Maka Why? (Page 12)

Listen my dear, I've seen a relationship of 7yrs, 9yrs and still they didn't make it to alter... not one not two, so many people out there are even in a relationship more than 5yrs, still not thinking of settling together.. I want to let u ladies know one thing. You have the power and smart senses to know or perceive it, in your relationship where it's heading to.. Most ladies force it to end at the alter while is not suppose to end there, simply because they dream dreams and hope so much in that relationship even if they're finding it difficult with the guy. they still wanna stick in there and will not let go, If you ask them, they will say... they're madly in love, Who told them that?? For me, is madness.. Once you discover that yr partner is not compatible with u, is better to make quick and early exit than allowing it to get to many years, and then you will be left with no choices because you've counted so many years and time wasted.

Another thing is this, Most young girls don't always take relationship serious, when they're btw the ages 18-26 yrs, They just wanna flirt and do all kinds of things in the name of having fun.. To have fun is good but think of future atimes. once they enter 27 - 30 yrs, they begin to see that years have run out of them and thats when most of them start thinking or having the feelings of dating a man seriously, thinking that between one year or two, the man is taking them to alter... who says that or guaranteeing that ?

Lets just take a look about this from the other way again.

Some will have the time to date from early stage, but changing of men or having series of dates change their thinking and thoughts about Men. They see all Men as been the same, No doubt about that, some men could be terrible when it comes to relationship matter, You can meet some cheats, you can meet some players, you can meet some double daters and etc .. But don't forget the same goes in women, and most of this guys are the victims of relationship circumstances, some women are out there just to deal with Men and all this turn some guys to serious hunters...

All most women need is the ability to study and read yr man, when yr in relationship to know exactly the future of that relationship, remain patience, truthful, tolerance, be supportive, do those things you can do to retain yr relationship, don't count times for him, take off any such of discussions/questions that will direct/indirectly pushing the man to ask yr hand in marriage.. this is one place most ladies make mistake, asking a guy million times, Do you love me, what is our plan for future,,, You think men are stupid ? No they're not, They're very smart CIA's no matter how dull you see/think the one you have is behaving.

You just have to play a role that will make the man always looking for you, searching for you, trying all his best to keep you to himself, from there you will see how much he loves you and will go any length to ask you to marry him. Give him reasons no matter how long it takes both of u to be together. if you were meant to be together, nothing will come in between that.

But i still dey ask Guys Maka why, Make why we no fit open up and tell the ladies that we can't have them as wife, esp when age is not on their side ? Guys Maka Why  

A guy who's really interested in agal doesn't need to date her for 10yrs, 5yrs or 3yrs b4 he decides that she's the one. I have heard stories of guys dating girls for 3months, 6months b4 getting married and they lived hapily ever after.

Girls should be wise and stop deceiving themselves, date a mature guy who is ready to settle not small small boys who still sag their jeans and loves parties.

It is a pity and very painful that things turned out that way
From all indication, u'll find out that the guy is not serious
He is tired of the relationship and looking for way out
I blame babes who prefer staying in a relationship for long time it doesn’t alwayz favour women rather they will end up regretting for the wasted yrs.
As it stands,,, she doesn’t need a soothsayer to tell her to move on and see how she could make up the wastd yrs b4 its late for her.
As for the that dickhead (d dude), he will sure reap what he sow and any man that chose to take advantage of a woman 4 just no cause would sure live 2 regret it.

Omaricha Obiaju.., I suppose to say Maka why u still dey eye the Burger. 

Dk i see reasons in what u are saying...but ow can u be in r/ship with a man for more than 5years without defining it..
For instance, I was 25 wen i met u and then we started dating for almost 9years without nothing...and then at d end of the day we go our seperate ways hoping to find love again...now add 9years to ma previous age..it will give u 34 and most guys of 34 are already in a serious r/ship while most are married....now, guys of ma age will not want me cos am growing older but rather they will prefer d younger ones

Where do I start from....and so many questions without answers will began to creep in....that is y u see so many elderly women without
husband today......

Inorder to avoid such, i will always ask questions like what makes u love me, wat do u what from me, I will give u some time to talk but if u refuse i will ask u where dis r/ship is heading to...if u are not gonna marry me tell me u cant marry me, not wen d r/ship gets to 5years and above, u will now tell me ur parents doesnt want someone from my region or some flimsy excuses that doesnt count

Divine , outta way, dont block what i'm watching   
 

the words in red is the major factor. a lady that value herself won't spent that long with a guy, cuz the longer you waste such time with the guy the more he degrade you,and will take you for granted......spending 4,5 or 6 good years in relationship!  it's absolutely ridiculous..even me as a man won't try such silly thing when am quite sure it won't lead us anywhere.

Go find cloth jor or rather iron pant........