Reasons married men keep running after ‘call girls’ (Page 2)

Date: 26-03-2011 8:07 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- oohio2007 at 27-03-2011 01:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: cherryA on 26-03-2011 09:51 PM
All men are just useless unless the ones that have the fear of God. No matter the amount of sex and styles they get from their wife thy are still bound to ve extra marital affairs. I pray God will deliver them from the spirit of lust, you will see some men that ve prety women as wife still going after house girl
Its very obvious that you are a useless woman or girl what ever you are.You just potrayed by your comment that you dont know God not to talk of fearing him.If you have the fear of God,you wont call all men useless.You seem to forget that you have a father,brother uncles ,cousins...e.t.c.not all of them fear God.Are there not married women that run after thier drivers and houseboys inspite of the fact that  they have responsible men as husbands?If you have a useless man for a partner does not make others useless.Read the post over again you would realise that the poster is trying to profer solution to a serious marrital issue in his own little way.I believe this site wasnt designed to give room for people to insult each other but to encourage positive and constructive  networking.I understsnd your plight.Dont transfer agression to innocent poeple I TAKE GOD BEG YOU.

Posted: at 27-03-2011 01:44 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ajento at 27-03-2011 02:45 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: cherryA on 26-03-2011 09:51 PM
All men are just useless  unless the ones that have the fear of God. No matter the amount of sex and styles they get from their wife thy are still bound to ve extra marital affairs. I pray God will deliver them from the spirit of lust, you will see some men that ve prety women as wife still going after house girl

You are such a fowl mouthed woman. Calling all men useless is indicative of the fact that you are in a sad relationship if at all. If your husband/boyfriend is unsatisfiable why the generalisation. There are men who are disciplined from birth that takes their vows more serious than anything, and that has nothing to do with the fear of God, rather out of personal conviction that doing otherwise will scuttle the love, joy and harmony in their family. Maybe you are one of those that call themselves prety and feel that it should makeup for your lacklustre performance in the bedroom, being rude and disrespectful to your husband/boyfriend. Surprisingly enough all you could read out of the post was "sex and styles" thereby totally missing the point the post is trying to drive home. I think its time for you to change and you will see what difference that change will bring into your love life.
Posted: at 27-03-2011 02:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 27-03-2011 04:08 AM (13 years ago)
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Reason ko excuse ni.. .shiorrr

Posted: at 27-03-2011 04:08 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Deffney at 27-03-2011 04:39 AM (13 years ago)
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wow! what a post...speechless.......nice info anyway....

Posted: at 27-03-2011 04:39 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jiflexy at 27-03-2011 05:09 AM (13 years ago)
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]SOME WOMEN ARE JUST TOO LAZY TO DEVICE SOME NEW STYLES AS IN MAKING THEIR SEX LIFE PALATABLE AND
MEMORABLE, WHICH IS VERY ANNOYING WHILE SOME OF THEM ARE SO DIRTY THAT THE MAN CAN'T STAND THE DEADLY
NUCLEAR STENCH THAT MIGRATES OUT OF THEIR HORNY POT WHICH IS ALSO A BIG TURN OFF ! NOW TELL ME
WHY THE MAN WONT GO OUT SIDE TO FIND ANOTHER SWEET LADY THAT CAN SATISFY HIM ?
EVEN MEN OF GOD ARE IN NEED OF GOOD SEX BECAUSE THEY ARE HUMAN AND BLOOD RUNS THROUGH THEIR VEINS ![/color]

