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Date: 05-05-2011 4:58 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Uju Obuekwe
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- beckononme at 6-05-2011 04:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: toibeli on  6-05-2011 04:33 PM
Simple, If you get the milk for free, why would you want to buy the cow?
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin oh boy see proverbs!
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 04:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on  6-05-2011 04:12 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-05-2011 03:06 PM
i no know say we get relationship lecturers here ooh DK; SOBEIT CHIGLAMOUR PEPESSY RIUTHANDAH UNA WELDONE THIS IS REALLY A LECTURE room any body dat want to learn will learn here

thax! i appreciate.enough said cuz a word to the wise is enough.

Exactly Una don try , the words of the elders Cheesy Wink
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- beckononme at 6-05-2011 04:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:32 PM
Quote from: dmnites on  6-05-2011 04:30 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:08 PM
Quote from: abbeyy74 on  6-05-2011 03:48 PM
one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.

and of what interest is to u if am person or not? maybe u dont me but am d bold type and if its me, i will say its me and wont give a hoot about what pple may think abt me

na make we for see way take help you, make you talk true NOW oh, you fit still see guy here whey go take you as you be, no use your friend cover up


hia, u look me finish u tink say i dey find man? abeg oh

Nice reply!
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- jukkiebukwes at 6-05-2011 04:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: beckononme on  6-05-2011 04:38 PM
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Quote from: abbeyy74 on  6-05-2011 03:48 PM
one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.

and of what interest is to u if am person or not? maybe u dont me but am d bold type and if its me, i will say its me and wont give a hoot about what pple may think abt me

na make we for see way take help you, make you talk true NOW oh, you fit still see guy here whey go take you as you be, no use your friend cover up


hia, u look me finish u tink say i dey find man? abeg oh

Nice reply!
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 04:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dmnites on  6-05-2011 04:30 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:08 PM
Quote from: abbeyy74 on  6-05-2011 03:48 PM
one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.

and of what interest is to u if am person or not? maybe u dont me but am d bold type and if its me, i will say its me and wont give a hoot about what pple may think abt me

na make we for see way take help you, make you talk true NOW oh, you fit still see guy here whey go take you as you be, no use your friend cover up


This guy you tooo funny Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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- jukkiebukwes at 6-05-2011 04:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: toibeli on  6-05-2011 04:33 PM
Simple, If you get the milk for free, why would you want to buy the cow?

na only milk u wan drink? Huh?? u no wan chop the meat?
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 04:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 10:31 AM
as long as u cook for your bf and mayb clean up his house once in a while, u don dey perform wifely role be that!


Sis, i no quite agree wit u completely o on this one.. u can say that she shouldn't do it frequently i for hear but, not doing at all? haba naw? so 2 of  dem no go chop? abi it should be all abt TFC, MR. Biggs and sex? help me understand more.

i done talk my own oh, from frequently, e go turn to weekly, den daily...i no fit shout abeg

LOL  like play like play you don b wife for free LOL Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Cool
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- sobeit at 6-05-2011 04:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:36 PM
na hu u dey ask??? ???javascript:void(0) Huh? Huh? Huh?

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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 10:31 AM
as long as u cook for your bf and mayb clean up his house once in a while, u don dey perform wifely role be that!


Sis, i no quite agree wit u completely o on this one.. u can say that she shouldn't do it frequently i for hear but, not doing at all? haba naw? so 2 of  dem no go chop? abi it should be all abt TFC, MR. Biggs and sex? help me understand more.

i done talk my own oh, from frequently, e go turn to weekly, den daily...i no fit shout abeg

SHout Jooo Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin i go shout oh coz man-woman business tire me, its not how smart, intelligent, beautiful, good-in-bed, homely, submissive etc u are d matters. wat matters is 4 God to give us d wisdom to handle some of the umu anuofias wey person dey meet everyday

u bey typical igbo woman lol

before nko, i ma buro? abum ezigbo nwa-afo

mba nu,kedu otu nge esi ama?.mana igbo ina asu di omimi  Cheesy

eziokwu! obi n'atozim paulina paulina, daalu rinne

hehehe u too funny "paulina paulina" u r welcome though
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- jukkiebukwes at 6-05-2011 04:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-05-2011 04:42 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:10 PM
Quote from: beckononme on  6-05-2011 02:16 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 10:31 AM
as long as u cook for your bf and mayb clean up his house once in a while, u don dey perform wifely role be that!


Sis, i no quite agree wit u completely o on this one.. u can say that she shouldn't do it frequently i for hear but, not doing at all? haba naw? so 2 of  dem no go chop? abi it should be all abt TFC, MR. Biggs and sex? help me understand more.

i done talk my own oh, from frequently, e go turn to weekly, den daily...i no fit shout abeg

LOL  like play like play you don b wife for free LOL Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Cool
na so oh

Quote from: sobeit on  6-05-2011 04:42 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:36 PM
na hu u dey ask??? ???javascript:void(0) Huh? Huh? Huh?

