A man knew he was impotent and went ahead to get married to a lady without first discussing his problem with the lady.After 8 years of marriage the lady eventually took in. The lady was impregnated by another man.The husband knew this but there is no way he can confront his wife since he did not disclose his problem to her before getting married to her.
On the other hand the woman is happy that she is pregnant thinking that the husband does not know that it is another man that is responsible for the pregnancy.The man is not happy but he doesnt know what to do.The woman is happy that she is pregnant but her conscience is not at rest knowing that she has commited adultery.
What is your advice for both of them?
Posted: at 2-05-2011 05:57 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
divineproject at 2-05-2011 06:05 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Time to speak up.........they have to own up, both at fault, both deceptive.......
If the woman knew abt the man's condition, she might not have married him.......and maybe after a long time, she tried to find out secretly if she was the cause and bingo she had taken in......they should both start telling the truth now
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Posted: at 2-05-2011 06:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Why was the man impotent in the first place,I see something wrong with that, furthermore dont worry about him not opening up the day wey de wife go vex am,na hin go tell the woman say no be him get the pikin and he will spill his guts and the woman also will spill hers too.
Posted: at 2-05-2011 06:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
what kind of advise are you looking for? @posters if both are fully aware of their separate secret but choice not to tell each other the truth. then let them continue deceiving themselves.....
note:dis story get as em bey!!
Posted: at 2-05-2011 06:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
soljurn16 at 2-05-2011 07:07 PM (14 years ago) (m)
I'l blame d man for all these that has hapend., becos if he had alowed d lady to know at 1st place she wouldnt hav gone ahead to giv it another shot outside her marriage...., if she knew and truly luvd him., they would both hv cum up wit anoda BEST solution
Posted: at 2-05-2011 07:07 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
The two of them are dying in abject stupidity. My advice is - open your mouth and talk or die silence. They are both fools, because its way past the time to start talking about the issue. How long do they think they will live on earth, life is so short that time wasted cannot be regained.
Posted: at 2-05-2011 07:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
soljurn16 at 2-05-2011 07:16 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Ajento on 2-05-2011 07:11 PM
The two of them are dying in abject stupidity. My advice is - open your mouth and talk or die silence. They are both fools, because its way past the time to start talking about the issue. How long do they think they will live on earth, life is so short that time wasted cannot be regained.
na true talk
Posted: at 2-05-2011 07:16 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
yukicares4u at 2-05-2011 07:24 PM (14 years ago) (f)
This is one of the consequences of being secretive even while u re married...they shud face each other and tell the truth dat's all...the same way they hid the truth shud be the same way they shud tell each other the truth.
Posted: at 2-05-2011 07:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
what kind of advise are you looking for? @posters if both are fully aware of their separate secret but choice chose not to tell each other the truth. then let them continue deceiving themselves.....
note:dis story get as em bey!!
Posted: at 2-05-2011 07:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Time to speak up.........they have to own up, both at fault, both deceptive.......
If the woman knew abt the man's condition, she might not have married him.......and maybe after a long time, she tried to find out secretly if she was the cause and bingo she had taken in......they should both start telling the truth now
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 2-05-2011 08:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
what kind of advise are you looking for? @posters if both are fully aware of their separate secret but choice not to tell each other the truth. then let them continue deceiving themselves.....
note:dis story get as em bey!!
I guess She means he's Sterile
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 2-05-2011 08:29 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
there's a difference b/w "impotence" and "sterility",the man is rather sterile cos he can still use his manhood but can't father a child.The man is very wrong for leading her on to marriage when he knew his condition beforehand,as for the wife she might have probably found out and still went ahead to disgrace herself.they both need to sit down and do some soul searching talks.
Posted: at 2-05-2011 08:49 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie