Maka Why? (Page 14)

Date: 05-05-2011 4:58 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Uju Obuekwe
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- chiglamour4u at 6-05-2011 03:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-05-2011 03:06 PM
i no know say we get relationship lecturers here ooh DK; SOBEIT CHIGLAMOUR PEPESSY RIUTHANDAH UNA WELDONE THIS IS REALLY A LECTURE room any body dat want to learn will learn here

hope ur with yah pen and jotter
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 03:09 PM (14 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin
yes ooh  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- beckononme at 6-05-2011 03:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 02:50 PM
Quote from: beckononme on  6-05-2011 02:24 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 11:11 AM
Quote from: bibismall on  6-05-2011 11:06 AM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 11:02 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 10:40 AM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 10:34 AM
By the time you finish cooking all  you know to cook, wash all the cloths, lay all the styles and to all the loving you know, he will switch thats the raw truth. Dont have time to give reasons

so ar u saying if ur girlfrnd never offers to cook 4 u, u wont feel offended? say d truth oh
make she go cook for her father. Why would someone be counting on his girl to cook what he eats? Relationship is not marriage and thus has bounds which should be respected else things might not end up wonderful.

Agreed, so do u have the money to feed her in Mcdonalds everyday? Lunch, breakfast and dinner.

After una go say nigerian girls nor sabi home management. She dey cook for her man now, na wahala, if she nor cook na wahala. Una nor go kill us!

abeg ask am 4 me, him don dey pretend like say him gf no dey cook 4 am
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin EXACTLY the POINT! Being FAKE just to be known as being NICE!

mr man you dont talk shit. You cant live my life ok? We just diff people on net so dont think i am as stupid as you.

My apologies if that bites a bit hard on u sir... i didn't mean to be insolent cos by far u way older and probably have achieved alot more than me... once again my sincere apologies!
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 03:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 02:59 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-05-2011 02:44 PM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 02:36 PM
Quote from: beckononme on  6-05-2011 02:33 PM
Quote from: bibismall on  6-05-2011 11:48 AM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 11:25 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 11:11 AM
Quote from: bibismall on  6-05-2011 11:06 AM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 11:02 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 10:40 AM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 10:34 AM
By the time you finish cooking all  you know to cook, wash all the cloths, lay all the styles and to all the loving you know, he will switch thats the raw truth. Dont have time to give reasons

so ar u saying if ur girlfrnd never offers to cook 4 u, u wont feel offended? say d truth oh
make she go cook for her father. Why would someone be counting on his girl to cook what he eats? Relationship is not marriage and thus has bounds which should be respected else things might not end up wonderful.

Agreed, so do u have the money to feed her in Mcdonalds everyday? Lunch, breakfast and dinner.

After una go say nigerian girls nor sabi home management. She dey cook for her man now, na wahala, if she nor cook na wahala. Una nor go kill us!

abeg ask am 4 me, him don dey pretend like say him gf no dey cook 4 am
do you know if i have a girl? Its not everybody that is cool with all those girl-weekend thing.  

Na guy u get?

ha ha ha ha ha ha u no go kill me
i no go kill you na your mouth. Lets say we are two different people and operate at different level of desire and has different choice.


@jcmaiah u have said the gospel truth he that have ears let him hear, the world has become so bad that they even live with the men and give birth for him even without being married
my sister na person wey get  ear go hear. What ladies fell to understand is that depreciation is not only for goods, relationships depreciate. So the way to keep yourself safe from heart break is by guarding your value. You dont just give all you have in you to a guy and still expect much from the guy, definitely he is gonna try out something new somewhere take it or leave. Period.

You are absolutely right , when u  give him everything  what else is new , he also likes new things not old and out worn cloths or things, who no like better thing Grin Tongue
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dmnites at 6-05-2011 03:16 PM (14 years ago)
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carry go, i dun go borrow pen, abeg tear one sheet of paper 4 me Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:16 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- chiglamour4u at 6-05-2011 03:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dmnites on  6-05-2011 03:16 PM
carry go, i dun go borrow pen, abeg tear one sheet of paper 4 me Cheesy Cheesy

borrow borrow u dey cm class without ur writing materials  Grin Grin
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Larrykingomoj at 6-05-2011 03:34 PM (14 years ago)
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The issue is this, men see women as being desperate for marriage and that they show that their whole existence depens on it. Women pretend and be yourself, have your means of livelyhood and carry your shoulder high and you will see men crawing begging you for marriage and to cook for you too. Men should stop treating women like raggs.
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 6-05-2011 03:47 PM (14 years ago)
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 Cool Cool Cool Cool

Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:47 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- abbeyy74 at 6-05-2011 03:48 PM (14 years ago)
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one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.
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- abbeyy74 at 6-05-2011 03:51 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  5-05-2011 07:58 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  5-05-2011 07:51 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  5-05-2011 07:43 PM
Seriously wetin b d problem wit cooking,, u no have to eat too??