Quote from: sobeit on  6-05-2011 04:34 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:29 PM
Quote from: sobeit on  6-05-2011 04:28 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:19 PM
Quote from: beckononme on  6-05-2011 04:14 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:10 PM
Quote from: beckononme on  6-05-2011 02:16 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 10:31 AM
as long as u cook for your bf and mayb clean up his house once in a while, u don dey perform wifely role be that!


Sis, i no quite agree wit u completely o on this one.. u can say that she shouldn't do it frequently i for hear but, not doing at all? haba naw? so 2 of  dem no go chop? abi it should be all abt TFC, MR. Biggs and sex? help me understand more.

i done talk my own oh, from frequently, e go turn to weekly, den daily...i no fit shout abeg

SHout Jooo Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin i go shout oh coz man-woman business tire me, its not how smart, intelligent, beautiful, good-in-bed, homely, submissive etc u are d matters. wat matters is 4 God to give us d wisdom to handle some of the umu anuofias wey person dey meet everyday

u bey typical igbo woman lol

before nko, i ma buro? abum ezigbo nwa-afo

mba nu,kedu otu nge esi ama?.mana igbo ina asu di omimi  Cheesy

eziokwu! obi n'atozim paulina paulina, daalu rinne

hehehe u too funny "paulina paulina" u r welcome though

 Smiley Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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- dmnites at 6-05-2011 04:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: abbeyy74 on  6-05-2011 03:48 PM
one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.

and of what interest is to u if am person or not? maybe u dont me but am d bold type and if its me, i will say its me and wont give a hoot about what pple may think abt me

na make we for see way take help you, make you talk true NOW oh, you fit still see guy here whey go take you as you be, no use your friend cover up


hia, u look me finish u tink say i dey find man? abeg oh

i no talk say you dey find man oh, na just advise i wan give, make person no use shy shy take miss wetin be im own oh
onye nwere nti ya nuru
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 04:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on  6-05-2011 04:23 PM
Hmmmmmm

Sweetheart where have you been , did u travel to pakistan to see osama  Tongue  der no tell u sey i don dey find u since Huh? Tongue Cheesy
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- beckononme at 6-05-2011 04:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  6-05-2011 04:42 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 04:10 PM
Quote from: beckononme on  6-05-2011 02:16 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 10:31 AM
as long as u cook for your bf and mayb clean up his house once in a while, u don dey perform wifely role be that!


Sis, i no quite agree wit u completely o on this one.. u can say that she shouldn't do it frequently i for hear but, not doing at all? haba naw? so 2 of  dem no go chop? abi it should be all abt TFC, MR. Biggs and sex? help me understand more.

i done talk my own oh, from frequently, e go turn to weekly, den daily...i no fit shout abeg

LOL  like play like play you don b wife for free LOL Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Cool
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin una too plenty for hia wey head no just correct but funny
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 04:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: beckononme on  6-05-2011 04:47 PM
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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  6-05-2011 10:31 AM
as long as u cook for your bf and mayb clean up his house once in a while, u don dey perform wifely role be that!


Sis, i no quite agree wit u completely o on this one.. u can say that she shouldn't do it frequently i for hear but, not doing at all? haba naw? so 2 of  dem no go chop? abi it should be all abt TFC, MR. Biggs and sex? help me understand more.

i done talk my own oh, from frequently, e go turn to weekly, den daily...i no fit shout abeg

LOL  like play like play you don b wife for free LOL Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Cool
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin una too plenty for hia wey head no just correct but funny


THATS NAIJAPALS FOR U  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy just stay tuned u go see more craze people Cool
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- beckononme at 6-05-2011 04:51 PM (13 years ago)
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one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.

and of what interest is to u if am person or not? maybe u dont me but am d bold type and if its me, i will say its me and wont give a hoot about what pple may think abt me

na make we for see way take help you, make you talk true NOW oh, you fit still see guy here whey go take you as you be, no use your friend cover up


hia, u look me finish u tink say i dey find man? abeg oh

i no talk say you dey find man oh, na just advise i wan give, make person no use shy shy take miss wetin be im own oh
onye nwere nti ya nuru

Ehen! how e take concern u if she say na for her or her friend? Must u know to whom it may concern before u go comment? hia! Grin Grin Grin
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- raquel4real1 at 6-05-2011 05:00 PM (13 years ago)
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A poster should always think well before posting
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- bibismall at 6-05-2011 05:00 PM (13 years ago)
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By the time you finish cooking all  you know to cook, wash all the cloths, lay all the styles and to all the loving you know, he will switch thats the raw truth. Dont have time to give reasons

so ar u saying if ur girlfrnd never offers to cook 4 u, u wont feel offended? say d truth oh
make she go cook for her father. Why would someone be counting on his girl to cook what he eats? Relationship is not marriage and thus has bounds which should be respected else things might not end up wonderful.

