My boyfriend his best friend.... (Page 3)

Date: 30-04-2011 9:56 am (12 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- dirtykid at 30-04-2011 03:12 PM (12 years ago)
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Exactly !

Posted: at 30-04-2011 03:12 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 30-04-2011 03:19 PM (12 years ago)
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Bro! that is it..all this kind of silly behavior is very come here in europe.some people need to be isolate as an outcast for life.  Angry
Posted: at 30-04-2011 03:19 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jossy4reall at 30-04-2011 03:45 PM (12 years ago)
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4rm ppls comments n ur responds I found in u d fear of losing ur luv. But let me give u a clue of ur evidence which are(fb,yahoo, msn) When u tell him and he did not believe u or his friend denies. Den u will have to bring dem out as ur proof, unless u deleted it after d conversation. If u do delete dem den start saving dem 4rm 2day and when u have enuf den tell ur man wat is going on, be it messenger discussion or via email copy and save dem. A stitch in time saves nine.

Posted: at 30-04-2011 03:45 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 30-04-2011 03:50 PM (12 years ago)
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@MDS MAN ARE U STILL JEALOUS DESPITE I LET GO MY USED BABE

Posted: at 30-04-2011 03:50 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 30-04-2011 06:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Tell your boyfriend plse, that's the father of ur son he needs to know the kind of 'best friend' he is keeping!!

Posted: at 30-04-2011 06:25 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 30-04-2011 07:52 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: justceetah on 30-04-2011 11:17 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-04-2011 10:20 AM
thx misty and glamourbabe,, but am so scared dat his friend will lie and make me look like d bad person...

u knw how dis kain situation can go now,, am scared to loose wot i luv bcos of dis

first of all, does this guy knw u r going out with his best frnd? ur man should knw u better, he must have trust and belief in you, just tell him now cos with that, u've done ur part and its left 4 him to believe u or not. If u dnt and he gets to find out somehow, then he'll lose his trust for u and there's nothing u'll do that will convince him again. He might even think u've been cheating on him b4
yeah of course he knws we r datin,, i mean he met me wen i was pregnant for Amos...
Thx for d advice!

Posted: at 30-04-2011 07:52 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 30-04-2011 07:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: mydicksweet on 30-04-2011 11:37 AM
@FLY fLY baby,i understand how you feel but at the same time i strongly advice you call ur man and explain everything to him,dont let him find out himself bcs like you know sooner or later he will find out no matter how hard u might want to keep it goodluck
u tink he can find out in any other way? well i no even wanna keep it frm him
but i just no knw how to tell him  Undecided

Posted: at 30-04-2011 07:54 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 30-04-2011 07:57 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 30-04-2011 01:16 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-04-2011 09:56 AM
Dear pals,,

pls i rily need ur advice, dis time for myself  Shocked Huh?

My bf his best friend is in luv wit me (or claimed to b in luv but just after my  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed )

he calls, disturbs me online (fb,yahoo, msn) almost every day... i dont knw wot to do bcos i don tell am
i no need all of dis,, but my Q is, shud i tell my man or just keep silent till everytin cool down itsef?

 Kiss Kiss



That person is not suppose to be called a friend to your Boyfriend. He's a back stabber. I understand you when you said, He will lie and there are chances that you might be seeing as bad person. You have to handle this with extremely care, What i mean is, Make sure you have all the evidence like his emails, FB messages to you, sms on phone, before you meet you Boyfriend over it... I will first blame you for allowing the guy to get access into you so deep already that gives him the courage to start proceeding to level 3. You got to stop this, Maybe he's on a mission and wants to accomplish it. Some guys are like that, they're out there just looking for their friends wife and girls to sleep with, so they can brag about it and make fun of your boy.

Becareful with this and is a MUST to let your boyfriend know about this. But you need a prove to show him.
Thanks for takin ur time to advice... Hmmmm i no get any messages anymore bcos i was afraid
Austin wud just read it b4 i get d chance to xplain him anytin....i can wait for d guy to send me somtin again so
i can back my story up.... I just dont knw how to bring up dis kain issue, Austin get temper u knw

Posted: at 30-04-2011 07:57 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 30-04-2011 07:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: KINGJHOE on 30-04-2011 02:25 PM
U DEY CRAZE,,,,NA U WEY DEVELOP THE FEELINGS FOR HIM.....
hmmm do u knw me ??
Posted: at 30-04-2011 07:59 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 30-04-2011 08:03 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 30-04-2011 02:54 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-04-2011 10:53 AM
Quote from: sobeit on 30-04-2011 10:46 AM
are u serious? like bs said you should have let your man know this in the early stage.u knw,allowing it to develop to this level gives the guy the means to stalk you all around. that guy most be stupid,can't he see you have a family.i wonder what kind of bestfriend he is.go ahead and let your man know about the whole situation now b4 the stupid guy try and turn it against you.
i knw i made a mistake by not tellin him right away, tho i even tried it but i got scared
not knowin i was doin d right tin.... i no undastand d guy sef bcos he get daughter and white woman
but he said dem get som kain wahala i no knw, dem dey togeda for 6 gud yrs.... i knw Austin he get temper
and i no wan let dis guy cause problem in our r/s



u see,everything started from you.u give him that space to develop that feelings for u.he has his own family but just want to destroy his "bestfriend' own. another thing is that u mention your man has a hot temper.well the mistake had already occurred and i don't need to blame u any further.now my question to u is; why are you so afraid to let your man know? does it means that your guy do not trust you or there is something you hiding?if you love and want your relationship to move forward, then you must inform your man now cuz if he find out by himself,then is gonna be a very grave problem.so let him know now.if u have some evidence show it to him.
Yeah i knw i shud hav told Austin right away,, well i knw Austin trust me more then anytin
bcos he knws am not for those kain tins... its just dat i hate issue like dis and i no wan cause problems, i hate it.
And there is nottin am hiding at all!

