Somebody Help Me

Am happily married , our married life was bound with love my wife and I love each so much.

After two years my wife got promoted on her office and free sponsorship to a one year study abroad,
my wife plead not to go becouse of the love we shear, i encurage her bc i know that it will help her future carier.
Now is 6 months she left the country, i have try to hold my self from comiting adultry till now
but as am taking to u now i cant hold my self anymore becouse there is this girl in my office that been asking me out
and am tuning her down bc i promise my wife to be faithfull her u matter what .
  A man that love to have sex atleast two three times every week now is 6 months i cant think a sec without me thinking of sex i cant concetrate on my work , its coursing me a sleepless night
PLS PAL HELP ME           WHAT WIL I DO HOW CAN I HOLD TO MY PROMISE TILL MORE 6 MONTHS
                                   IF U ARE IN MY SHOE WHAT WILL U DO ,WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE THIS THANKS 
 

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Posted: at 18-04-2011 07:33 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Have yourself concentrated in sex to have sex or work to work. No sitting on the fence, the battle lines are drawn!

Posted: at 18-04-2011 09:06 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

why not travel over to where she is and hav a wonderful shot with her for some days then com back than to sleep with another woman. remember she is there becos of the future of the familt nit just 4 hersef.  be faithful till the end

Posted: at 18-04-2011 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

D bible says dat it is better 4 man not to make a promise dan making a promise witout fulfillment. Try as much as possible to keep ur promise by practising dis few things.
1. Avoid Staying alone wit any woman
2. Avoid dirty jokes and kinky wit women
3. Dont look deeply to women in way dat u will begin to imagine
4. Dont watch pornography films or read sex magazines.
5. Always Occupy ur wit thoughts of God and secondly ur biz
6. Read ur bible when u are alone or motivating books

Think of wat u are going to loose by falling into the temptation of adultery. ur money, ur energy, ur time, loosing some respect d woman involved. and may be going 4 unprotected sex out fun and contacting STDs. Just a few moments of fun may bring life time regret.

My brother Six months is not dat long to wait and I think ur wife merit waiting 4 a decade as long as u luv her. As for d lady asking u out pls turn it down by finding excuses even if they are flimsy ones. Wat if u impregnated d lady along d line, unfortunately ur wife get 2 know dat u flirt, can u imagine wat will be  d outcome.

Try to take total control of ur self and finally talk to God in prayers for strength, energy, power to face and overcome ongoing battle. You will be d one smiling at last.

U have waited six months and u will also make it anoda six months if we wish. Just ask God 4 divine help.
Remain bless and safe as well.

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Posted: at 18-04-2011 10:54 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Gbam

Posted: at 18-04-2011 12:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

the both of you can make arrangement for that than sleeping with someone else

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Posted: at 18-04-2011 01:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

gbam

Posted: at 18-04-2011 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

why not jerk off..if you feeling that honey?

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Posted: at 18-04-2011 05:44 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

must we comment on any post..............is he a lil boi  no advise frm me to him...... he no d right thing to do 

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Posted: at 18-04-2011 08:16 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero