Can I genuinely trust again my wife after she confessed to infidelity? (Page 2)

Foolishness!
If she knew that she can't forgive and trust him again (logically! ),she should have divorced him instead of
her loosing her senses and doing craps like those!

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Posted: at 19-03-2011 08:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

i'm sorry its too long for me...no long tin abeg

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Posted: at 20-03-2011 12:38 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

everywoman is different ,sum cant control their anger.

Posted: at 20-03-2011 12:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

I can't believe what some ladies are saying here. The woman not only committed adultery like the husband but also went 4 jazz against the husband. This makes her sin double. Women do get pregnant but men don't. Paternity can be in doubt but never maternity. If she does become pregnant chances are she will pass it on to her husband. This is why adultery in a married woman is worse than that of a man. Further, in Africa a man can marry more than one wife but never more than one husband! So the idea that if your husband cheats you can also cheat to revenge is both odious and stinks to high hell - a sure marriage wrecker. 

Posted: at 20-03-2011 04:04 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

2long a story,2 wrongs don make rite sha wat if she got hiv in return?

Posted: at 20-03-2011 11:28 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

When talking on forgiveness, is a very easy thing but to be trusted once again is the real point that do affects matters like this. Who will
be happy to hear it that his/her spouse has made an attempt of using any jazz against him/her. Well poster his your spouse you know her better.

Posted: at 20-03-2011 06:06 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

do me i do you,everybody is happy.........next pls

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Posted: at 20-03-2011 06:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

well, as at the point i could red from the topic, i can see ur confidence enough as man,
u have controlled the situation ,during the time ur heard ur wife confessed to the pastor abt her infidelity,
and u holdurself till her confession to u,it showed ur maturity,
well what u should do is, continue ur marriage yes i know its never easy for men to live wif  unfaithful woman,
u must try to win ur happiness again, she is ur wif and the mother to the little kids,
talk wif her over the issue , and just berry the hatchet, the wound will soon heal

Posted: at 20-03-2011 07:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

That means you would cheat on your husband if you find out that he has cheated on you in tha past?

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Posted: at 20-03-2011 09:09 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

nope!

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Posted: at 20-03-2011 09:16 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero