Hello A Psycho has been stalking me for years! (Page 6)

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    *  Convince your psychopath that messing with your life or with your nearest is going to cost him dearly.

    * Do not threaten him. Simply, be unequivocal and firm about your desire to be left in peace and your intentions to involve the Law should he stalk, harass, or threaten you.

    * Give him a choice between being left alone and becoming the target of multiple arrests, restraining orders, and worse.

    * Take extreme precautions at all times and meet him accompanied by someone and in public places – and only if you have no other choice.

    * Minimize contact and interact with him through professionals (lawyers, accountants, therapists, police officers, judges).

    * Document every contact, every conversation, try to commit everything to writing. You may need it as evidence.(if any)

    * Educate your children to be on their guard and to exercise caution and good judgement.

    * Keep fully posted and updated your local law enforcement agencies, your friends, the media, and anyone else who would listen.

    * Be careful with your personal information. Provide only the bare and necessary minimum. Remember: he has ways of finding out.

    * Under no circumstances succumb to his romantic advances, accept his gifts, respond to personal communications, show interest in his affairs,       help him out, or send him messages directly or through third parties. Maintain the No Contact rule.

    * Equally, do not seek revenge. Do not provoke him, "punish him", taunt him, disparage him, bad-mouth or gossip about him or your relationship.

I know how you feel. I have many sisters that will likely be your age, I can't imagine somebody tormenting them like that coward have done to you. First of all I will encourage you to change your number. I did make several calls to the number you posted and have spoken nicely to the guy, and I have begged him to stop texting or calling you. When I said that he said oh is she your sister and I said yes and he laughed and hung up on me for the 4th time. I will still call him and if he refuses then I will step it up a notch. Keep checking here for feed back. Take care.

You are just speaking out after 3 years? Anyway, I've made a note of the numbers. I'll get back to you shortly. Leave the matter to me. Make I communicate with our ancestors first.