Wetin b d problem wit iron his shirt,, u no want am to luk fresh and handsom for outside and ur friends to see??

Wetin b d problem wit sex,, u no enjoy am??

mchew make i just pass jare


abeg never pass. the snag here is that playing such wifely roles doesnt  guarantee that d man will marry d gurl coz wat is good 4 d goose may not be gud 4 d gander!!!
So u can only treat sombody wit luv and care if d person put a ring on ur finger  Huh?


yes o my dear becos most nigeria men are hit and run
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dmnites at 6-05-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  6-05-2011 03:23 PM
Quote from: dmnites on  6-05-2011 03:16 PM
carry go, i dun go borrow pen, abeg tear one sheet of paper 4 me Cheesy Cheesy

borrow borrow u dey cm class without ur writing materials  Grin Grin

Abeg no vex, my long note dun full
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- divineproject at 6-05-2011 03:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 02:59 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-05-2011 02:44 PM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 02:36 PM
Quote from: beckononme on  6-05-2011 02:33 PM
Quote from: bibismall on  6-05-2011 11:48 AM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 11:25 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 11:11 AM
Quote from: bibismall on  6-05-2011 11:06 AM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 11:02 AM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 10:40 AM
Quote from: jcmaiah on  6-05-2011 10:34 AM
By the time you finish cooking all  you know to cook, wash all the cloths, lay all the styles and to all the loving you know, he will switch thats the raw truth. Dont have time to give reasons

so ar u saying if ur girlfrnd never offers to cook 4 u, u wont feel offended? say d truth oh
make she go cook for her father. Why would someone be counting on his girl to cook what he eats? Relationship is not marriage and thus has bounds which should be respected else things might not end up wonderful.

Agreed, so do u have the money to feed her in Mcdonalds everyday? Lunch, breakfast and dinner.

After una go say nigerian girls nor sabi home management. She dey cook for her man now, na wahala, if she nor cook na wahala. Una nor go kill us!

abeg ask am 4 me, him don dey pretend like say him gf no dey cook 4 am
do you know if i have a girl? Its not everybody that is cool with all those girl-weekend thing. 

Na guy u get?

ha ha ha ha ha ha u no go kill me
i no go kill you na your mouth. Lets say we are two different people and operate at different level of desire and has different choice.


@jcmaiah u have said the gospel truth he that have ears let him hear, the world has become so bad that they even live with the men and give birth for him even without being married
my sister na person wey get  ear go hear. What ladies fell to understand is that depreciation is not only for goods, relationships depreciate. So the way to keep yourself safe from heart break is by guarding your value. You dont just give all you have in you to a guy and still expect much from the guy, definitely he is gonna try out something new somewhere take it or leave. Period.

Bros, I have been following your comment since and I must admit that I just admire your take on this issue.........weldone

Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 6-05-2011 03:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-05-2011 03:06 PM
i no know say we get relationship lecturers here ooh DK; SOBEIT CHIGLAMOUR PEPESSY RIUTHANDAH UNA WELDONE THIS IS REALLY A LECTURE room any body dat want to learn will learn here

Thnx swtheart. A word is enough for the wise,.. for those who got ears, let them hear and apply.

Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 03:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-05-2011 03:55 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-05-2011 03:06 PM
i no know say we get relationship lecturers here ooh DK; SOBEIT CHIGLAMOUR PEPESSY RIUTHANDAH UNA WELDONE THIS IS REALLY A LECTURE room any body dat want to learn will learn here

Thnx swtheart. A word is enough for the wise,.. for those who got ears, let them hear and apply.