hope you are not among d guys that always say black woman are smelling like my foolish friend right here,that i am fighting with,4getin his mum is black,cos he don see white yatsh for d first time for him life,
if ur girl has little smell,do try to help her by taking her to the hospital and gt some good prescription from the doctor,with good care,u can overcome that smell,nut the ladies should try to leav up to expectation
Posted: at 27-03-2011 05:09 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- folasadegold at 27-03-2011 08:01 AM (13 years ago)
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if your wife or girlfriend is dirty why cant you train him if you really love him or her to your taste and am sure she will adapt
Posted: at 27-03-2011 08:01 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- folasadegold at 27-03-2011 08:06 AM (13 years ago)
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 Husband is a teacher who must always teach her wife not by beating her o but you know eeeee
Posted: at 27-03-2011 08:06 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- proly at 27-03-2011 09:09 AM (13 years ago)
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ok i don hear
Posted: at 27-03-2011 09:09 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 27-03-2011 09:20 AM (13 years ago)
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If yur wife is laying like a log of wood. Say sumting, unless yu av communicated to her that u r not segxwally fulfilled then u got no case
Posted: at 27-03-2011 09:20 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 27-03-2011 09:28 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: nametalkam on 26-03-2011 08:07 PM
This is an interesting article I came across on Punch web newspapers.

Ladies, do you think this is enough excuse for infidelity ?

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Reason one: The desire for adventure, exploration and wild-lovemaking drives many married men into the arms of ‘call girls.’ From childhood until date, there is one thing that is universal to the human race and that is the desire or taste for ‘something new,’ desire ‘change.’ The best way some married men fight monotony and boredom is to go out to see what is happening ‘elsewhere.’ If you will all agree with me, there is really no difference in the female segxwal organ. The Bosom , honeypot and buttocks of the wife at home is the same at the market place and all over the continent. Nevertheless, the differences seen in the same material coming out as different products ‘of class’ is in the freshness, packaging, style, skill, approach, cleverness, expertise, method, fashion and colour. When sex between couples is always in the same place, with the same nightdress on the same bed in the same position, it does not only become tasteless, but outdated.

Wife, when your innovation level is zero, lifeless and sex had become a dull non-erotic obligatory routine-duty that must be carried out, your husband is secretly looking for a way out. Don’t be predictable: make a conscious effort to dish out pleasant surprises, just as you dish out difference type of meals, stew and soup. Let your sex timetable consist of African, China, French and intercontinental dishes.

Stay sexy for your husband: don’t take him for granted; encourage his segxwal advances and exploitations. Invest in some sexy lingerie that flatter your figure and shape. Wear his favourite perfume that you know always turns him on when you are in the mood for sex so when he gets a whiff of it, he knows the next action to take. Men love subtle seduction. Husbands are visual and are attracted to what they see. Wear an attractive ‘G’ string and sit opposite him and just open your legs slowly, innocently and seductively, or lie seductively naked in an unusual position that is irresistible for him.

Add some spontaneity to your sex and romance. Jump at your husband when he least expects it. Have sex at unusual times and places; treat him to an erotic set-up, flirt and laugh with your spouse. Having a great sense of humour is a good recipe for a healthy sex bed. It is disastrous for a wife to always lie like a log of wood and wait for her husband to make the first move. Ninety per cent of married men love to see their wives take segxwal initiative and be in charge. It sends erotic feelings down their spine and opens up their wallet to sign any cheque.

Reason two: They hate the same style of sex. For a change tonight, lie on your back with a pillow under your head, your legs in the air as straight and high as possible. While kneeling (his chest at your calves), your husband can push your legs to one side slightly then lean forward, and enter you. He can place his hands on the bed or floor on either side of your upper body for support. Why this will keep him away from the ‘call girls’ is because keeping your legs up high and close together creates a super-tight fit, which means goose-bump-inducing friction for you and your man. And since he is entering you at a slight (about 30 degrees) angle, you both get a down-there sensation that’s very distinct from what you’re used to in the missionary or doggy position. You can take one of his hands to your clitoris for him to stroke while he pumps away, or just lie back, luxuriate in how oh-so-fabulous your body feels, and know that the view of you writhing in ecstasy is also making him howl.

You can experiment with the alternating bending of your knees a bit and opening your legs slightly. With each move, you will both experience a completely different grip and feel. Since the snug fit will loosen a little and the angle of entry will change, mixing things up this way will make your desire seriously take flight.

Alternatively, you can lie on the floor or another flat surface face up, with your legs bent under your thighs and your arms raised straight back over your head. Have your husband lie on top of you face-to-face, his legs straight and his hands gripping either your shoulders or your sides. Once you have squeezed the pose so that it is comfortable for you both, he can penetrate you with wide, circular motions or deep, up-and-down thrusting this will not only erase the ‘call girl’ memories, he will sign off his weekends for you.

Unlike other deep-access positions, this one allows for optimum eye contact, kissing, and touching. He can play with your Bosom s with his hands or tongue, and with your hands above your head, it is up to him to triple your pleasure. With your legs bent under you and your arms straight over your head, your back will naturally be slightly arched. You will find that his penis will reach even deeper delights.

‘Call girls’ are expert when it comes to giving sex in a standing ovation. What stops you from learning the secret ‘trade brand’ of a ‘call girl’ and doing likewise; face your husband, standing with your legs shoulder width apart. Take your left foot and turn it out to the side while keeping your right one facing forward. Have him widen his stance, with his legs about three feet apart, and then ask him to bend his knees ever so slightly. Wrap your arms around his neck and have him put his arms snugly around your lower back. Here is where it gets a little tricky: Pull your right leg up and place your right foot on his left shoulder, keeping your right knee bent. As he slowly enters you, ease into the vertical split by sliding your calf as far up his left shoulder as you comfortably can.

There is a reason husbands are drawn to this style. The flexibility is h-o-t, so, do this one and he will worship you as a sex icon who knows how to stretch segxwal boundaries. Pressing your husband up against a wall will help both of you keep your balance and force him to relinquish all power over to you. To him, there is no bigger turn-on, and if this be the case, what is he looking for outside?
ime ? black men does it better anyway
but this is naijapal now , why always feeding us with white men pics all the t
Posted: at 27-03-2011 09:28 AM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Phoenix77 at 27-03-2011 09:59 AM (13 years ago)
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People seem to 4get that it takes 2 to commit this attrocious act,there are girls who avail themselves for these good for nothing men.Not all men are interested in shit like this,I know a woman hopless and heartless enough to wanna ruin another woman's home,she,knowing fully well that the man is a married man still went ahead,allowed the hopeless bastard to disvirgin her,immagine that girls,she then bloody fell in love with the said man and was more than ready to wait for him till her dieing days,even when the said man started pushing her away,she stayed waitng for 3 good years,wasting away her life for 3 years,doing nothing but waiting for a married man to leave his wife for her,what do you make of that guys? Is it just the man that is to blame? I don't think sooooo! I know women always want the 1st time they have sex to be very special so for a woman in her right senses to have allowed a married man disvirgin her at age 28 means she is to blame even more than the effing idiot that is cheating on his wife and for her to continue sleeping with him for 3 years knowing he's married shows how low some women's esteem can get.So let's stop blaming only men.I vehemently hate cheats,men or women.
Posted: at 27-03-2011 09:59 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- levis at 27-03-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago)
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some men goes after ladies for more sex if their wives denies them sex when they feels it.some because
their wives cant make love,some when their wives cant seduce them but irrespective of all these,MEN are
still DOGS and so is the WOMEN
Posted: at 27-03-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- olugirlie at 27-03-2011 12:13 PM (13 years ago)
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From childhood until date, there is one thing that is universal to the human race and that is the desire or taste for ‘something new,’ desire ‘change.’ The best way some married men fight monotony and boredom is to go out to see what is happening ‘elsewhere

people forget that this human race also includes 'women' who gets bored with the same man not doing anything to improve himself or making his wife want to have sex with him.  some women tend to lose interest in their man as they change, smell and not do anything romantic, these women find something else to fill the void e.g. kids etc. . I have heard women say they know their husband is cheating but they cant be bothered because they do not feel like having sex with him anyways and he shd just go get it from somewhere else.

My only worry is women are also engaging more than ever before in extra marital affairs and na that one dey sweet pass because they never catch us.... Cheesy Smiley Wink
Posted: at 27-03-2011 12:13 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- olugirlie at 27-03-2011 12:14 PM (13 years ago)
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From childhood until date, there is one thing that is universal to the human race and that is the desire or taste for ‘something new,’ desire ‘change.’ The best way some married men fight monotony and boredom is to go out to see what is happening ‘elsewhere

people forget that this human race also includes 'women' who gets bored with the same man not doing anything to improve himself or making his wife want to have sex with him.  some women tend to lose interest in their man as they change, smell and not do anything romantic, these women find something else to fill the void e.g. kids etc. . I have heard women say they know their husband is cheating but they cant be bothered because they do not feel like having sex with him anyways and he shd just go get it from somewhere else.

My only worry is women are also engaging more than ever before in extra marital affairs and na that one dey sweet pass because they never catch us.... Cheesy Smiley Wink
Posted: at 27-03-2011 12:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Youngstoriez at 27-03-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: folasadegold on 26-03-2011 10:29 PM
i so much love this.big coodles to the counsellor we need this always

...really??
Posted: at 27-03-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- hotguy77 at 27-03-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Good talk
Posted: at 27-03-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- superdiva at 27-03-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago)
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my follow women no vex but this post na true talk. Its fact and truth, most women don't like to hear this but sex plays an important part in a man's life. 9ja women like to form when it comes to sex, una go form for boyfriend and form for husband too. Men get tired of being wit one woman easily even wen they really love that woman, d only thing u can do to keep them there is to upgrade ur game daily. Y must u wear nightgown to go to bed wit ur husband, y not wear a panty and even more better, SLEEP NAKED. Change ur hair frequently, get ur nails done, dress sexy while at home. HOT TIP: if u and ur husband r alone at home, if u meet him in d kitchen, parlour etc. Do one rush up for there, u know what i mean etc. Its sexy, freaky and hot. Lol. Who be call guls?
Posted: at 27-03-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ajento at 27-03-2011 03:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: folasadegold on 27-03-2011 08:01 AM
if your wife or girlfriend is dirty why cant you train him if you really love him or her to your taste and am sure she will adapt


But some wives are unteachable. They seem to know it all. What do you do in such a case?
Posted: at 27-03-2011 03:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Lekan22 at 27-03-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago)
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This is real good. Thanks.
Posted: at 27-03-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ajento at 27-03-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Phoenix77 on 27-03-2011 09:59 AM
People seem to 4get that it takes 2 to commit this attrocious act,there are girls who avail themselves for these good for nothing men.Not all men are interested in shit like this,I know a woman hopless and heartless enough to wanna ruin another woman's home,she,knowing fully well that the man is a married man still went ahead,allowed the hopeless bastard to disvirgin her,immagine that girls,she then bloody fell in love with the said man and was more than ready to wait for him till her dieing days,even when the said man started pushing her away,she stayed waitng for 3 good years,wasting away her life for 3 years,doing nothing but waiting for a married man to leave his wife for her,what do you make of that guys? Is it just the man that is to blame? I don't think sooooo! I know women always want the 1st time they have sex to be very special so for a woman in her right senses to have allowed a married man disvirgin her at age 28 means she is to blame even more than the effing idiot that is cheating on his wife and for her to continue sleeping with him for 3 years knowing he's married shows how low some women's esteem can get.So let's stop blaming only men.I vehemently hate cheats,men or women.


Bros, you are totally wrong on this one. It is 100% the man's fault. He is a married man, why is he in the first place romantic with a woman other than his wife?? What was he thinking, take a girls virginity and walk away. If you don't know why don't you ask girls what goes through their minds at the time they lost their virginity to a man. The truth is - some will rather die than loose the man, especially when the experiences is still fresh in their heart and soul.
Posted: at 27-03-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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