Advantages of being single (Page 7)

SOPHIE MY PRAYER IS THAT GOD WILL MAKE YOU TO REMAIN SINGLE ALL YOUR LIFE,SO THAT U WILL NOT UNDERSTAND THE JOY IN A RELATIONSHIP.......GOD PLEASE HEAR MEEEEEEEEE.

Posted: at 23-04-2011 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

There is no freedom any where, remember that God saw a reason to create a companion for Adam (Read Gen 2:18), that is why women even exist, if not i don't think you'll bw writing this (sory, i don't mean to offend you).


This does not have anything to do with a single/married person. There is no time anywhere, you creat it or "buy" it. Put most important things first and throw away irrelivant things.

There is no financial freedom any where. No one is ever satisfied with money, we all like to have more, women most especially (recharge card, blackberry, icecream, clothing to-match, rihannah, latest styles etc). You have to live according to what you have. most single persons can be influenced by their peers to spend when not necessary. A married responsible man will consider his wife and or children before buying another extra bottle of beer/wine or whatever he spends his money on.

There you go again. Single people develop dirty harbits, and you think this is a cure? I have seen many single bankers, oil workers before they got married (men and women alike), they are usually dirty or have dirty harbits. But if you have someone to chekmate your habits, you will have to appreciate it. A married man considers his wife before doing anything dirty. I know of some single guy that likes watching pornigraphy with hist laptop, but when he got married, it affected him so much that he has to give up the dirty harbits.

Another feeble reason of being single? Get married to someone you love and you'll live to tell the story to your children. Most people enter relationship because of trivial reasons e.g sex,fine boy, fine girl etc. I have seen many girls that guys have sex with just by telling them he wants to get married to her.
Advice

• Don't enter any relationship because you want to have a girlfriend/sex/fell among/peer pressure etc
• Don't enter any relationship when you are not ready for marriage.
• if anyone come to you for your hand in marriage, don't even think of sex until you get married, sex goes with alot of emotions, that is why most girsl/guys jilted feel like dying, i have seen many during university years that killed themselves just because of being jilted. How many married peopl have you heard that killed themselves because of a divource? very very very few if not none.
• most men will respect you more if you don't givein to sex until after marriage (how many men will you slpeep with before you get married, answer that one your self?)
• Don't get involved/married because of things that can quickly change (money,looks,status etc).
• Lastly when you finally decied to get involve, pray for God's guidiance and help (Stay away from sex until you are married)

You can't say "this is what i am, and this is what am not". it is majority - not everybody - of the people that will say that.

[b]THE ONLY REASONS FOR BEING SINGLE[/b]
Doing more for God.
Weather you like it or not, there is a true God, who lives in the heaven. if one of you reason to be single is to do God's will, then you are good to go, and He will bless your singleness.
Marriage Mate
Most people may not find someone the like or are compatible with, wjile this might be true in most cases, it may be their fault in a few cases. don't be too demanding of likes/dislikeslook for the ultimate qualities  first (God fearing, hard working/indoustrous/,loves(read 1 cor 13:4-8).

Posted: at 23-04-2011 11:02 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

well! well!! well!!! the fact that i love been single now those not make me single for life.............every one(ladies)need a man in there life........i ll definately get married just that is not now cos it  ..........................
marriage makes u more responsible,committed,reliable,reasonable e.t.c.........all this thing is a stage in ones life

Posted: at 23-04-2011 11:44 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Bcos its the platform on which you were nurtured...

Posted: at 23-04-2011 01:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

the bible said,it is not good for a man to be alone.pals,their is just a little advantages been a single.so ,go and cleave to someone ordain by God for your life.remember that the bible said he that  find a wife has found a good thing and obtain mercy from thy Lord.don t just live your life alone saying you are enjoying life.i love you all.08054419738.

Posted: at 23-04-2011 06:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

If you decided to be single for the entire time of your life no problem, but i want you to know that if your parent had made this kind of choice they would not had give birth to you. Try to think about this before you make a stupid choice okay.

Posted: at 23-04-2011 07:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

wahala i day go pata pata i no go come back

Posted: at 23-04-2011 08:42 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Hehehe... Interesting 

I Wonder What Could have Changed her Perspective Drastically 

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Posted: at 24-04-2011 12:00 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Advantages of being married far outweigh any myopic advantage of being single

Posted: at 24-04-2011 02:25 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

ok

Posted: at 24-04-2011 05:47 AM (14 years ago) | Grande Master