Honestly Wink u really try for them i hope they go apply Tongue
Posted: at 6-05-2011 03:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 03:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dmnites on  6-05-2011 03:52 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  6-05-2011 03:23 PM
Quote from: dmnites on  6-05-2011 03:16 PM
carry go, i dun go borrow pen, abeg tear one sheet of paper 4 me Cheesy Cheesy

borrow borrow u dey cm class without ur writing materials  Grin Grin

Abeg no vex, my long note dun full

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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- blessedme at 6-05-2011 04:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-05-2011 02:17 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  6-05-2011 02:04 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-05-2011 01:34 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  6-05-2011 01:02 PM
DK and SBI dey talk say woman wan carry them alter sharpily without getting to know them well
will u take eternity to know a girl or is 5 years not too much for courtship ni


Listen my dear, I've seen a relationship of 7yrs, 9yrs and still they didn't make it to alter... not one not two, so many people out there are even in a relationship more than 5yrs, still not thinking of settling together.. I want to let u ladies know one thing. You have the power and smart senses to know or perceive it, in your relationship where it's heading to.. Most ladies force it to end at the alter while is not suppose to end there, simply because they dream dreams and hope so much in that relationship even if they're finding it difficult with the guy. they still wanna stick in there and will not let go, If you ask them, they will say... they're madly in love, Who told them that?? For me, is madness.. Once you discover that yr partner is not compatible with u, is better to make quick and early exit than allowing it to get to many years, and then you will be left with no choices because you've counted so many years and time wasted.

Another thing is this, Most young girls don't always take relationship serious, when they're btw the ages 18-26 yrs, They just wanna flirt and do all kinds of things in the name of having fun.. To have fun is good but think of future atimes. once they enter 27 - 30 yrs, they begin to see that years have run out of them and thats when most of them start thinking or having the feelings of dating a man seriously, thinking that between one year or two, the man is taking them to alter... who says that or guaranteeing that ?

Lets just take a look about this from the other way again.

Some will have the time to date from early stage, but changing of men or having series of dates change their thinking and thoughts about Men. They see all Men as been the same, No doubt about that, some men could be terrible when it comes to relationship matter, You can meet some cheats, you can meet some players, you can meet some double daters and etc .. But don't forget the same goes in women, and most of this guys are the victims of relationship circumstances, some women are out there just to deal with Men and all this turn some guys to serious hunters...

All most women need is the ability to study and read yr man, when yr in relationship to know exactly the future of that relationship, remain patience, truthful, tolerance, be supportive, do those things you can do to retain yr relationship, don't count times for him, take off any such of discussions/questions that will direct/indirectly pushing the man to ask yr hand in marriage.. this is one place most ladies make mistake, asking a guy million times, Do you love me, what is our plan for future,,, You think men are stupid ? No they're not, They're very smart CIA's no matter how dull you see/think the one you have is behaving.

You just have to play a role that will make the man always looking for you, searching for you, trying all his best to keep you to himself, from there you will see how much he loves you and will go any length to ask you to marry him. Give him reasons no matter how long it takes both of u to be together. if you were meant to be together, nothing will come in between that.

But i still dey ask Guys Maka why, Make why we no fit open up and tell the ladies that we can't have them as wife, esp when age is not on their side ? Guys Maka Why  Huh? Huh?
Dk i see reasons in what u are saying...but ow can u be in r/ship with a man for more than 5years without defining it..
For instance, I was 25 wen i met u and then we started dating for almost 9years without nothing...and then at d end of the day we go our seperate ways hoping to find love again...now add 9years to ma previous age..it will give u 34 and most guys of 34 are already in a serious r/ship while most are married....now, guys of ma age will not want me cos am growing older but rather they will prefer d younger ones

Where do I start from....and so many questions without answers will began to creep in....that is y u see so many elderly women without
husband today......

Inorder to avoid such, i will always ask questions like what makes u love me, wat do u what from me, I will give u some time to talk but if u refuse i will ask u where dis r/ship is heading to...if u are not gonna marry me tell me u cant marry me, not wen d r/ship gets to 5years and above, u will now tell me ur parents doesnt want someone from my region or some flimsy excuses that doesnt count

Honestly swtheart.. if any girl/Lady in a relationship and still don't have definition of the relationship within at least minimum of one year, she's deceiving herself... By one year you should know all this for example, if his people welcome you, if he's trustworthy, honest, yr match, what are his parents observation about you etc.

Let me ask one question, Maka why do people in relationship spend time together, is only for sex, shopping ? Why do people in relationship visit each others family ? Why do people in relationship spend time together and talk ? is it all about what and what she wants to guy to buy her, gift, presents or parties ? There should be enough time to discuss, at least indirectly to future.. any lady with great sense of understanding should see where the relationship is heading to... Fruitful or to the Rock !! thats the time to make quick changes, be the one to drop the guy, don't allow the guy to drop u.
i thump up for u dear
Posted: at 6-05-2011 04:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 6-05-2011 04:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dmnites on  6-05-2011 03:52 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  6-05-2011 03:23 PM
Quote from: dmnites on  6-05-2011 03:16 PM
carry go, i dun go borrow pen, abeg tear one sheet of paper 4 me Cheesy Cheesy

borrow borrow u dey cm class without ur writing materials  Grin Grin

Abeg no vex, my long note dun full

@dmnites, If i will judge you from your previous post on this issue, I will simply tell you that you wasn't ready for the class in the first place, You mentioned about people talking of different things on this post... But if you look at all the comments on this post from numerous views, you will see is pointing at the same edge.. the only thing u must understand is this.. People's view and understanding on anything differs, Not the way i view it, is the way another will view it... so it goes on and on.

