my parents inlaw hate me and refuse their son to marry me. what should i do. (Page 3)

Quote from: Diamond4u on  7-03-2011 04:32 PM

CLOSE UR Bosom  FIRST

eagle eye,lol

Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:33 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

wetin your eye dey find for her chest?
na real eagle eye.

Posted: at 7-03-2011 05:39 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

As far as am concerned "LOVE IS WHERE YOU FIND IT". You did the right thing by marrying for true love. With time try to convince your family on your reason for marrying her, if you can convince one out of the lot thats fine, else leave it to God to do your battle for you. By the way I wish you and your young family the best of God's blessings.

Posted: at 7-03-2011 05:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Rubbish nonsensically idiotic reason.........
when did their son start to make it? If the guy loves his girl truly like he claims, he should go ahead with his girl.....when it's too late (like after the 3rd child) he can inform them. Thank God they lvie wide apart.....it's not iall the time that parents are right.......

Posted: at 7-03-2011 06:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

And who says the present girl is not the God-given wife?

Posted: at 7-03-2011 06:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Because there are so many spanners in the woodworks. The man hinself may not be God-given. Don't force what God has not brought  together.

Posted: at 7-03-2011 06:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Try to buy then MILO AND ANKARA....LOL

Posted: at 7-03-2011 06:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You are a good man with a conscience,u did the right thing but try and reconcile with ur parents because a child is already involved and ahe is now ur wife.

Posted: at 7-03-2011 08:00 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

What is Wrong 2 me might be Right 2 yu, so yur Life yur Choice

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Posted: at 7-03-2011 08:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

.............a  woman of my choice.  i love her till death. she wa there for me when no one was there and assisted me  both financially and encouraging in so many ways. finally as God would have it  i won the lottery and relocated to the states . but on mentioning her to my parents that im ready to marry this woman . they refuse and never give me any concrete reason why i shld not marry  her. b4 i left the state ,i quietely married her in a court without theier knowlegde which helped me in bringing her to the states without their knowlege the woman in question has given birth to my beautiful baby girl .
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Poster, you have not done any wrong, if this is exactly how everything happened. If you are over 18 years of age, you have all the right in the World to marry who ever you wish to marry. when this girl was helping you, what did your parents do or sad? how did they see her then? was your relationship with her open to everyone to notice or was it a hide and seek game, that your parents did not see the good part of her? what ever reasons you parents have now is immaterial as much as they did not complain about it while you were a nobody, financially, in Nigeria.

Posted: at 7-03-2011 08:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie