Most nigerian parents raises their children in the black/local way,where they want their children to see them as Almighty,most feared and most adored,but fail to understand and give attention to d them.They tend to hide certain things 4rm them.What is wrong in raising kids like d whites,where there's mutual understandn,love and trust.When the kids r more than just a kid and even a best friend?So i wanna knw how would u prefer to raise ur kids
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Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 16-03-2011 03:47 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: justceetah on 16-03-2011 03:43 PM
Most nigerian parents raises their children in the black/local way,where they want their children to see them as Almighty,most feared and most adored,but fail to understand and give attention to d them.They tend to hide certain things 4rm them.What is wrong in raising kids like d whites,where there's mutual understandn,love and trust.When the kids r more than just a kid and even a best friend?So i wanna knw how would u prefer to raise ur kids
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Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:47 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
truenaija2 at 16-03-2011 03:55 PM (14 years ago) (f)
my father raised us with love and respect, thats how i learned to love and respect my father and others, but i will not give respect to someone thta doesnt appreciate it or doesnt respect me, but my father is very strict but showed us a lot of love and respect
Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
blessedme at 16-03-2011 03:56 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: pholake on 16-03-2011 03:52 PM
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
am loving dis so much...God bless u
Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
am loving dis so much...God bless u
Amen and u too...
Posted: at 16-03-2011 03:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
if na so you dey treat your kids then they won't disappoint you
Posted: at 16-03-2011 04:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
gbam
Posted: at 16-03-2011 04:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 16-03-2011 04:11 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: pholake on 16-03-2011 03:52 PM
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
Thats what my 1st answer was all about.....my addition was not sparing the rod.....my parents didnt ever touch me, but kids of these days have an attachment in the name of an ear, if you spare the rod always, they will be spoilt........and me no get power to dey always shout......
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Posted: at 16-03-2011 04:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
if na so you dey treat your kids then they won't disappoint you
Yes o, that's the way o. Thanks
Posted: at 16-03-2011 04:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 16-03-2011 04:09 PM
Quote from: pholake on 16-03-2011 03:52 PM
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
gbam
Posted: at 16-03-2011 04:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
if na so you dey treat your kids then they won't disappoint you
Yes o, that's the way o. Thanks
u welcome!
Posted: at 16-03-2011 04:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
Thats what my 1st answer was all about.....my addition was not sparing the rod.....my parents didnt ever touch me, but kids of these days have an attachment in the name of an ear, if you spare the rod always, they will be spoilt........and me no get power to dey always shout......
U're quite right my sister.....to most of the children these days, cane speaks louder than mama or papa's voice. @ times u don't need to use it (especially for kids who exhibit high level of intelligence and gentleness) but mere "flashing" it would keep them in check.....
Posted: at 16-03-2011 04:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dirtykid at 16-03-2011 04:42 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: pholake on 16-03-2011 03:52 PM
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
Thats it. You're over correct my dear.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 16-03-2011 04:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
My take: raise ur kids in love, fear of God and discipline.....be their friends but apply limits. Don't spare the rod so they wouldn't spoil but don't be abusive with the rod cos when they get used to it, it doesn't correct them any more.
Thats it. You're over correct my dear.
Posted: at 16-03-2011 04:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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