Posted: at 30-04-2011 08:03 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 30-04-2011 08:17 PM (12 years ago)
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telll your man

Posted: at 30-04-2011 08:17 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- akjasper at 30-04-2011 08:31 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-04-2011 09:56 AM
Dear pals,,

pls i rily need ur advice, dis time for myself  Shocked Huh?

My bf his best friend is in luv wit me (or claimed to b in luv but just after my  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed )

he calls, disturbs me online (fb,yahoo, msn) almost every day... i dont knw wot to do bcos i don tell am
i no need all of dis,, but my Q is, shud i tell my man or just keep silent till everytin cool down itsef?

 Kiss Kiss


Tell Ur bf asap plz.
Posted: at 30-04-2011 08:31 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- williams100 at 30-04-2011 08:42 PM (12 years ago)
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its pretty pathetic how some men choose to be a randy dog.that guy is a disgrace to manhood and a betrayal to his friend(your man).such a terrible disease that have ravage the brain of some men.however,i strongly believe that your man is sensitive enough to know his friend's potential capabilities in terms of him, maybe promiscous in nature,addicted to women and others he must know something more deep and intense about his pathetic love life and from that point on your disclosure/exposure of the segxwal advances of that foolish he-goat,he(your man) will try to see reasons with you.your man have been with you for a long time and he knows you more better than he knows his friend and i dont quite see why he wont believe you and decide to take side to his friend.tell him and summon courage of bravery no matter the resulted possible outcome.do not be afraid to tell him because the worst enemy of any man is fear.let me tell you there is no best way or method to make him know or believe you. but the easiest is just to tell him.if he doesnt believe you tell him to keep an extra eye on his friend by been more SUBTLE like a snake to discover the outrageous evil plot he has been harbouring in that heartless mind of his.
Posted: at 30-04-2011 08:42 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 30-04-2011 08:58 PM (12 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh?

Posted: at 30-04-2011 08:58 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- harold634 at 30-04-2011 09:06 PM (12 years ago)
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Consider yourself lucky because u belong to this NP social site whereby u can have a collective idea and advices that can guide u on how to handle this situation. U must have read similar past post or present regarding issues like this. I think u have gotten enough ideas from men and women of apocalysis.
Over to u.
Posted: at 30-04-2011 09:06 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- interpo77 at 30-04-2011 09:11 PM (12 years ago)
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what ever, is this the type of friends that ur guy keep,s'?
no no no, this is arrant nonsence
 well i know what u re afraid of, may be u dont even want ur guy to die away their relation(his friend)
2, dont feel for him, give it  another few days  n if he continues, then tell ur guy  or u put him
 too see things by himself
Posted: at 30-04-2011 09:11 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 30-04-2011 09:12 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-04-2011 09:56 AM
Dear pals,,

pls i rily need ur advice, dis time for myself  Shocked Huh?

My bf his best friend is in luv wit me (or claimed to b in luv but just after my  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed )

he calls, disturbs me online (fb,yahoo, msn) almost every day... i dont knw wot to do bcos i don tell am
i no need all of dis,, but my Q is, shud i tell my man or just keep silent till everytin cool down itsef?

 Kiss Kiss

how he come get to you on all fb, yahoo, msn,and almost every where as you said? small time he will traced you to your bed too , you too much ooo
Posted: at 30-04-2011 09:12 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Michro at 30-04-2011 09:20 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-04-2011 07:59 PM
Quote from: KINGJHOE on 30-04-2011 02:25 PM
U DEY CRAZE,,,,NA U WEY DEVELOP THE FEELINGS FOR HIM.....
hmmm do u knw me ??

He definitely didn't

Posted: at 30-04-2011 09:20 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 30-04-2011 09:27 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ajanni on 30-04-2011 09:12 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 30-04-2011 09:56 AM
Dear pals,,

pls i rily need ur advice, dis time for myself  Shocked Huh?

My bf his best friend is in luv wit me (or claimed to b in luv but just after my  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed )

he calls, disturbs me online (fb,yahoo, msn) almost every day... i dont knw wot to do bcos i don tell am
i no need all of dis,, but my Q is, shud i tell my man or just keep silent till everytin cool down itsef?

 Kiss Kiss

how he come get to you on all fb, yahoo, msn,and almost every where as you said? small time he will traced you to your bed too , you too much ooo

Dat's a good point actually, too much closeness.

What do u ave to say about that Flymamacita?
Huh?

Posted: at 30-04-2011 09:27 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- estilizo at 30-04-2011 09:31 PM (12 years ago)
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what?please sit your man down and tell him everything,he should believe you but i advice you should get some evidence like sms,record his calls too.Be smart about this,he wants to scatter your home,please be wise and fast too,tell your man about this and as soon as possible too,good luck dear.

Posted: at 30-04-2011 09:31 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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