![-]( "tando") tando at 22-04-2011 07:11 PM (14 years ago)  (f) it's not true that married life brings respect. its about maturity. if marriage was good then there will be no divorce, cheating and family meetings. if we singles are scared to be married (caged) is what we see from married couple. most live an unhappy life. sleeping in separate rooms.
its a choice you make. in my opinion, marry is a cage and once in hard to get out. most couple live for people ( what people will say). Happiness is much important than anything in the world. | Posted: at 22-04-2011 07:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "charlso") charlso at 22-04-2011 07:34 PM (14 years ago) (m) all the babes in support of this thread should experiment being single till thirty, and for my guys till forty  | Posted: at 22-04-2011 07:34 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "kelechi_1") kelechi_1 at 22-04-2011 07:38 PM (14 years ago) (m) i agree with u !!! marriage is boring, too boring, enjoy your singleness while it last before one guy or man trap u with kids all in the name of marriage!!! i love myself..
 ... NA WA OOO SEE WETIN WOMAN DEY TALK...ANYWAY DATS UR OWN CHOICE OF BEING SINGLE...BUT PLS DNT DO WAT MARRIED PPL DOES...ENJOY UR SINGLENESS!! | Posted: at 22-04-2011 07:38 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "charlso") charlso at 22-04-2011 07:40 PM (14 years ago) (m) for babes, try being single or experiment it till thirty | Posted: at 22-04-2011 07:40 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "otagermo") otagermo at 22-04-2011 08:52 PM (14 years ago) (m) STILL READING::::::LEARNING:::::AT SAME TIME | Posted: at 22-04-2011 08:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "TOCHI4LOVE") TOCHI4LOVE at 22-04-2011 08:55 PM (14 years ago) (m) Reply |
![-]( "sweetrae") sweetrae at 22-04-2011 10:43 PM (14 years ago) (f) #1 advantage....not havin' to answer to anyone | Posted: at 22-04-2011 10:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 22-04-2011 10:51 PM (14 years ago) (m) married ones want to be single again while singles want to get married.
me being a monk have nothing
to do with this topic anyway.
monk or monkey ? talk true now before i smashed your head so ooo | Posted: at 22-04-2011 10:51 PM (14 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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Either single or married has its own advantages too, if you were able to marry and be comfortable go ahead that may be the wish of God for you but if there is no man who comes for your hand in marriage stay single and enjoy yourself don't look for a man by all means because it may not be ordained by God. Follow the will of God; single ladies can adopt kids. | Posted: at 23-04-2011 12:27 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dukkieson") dukkieson at 23-04-2011 01:01 AM (14 years ago) (m) Singleness brings a degree of freedom
Freedom to jump about town brings dishonour and not respect. | Posted: at 23-04-2011 01:01 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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To be single is boring, irresponsible and no respect......
Who Jah Blessed, No Man Cursed...... | Posted: at 23-04-2011 02:09 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "tellyy1122") tellyy1122 at 23-04-2011 02:30 AM (14 years ago) (f) Reply |
Marry must get me for real...people!! | Posted: at 23-04-2011 04:36 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Hmmm ok wo guys | Posted: at 23-04-2011 05:46 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "philworld") philworld at 23-04-2011 07:30 AM (14 years ago) (f) Single? no i am nt part of this. God created Adam and Eve and nt Eve and Eve alone | Posted: at 23-04-2011 07:30 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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#1 advantage....not havin' to answer to anyone
Ehen! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-04-2011 07:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Most people who get married do so for some(or all) of these reasons :
(1)Societal pressure
(2)Advancement in age
(3)Biological clock factor
(4)Religious dogmas
(5)Fear/Insecurity of losing their partner to someone else
(6)Belief that financial security equals "time to marry"
(7)Getting married because everyone is doing it (keeping up with the Joneses)
All these are WRONG reasons to get married. Personally, i don't believe in marriage and i can't see ANYTHING a man "gains" from marriage that he can't get WITHOUT getting married. It's a bad venture for today's modern man unless we want to deceive ourselves.
As a foot note, i believe that people should get married ONLY if they feel the need to be married and for that purpose ALONE! For example, there's this European married couple i know that have been married for eleven years and it was only last year they decided to start trying for a baby. They got married because they wanted to be married and not because of kids,sex or whatever lame reason people delude themselves as being the "right reasons" to get married.
Nuff said!
Very well said!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 23-04-2011 07:41 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "devid75") devid75 at 23-04-2011 08:11 AM (14 years ago) (m) marriage no concern me at all , since i m happy been single daddy , so sweet thing in my life | Posted: at 23-04-2011 08:11 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "proly") proly at 23-04-2011 09:08 AM (14 years ago) (f) marriage is a gud a tin if u meet the rite person | Posted: at 23-04-2011 09:08 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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