You better go and get your writing materials ready before u report to ChyChy's class  Grin Grin Grin Grin I heard from her previous student that she's one hard nut to crack lecturer... and don't forget Bro... all works and no play on NP.. makes one a dull Pal.  Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 6-05-2011 04:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 6-05-2011 04:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on  6-05-2011 02:17 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  6-05-2011 02:08 PM
Quote from: sobeit on  6-05-2011 01:55 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-05-2011 01:34 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  6-05-2011 01:02 PM
DK and SBI dey talk say woman wan carry them alter sharpily without getting to know them well
will u take eternity to know a girl or is 5 years not too much for courtship ni


Listen my dear, I've seen a relationship of 7yrs, 9yrs and still they didn't make it to alter... not one not two, so many people out there are even in a relationship more than 5yrs, still not thinking of settling together.. I want to let u ladies know one thing. You have the power and smart senses to know or perceive it, in your relationship where it's heading to.. Most ladies force it to end at the alter while is not suppose to end there, simply because they dream dreams and hope so much in that relationship even if they're finding it difficult with the guy. they still wanna stick in there and will not let go, If you ask them, they will say... they're madly in love, Who told them that?? For me, is madness.. Once you discover that yr partner is not compatible with u, is better to make quick and early exit than allowing it to get to many years, and then you will be left with no choices because you've counted so many years and time wasted.

Another thing is this, Most young girls don't always take relationship serious, when they're btw the ages 18-26 yrs, They just wanna flirt and do all kinds of things in the name of having fun.. To have fun is good but think of future atimes. once they enter 27 - 30 yrs, they begin to see that years have run out of them and thats when most of them start thinking or having the feelings of dating a man seriously, thinking that between one year or two, the man is taking them to alter... who says that or guaranteeing that ?

Lets just take a look about this from the other way again.

Some will have the time to date from early stage, but changing of men or having series of dates change their thinking and thoughts about Men. They see all Men as been the same, No doubt about that, some men could be terrible when it comes to relationship matter, You can meet some cheats, you can meet some players, you can meet some double daters and etc .. But don't forget the same goes in women, and most of this guys are the victims of relationship circumstances, some women are out there just to deal with Men and all this turn some guys to serious hunters...

All most women need is the ability to study and read yr man, when yr in relationship to know exactly the future of that relationship, remain patience, truthful, tolerance, be supportive, do those things you can do to retain yr relationship, don't count times for him, take off any such of discussions/questions that will direct/indirectly pushing the man to ask yr hand in marriage.. this is one place most ladies make mistake, asking a guy million times, Do you love me, what is our plan for future,,, You think men are stupid ? No they're not, They're very smart CIA's no matter how dull you see/think the one you have is behaving.

You just have to play a role that will make that man always looking for you,searching for you,trying all his best to keep you to himself,from there you will see how much he loves you and will go any length to ask you to marry him. Give him reasons no matter how long it takes both of u to be together. if you were meant to be together, nothing will come in between that.

But i still dey ask Guys Maka why, Make why we no fit open up and tell the ladies that we can't have them as wife, esp when age is not on their side ? Guys Maka Why  Huh? Huh?

well,you said it all ,i've nothing to add.but i wonder why(you) asking "MAKA WHY" while u have already answer the question yourself with the highlighted words...the truth is that everything lies in the woman hands to make it happen.if a a woman value herself,trust me that man that's wasting that huge amount of years(5years or more) will marry her in shout period of time.
hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

u don't have to hiss dear..the truth hurt but someone have to say it..value and respect of oneself as a woman is the key to stop guys toiling with your heart.if you as a woman give a man too much of space to play with you, then he's going to double it and makes you less worth.that's just the fact.
You are right dear. Sorry! i missed understand d highlighted words....I thought it the other way round never knew u were on same side wif me
Posted: at 6-05-2011 04:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 6-05-2011 04:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  6-05-2011 02:23 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  6-05-2011 02:04 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-05-2011 01:34 PM
Quote from: blessedme on  6-05-2011 01:02 PM
DK and SBI dey talk say woman wan carry them alter sharpily without getting to know them well
will u take eternity to know a girl or is 5 years not too much for courtship ni


