Can I genuinely trust again my wife after she confessed to infidelity? (Page 4)

Date: 19-03-2011 4:39 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- Sheree at 21-03-2011 03:51 PM (13 years ago)
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This is a real MAN talking. It is a pity, you have to go through all these. Like you said, it is easier to forgive than to forget. Remember, that with God nothing shall be impossible. He alone, will give you the grace and strength to forget. Your marriage is so important to God as it is to you. He will help you through this trying period. With time, you will put all behind you and learn to trust her again.
Posted: at 21-03-2011 03:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chicanorose at 21-03-2011 04:05 PM (13 years ago)
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the both of u should sit down and have a heart to heart discussion.............. make her understand your fears and worry, try as much as u can to put the past behind. may God see u true

Posted: at 21-03-2011 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 21-03-2011 04:06 PM (13 years ago)
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>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Posted: at 21-03-2011 04:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- UniqueBaby at 21-03-2011 04:30 PM (13 years ago)
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wot's gud for the goose is also good for the gander. sought urselves out.
Posted: at 21-03-2011 04:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- kooldemsy at 21-03-2011 05:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Shit happens everytime
Posted: at 21-03-2011 05:30 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 21-03-2011 06:28 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin

is that why you covered your nose ?
Posted: at 21-03-2011 06:28 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- superdiva at 21-03-2011 07:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 19-03-2011 04:43 PM



DON'T SAY THAT. MOST WOMEN THAT HAVE GONE WAYWARD IN THE WORLD, NA MEN PROVOKE AM. THE GUY TOO WAS MESSING UP.
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:10 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Allen-jones at 21-03-2011 07:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 21-03-2011 11:27 AM
Quote from: chisparlis on 20-03-2011 09:24 AM
there is no reason for me to starve my children in hunger this is the reason why i have to make plenty of wealth  before my time of marriage... Grin Grin

mean while in this situation my wife can never do it,  i will cheat her for real but if i cut her cheating on me she is either bye bye forever and she will never in her life come back to check on the kids because i won't allow her.

it is not easy to marry nowadays so all the woman should go and turn to lesbians.

And the men? Dunno why u hate women so much....u'd cheat on ur woman and she dares not cheat on u? U're a thousand joker of the century!

Marriage between a man and woman is not based on an 'eye for an eye or a tooth for a tooth' according to Moses law. That is a bygone era. The implication of a cheating or revenging wife is passing off a bastard as her husband's child while it is not. Would you like this fate to befall your grown up son?
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:20 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 21-03-2011 07:24 PM (13 years ago)
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no oooo
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:24 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Allen-jones at 21-03-2011 07:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ajanni on 21-03-2011 07:24 PM
no oooo

Thank you my brother!
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:26 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Michro at 21-03-2011 07:27 PM (13 years ago)
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Why will I trust her again.
Once a theif, always a theif.....
Once a cheat always a cheat......

Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Allen-jones at 21-03-2011 07:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Michro on 21-03-2011 07:27 PM
Why will I trust her again.
Once a theif, always a theif.....
Once a cheat always a cheat......

Very true bros.
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:29 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Michro at 21-03-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Allen-jones on 21-03-2011 07:29 PM
Quote from: Michro on 21-03-2011 07:27 PM
Why will I trust her again.
Once a theif, always a theif.....
Once a cheat always a cheat......

Very true bros.
Yeah!
Thanks!!!!!!

Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Allen-jones at 21-03-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: UniqueBaby on 21-03-2011 04:30 PM
wot's gud for the goose is also good for the gander. sought urselves out.

You will make a bad wife with that outlook on life.
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 21-03-2011 08:57 PM (13 years ago)
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agreed
Posted: at 21-03-2011 08:57 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- pholake at 22-03-2011 09:01 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Michro on 21-03-2011 07:27 PM
Why will I trust her again.
Once a theif, always a theif.....
Once a cheat always a cheat......

There's always room for repentance and forgiveness......even God gives us this chance
Posted: at 22-03-2011 09:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 22-03-2011 09:03 AM (13 years ago)
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yes
Posted: at 22-03-2011 09:03 AM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Librabilex at 22-03-2011 10:02 AM (13 years ago)
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Yes u can trust her in as much she has admit to her fault and she is repentant,though i know its not easy to erase such memories but u just ve to in other to make ur married work.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 10:02 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Greggiyke at 22-03-2011 02:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Any man or woman that say he/she cheats in other to get back at his/her spouse is a very irresponsible person and is worse than the other person that first cheated. I feel disappoint by the way some people react to sensitive issues like this. If u are a nasty person, keep that to urself and don't try to convince others to be like u. This is a matter of the heart so, let us please treat it as such. Provide solutions to issues not complications. I just threw a stone, know thy self if it touched thee.
As for my brother involved in this case, I think u have made the best choice taking ur woman on a vacation, try to listen to her more and make urself her best friend, also make her ur best friend so that even she is heart broken she will only want to shear her pain with u and not some bad friends that will want her to have peace-less family like theirs.  I wish u a peaceful home bro, keep loving ur wife, i think she is still the best u can ever have as a wife.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Expresslady at 22-03-2011 02:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 22-03-2011 09:01 AM
Quote from: Michro on 21-03-2011 07:27 PM
Why will I trust her again.
Once a theif, always a theif.....
Once a cheat always a cheat......

There's always room for repentance and forgiveness......even God gives us this chance

thnx a lot pastor pholake. Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:39 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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