011 05:59 PM
It's not by force! Look elsewhere 4 your God-given life companion!

And who says the present girl is not the God-given wife?

Because there are so many spanners in the woodworks. The man hinself may not be God-given. Don't force what God has not brought  together.

@ pholake

Don't mind my comments above. I was only pulling your legs. The reason was that I never believed this story, that is the spanners, because here is a confused gender. A woman author cannot be expected to marry her girlfriend, that is the woodworks. Thus, God cannot give a wife to another woman. This is what I meant by its not by force or not God-given!

I noticed it too....maybe she's d girl in question (considering the title of the post) or she read it somewhere........
Posted: at 9-03-2011 09:23 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- djfreshskillz at 10-03-2011 08:02 PM (11 years ago)
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hello babe stick to ur lover not ur mother inlaw.
Posted: at 10-03-2011 08:02 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- silviasilvestet at 11-03-2011 01:41 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: livingday on  9-03-2011 02:48 AM
Quote from: gibsonpally on  8-03-2011 02:09 AM
There is confusion as to the gender of the poster. The author appears to be female but she is talking about his wife. @ poster - pls clarify the confusion, or is your husband using your mouth to narrate this tale?

Quote from: blessedme on  8-03-2011 02:10 PM
you did d right thing

buh are u a woman or a man
cos ya status say woman buh ya write up says man

hello fellow nig. im not kidding and this story is not fake,.my story is real and im a man. it happened to me and im seeking opinio to make
differentiate pls

This same question had been put to this poster but no answer. I therefore conclude that this is either a 'he-woman' or a 'she-man'. A big con-artist, if know what I mean!
Posted: at 11-03-2011 01:41 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Allen-jones at 11-03-2011 02:14 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: silviasilvestet on 11-03-2011 01:41 AM
Quote from: livingday on  9-03-2011 02:48 AM
Quote from: gibsonpally on  8-03-2011 02:09 AM
There is confusion as to the gender of the poster. The author appears to be female but she is talking about his wife. @ poster - pls clarify the confusion, or is your husband using your mouth to narrate this tale?

Quote from: blessedme on  8-03-2011 02:10 PM
you did d right thing

buh are u a woman or a man
cos ya status say woman buh ya write up says man

hello fellow nig. im not kidding and this story is not fake,.my story is real and im a man. it happened to me and im seeking opinio to make differentiate pls

This same question had been put to this poster but no answer. I therefore conclude that this is either a 'he-woman' or a 'she-man'. A big con-artist, if know what I mean!

@ silviasilvestet

You said you are a man but your profile said you are a woman. How can you reconcile this contradiction? Are u taking pals 4granted or on a merry-go-round? Stop this scam, Amaka!
Posted: at 11-03-2011 02:14 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 11-03-2011 09:34 AM (11 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 11-03-2011 09:34 AM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- blackeli at 12-03-2011 03:43 PM (11 years ago)
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true love never end love is blind, love is sweat, and love is bitter don't be surprise b/c there is a purpose for it, if realling she is the born of your born and flesh of your flesh you did the write thing, not even your parent can change the destiny, the only solution to your problem is prayer and every thin will be alright, have patient and trust in God.
Posted: at 12-03-2011 03:43 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- El-magnifico at 12-03-2011 06:11 PM (11 years ago)
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All of una don talk [email protected] poster Abeg follow ur heart oo
Posted: at 12-03-2011 06:11 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 13-03-2011 09:06 AM (11 years ago)
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alright
Posted: at 13-03-2011 09:06 AM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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