Listen my dear, I've seen a relationship of 7yrs, 9yrs and still they didn't make it to alter... not one not two, so many people out there are even in a relationship more than 5yrs, still not thinking of settling together.. I want to let u ladies know one thing. You have the power and smart senses to know or perceive it, in your relationship where it's heading to.. Most ladies force it to end at the alter while is not suppose to end there, simply because they dream dreams and hope so much in that relationship even if they're finding it difficult with the guy. they still wanna stick in there and will not let go, If you ask them, they will say... they're madly in love, Who told them that?? For me, is madness.. Once you discover that yr partner is not compatible with u, is better to make quick and early exit than allowing it to get to many years, and then you will be left with no choices because you've counted so many years and time wasted.

Another thing is this, Most young girls don't always take relationship serious, when they're btw the ages 18-26 yrs, They just wanna flirt and do all kinds of things in the name of having fun.. To have fun is good but think of future atimes. once they enter 27 - 30 yrs, they begin to see that years have run out of them and thats when most of them start thinking or having the feelings of dating a man seriously, thinking that between one year or two, the man is taking them to alter... who says that or guaranteeing that ?

Lets just take a look about this from the other way again.

Some will have the time to date from early stage, but changing of men or having series of dates change their thinking and thoughts about Men. They see all Men as been the same, No doubt about that, some men could be terrible when it comes to relationship matter, You can meet some cheats, you can meet some players, you can meet some double daters and etc .. But don't forget the same goes in women, and most of this guys are the victims of relationship circumstances, some women are out there just to deal with Men and all this turn some guys to serious hunters...

All most women need is the ability to study and read yr man, when yr in relationship to know exactly the future of that relationship, remain patience, truthful, tolerance, be supportive, do those things you can do to retain yr relationship, don't count times for him, take off any such of discussions/questions that will direct/indirectly pushing the man to ask yr hand in marriage.. this is one place most ladies make mistake, asking a guy million times, Do you love me, what is our plan for future,,, You think men are stupid ? No they're not, They're very smart CIA's no matter how dull you see/think the one you have is behaving.

You just have to play a role that will make the man always looking for you, searching for you, trying all his best to keep you to himself, from there you will see how much he loves you and will go any length to ask you to marry him. Give him reasons no matter how long it takes both of u to be together. if you were meant to be together, nothing will come in between that.

But i still dey ask Guys Maka why, Make why we no fit open up and tell the ladies that we can't have them as wife, esp when age is not on their side ? Guys Maka Why  Huh? Huh?
Dk i see reasons in what u are saying...but ow can u be in r/ship with a man for more than 5years without defining it..
For instance, I was 25 wen i met u and then we started dating for almost 9years without nothing...and then at d end of the day we go our seperate ways hoping to find love again...now add 9years to ma previous age..it will give u 34 and most guys of 34 are already in a serious r/ship while most are married....now, guys of ma age will not want me cos am growing older but rather they will prefer d younger ones

Where do I start from....and so many questions without answers will began to creep in....that is y u see so many elderly women without
husband today......

Inorder to avoid such, i will always ask questions like what makes u love me, wat do u what from me, I will give u some time to talk but if u refuse i will ask u where dis r/ship is heading to...if u are not gonna marry me tell me u cant marry me, not wen d r/ship gets to 5years and above, u will now tell me ur parents doesnt want someone from my region or some flimsy excuses that doesnt count

ur right b4 5 years u shld know if u ar to stay or nt, most girl will remain there even wen d hnd written is on d hall hoping it will be fine. some time most of our girls force their self to a man even when he is nt interested, i know of a lady who pack her bags to her bf house remain permanently with him for over 4 years and withing this period she acts like his wife even when d guy try to mk her realize is nt working at d end wat happens she end up loosing wasting her time and energy. mk them girls wise up i beg they shld know that every relationship is try ur luck if it works out for u both fine u must nt kill urself for one guy all in d name of he must marry u cos u are dating.
i quit my relationship once i see it wasn't working, u go tire urself in one relationship better one go dey pass u bye
true yarn yare
Posted: at 6-05-2011 04:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- jukkiebukwes at 6-05-2011 04:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: abbeyy74 on  6-05-2011 03:48 PM
one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.

and of what interest is to u if am person or not? maybe u dont me but am d bold type and if its me, i will say its me and wont give a hoot about what pple may think abt me
Posted: at 6-05-2011 04:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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