dukkieson at 26-04-2011 02:30 AM (14 years ago) (m) Most people who get married do so for some(or all) of these reasons :
(1)Societal pressure (2)Advancement in age (3)Biological clock factor (4)Religious dogmas (5)Fear/Insecurity of losing their partner to someone else (6)Belief that financial security equals "time to marry" (7)Getting married because everyone is doing it (keeping up with the Joneses)
All these are WRONG reasons to get married. Personally, i don't believe in marriage and i can't see ANYTHING a man "gains" from marriage that he can't get WITHOUT getting married. It's a bad venture for today's modern man unless we want to deceive ourselves. As a foot note, i believe that people should get married ONLY if they feel the need to be married and for that purpose ALONE! For example, there's this European married couple i know that have been married for eleven years and it was only last year they decided to start trying for a baby. They got married because they wanted to be married and not because of kids,sex or whatever lame reason people delude themselves as being the "right reasons" to get married.
Nuff said!
Very strange reasoning. You have no need for children, eh? Maybe you want to adopt or accept a child from any two-timing lady? Posted: at 26-04-2011 02:30 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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giftmurphy at 26-04-2011 04:40 PM (14 years ago) (f) Ive just decided 2 remain single 2 hell wit marriage  u want no child? Posted: at 26-04-2011 04:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Being single means freedom, it's means uncage. How i wish am single? It's good to be married anyway but sometimes we missed those single life style. Posted: at 26-04-2011 05:11 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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truenaija2 at 26-04-2011 05:21 PM (14 years ago) (f) all dis people insulting sophie she only said advantages or will u get married as a bay u have to grow to a certain stage and be ready for marriage during this time u r single , so what did she say wrong  and some hypocritical comments here, they say being single is a taboo but they r still singles hisssssssssssssssssssssssssss Posted: at 26-04-2011 05:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ajanni at 26-04-2011 07:18 PM (14 years ago) (m) Reply |
Kennee at 26-04-2011 08:15 PM (14 years ago) (m) Being single means freedom, it's means uncage. How i wish am single? It's good to be married anyway but sometimes we missed those single life style.
If yu're as Hot as yur Profile Pic, yu're One Hot Married Woman
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 26-04-2011 08:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Don-ziggy at 26-04-2011 11:00 PM (14 years ago) (m) Trash Posted: at 26-04-2011 11:00 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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simiyu at 27-04-2011 08:42 AM (14 years ago) (m) PEOPLE SHOULD GET MARRIED.WHAT THEIR PARENTS REMAINED SINGLE? Posted: at 27-04-2011 08:42 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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prince316 at 27-04-2011 09:10 AM (14 years ago) (m) BIBLE SELF NO WANT MAKE U REMAIN SINGLE, AT THIS STAGE I CANNOT DIVORCE MAMA JNR
ahahahaha abeg o make u no Divorce mama jnr oh Posted: at 27-04-2011 09:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ajanni at 27-04-2011 09:14 AM (14 years ago) (m) Reply |
eoadex2003 at 27-04-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago) (m) Being single is not scriptural. Posted: at 27-04-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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eoadex2003 at 27-04-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago) (m) Being single is not scriptural. Posted: at 27-04-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sophiebaby at 27-04-2011 12:59 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 27-04-2011 12:59 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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skyleo at 27-04-2011 03:06 PM (14 years ago) (m) No matter it is one day you just have to cross the boundary of been single to be married according to the commandment of God. Posted: at 27-04-2011 03:06 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Being single is not scriptural.
 rlly prove it...so i can learn jor Posted: at 27-04-2011 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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giftmurphy at 27-04-2011 03:34 PM (14 years ago) (f) Being single is not scriptural.
i disagree........bein single is sciptural but d condition is..........dont fornicate.....paul was a single man in the bible thats y in d same bible it still says if u cant bear it,go and marry......than to sin.... Posted: at 27-04-2011 03:34 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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truenaija2 at 27-04-2011 04:34 PM (14 years ago) (f) so what was Jesus if being single is not scriptural , please u people should learn to make comments without using the word of GOD anyhow Posted: at 27-04-2011 04:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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goddy1 at 27-04-2011 07:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) some of the ladies have forgotten that most lady now a days only want to have a child from a man but not want to get married Posted: at 27-04-2011 07:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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some of the ladies have forgotten that most lady now a days only want to have a child from a man but not want to get married
Like...just use him!
Live and let live! Posted: at 27-04-2011 07:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Beauti4 at 27-04-2011 07:15 PM (14 years ago) (f) Seriously, being single is not fun at all...cos u will do the cookin, cleaning, sleeping, eating, etc...alone most of the time. but while u r single, u need to enjoy yourself cos after marriage, hehehehehe....is more complicated than the hardest biology courses! Posted: at 27-04-2011 07:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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