Agreed, so do u have the money to feed her in Mcdonalds everyday? Lunch, breakfast and dinner.

After una go say nigerian girls nor sabi home management. She dey cook for her man now, na wahala, if she nor cook na wahala. Una nor go kill us!

abeg ask am 4 me, him don dey pretend like say him gf no dey cook 4 am
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin EXACTLY the POINT! Being FAKE just to be known as being NICE!

mr man you dont talk shit. You cant live my life ok? We just diff people on net so dont think i am as stupid as you.

My apologies if that bites a bit hard on u sir... i didn't mean to be insolent cos by far u way older and probably have achieved alot more than me... once again my sincere apologies!

nice one beckononme... u've just shown that u are mature

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- jukkiebukwes at 6-05-2011 05:04 PM (13 years ago)
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one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.

and of what interest is to u if am person or not? maybe u dont me but am d bold type and if its me, i will say its me and wont give a hoot about what pple may think abt me

na make we for see way take help you, make you talk true NOW oh, you fit still see guy here whey go take you as you be, no use your friend cover up


hia, u look me finish u tink say i dey find man? abeg oh

i no talk say you dey find man oh, na just advise i wan give, make person no use shy shy take miss wetin be im own oh
onye nwere nti ya nuru
u ehn! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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- dmnites at 6-05-2011 05:06 PM (13 years ago)
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one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.

and of what interest is to u if am person or not? maybe u dont me but am d bold type and if its me, i will say its me and wont give a hoot about what pple may think abt me

na make we for see way take help you, make you talk true NOW oh, you fit still see guy here whey go take you as you be, no use your friend cover up


hia, u look me finish u tink say i dey find man? abeg oh

i no talk say you dey find man oh, na just advise i wan give, make person no use shy shy take miss wetin be im own oh
onye nwere nti ya nuru

Ehen! how e take concern u if she say na for her or her friend? Must u know to whom it may concern before u go comment? hia! Grin Grin Grin

wetin come dey shook you for the mata, abi na you be the guy she dey talk about, guy reveal yourself you if you need help make we know, no provoke me oh
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- SAmyrocko at 6-05-2011 05:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  5-05-2011 04:58 PM
A close friend of mine sent me an urgent BB message, her message was the sort of BB message that urges you to instantly pick up your phone and call because there must be some major gist! I responded and then called her immediately after that.

Kiru sounded so upset, she could barely speak. She began narrating her story;

She had spent the weekend at her man’s house. It was a 5 day weekend, one of those long weekends that comes once in a while. They had gone to the cinema on one day, enjoyed a romantic dinner on the next day and generally had a great time. On the final night, as they chilled on the coach, sharing a tub of ice cream and stolen kisses while watching an action flick; he suddenly moved away from her, sat up and looked into her eyes.

Kiru was startled, “Do you have a surprise for me?” she teased.

Abiola – “Sweets, you haven’t been taking good care of me”

Kiru – “Umm…Okay…”

Abiola – “We haven’t been having enough sex lately and you don’t even cook for me anymore plus when I asked you to iron my shirt for church on Sunday, you ignored me”

As Kiru described, she didn’t say a word at first. She simply looked into his eyes and then slowly moved her gaze to her “empty” ring finger and then back to him – then she shouted “ANUOFIA!” (This is basically a heavy Igbo insult meaning bush meat). She grabbed her things and stormed out of his apartment.


 As she told me, she spent the next 24 hours – crying, laughing and “thinking about her life”. After 5 years of dating, no ring, yet her man could confidently demand “wifely duties” from her.

Kiru’s experience is not peculiar. A lot of girls act as wives; some cook, some clean, some keep it rolling in the bedroom, some do all three while some go as far as adding motherly duties such as giving him money etc…

 I ask this – what do you make of this phenomenon? One of my conservative (or so I thought!) aunties recently told me that “I must show the guy that I am a wife material otherwise other girls will show him and I will lose out”.

Must i dish out all that is supposedly reserved for my future husband to my boyfriend. In the same vein, should I expect him to act as a husband as well?

Let me  know what you think and also share your girlfriend-wife/boyfriend-husband experiences!

Yes, If you are both into a long term relationship all the things you stated must be there for you to convince him that you've got the real attitude.

Posted: at 6-05-2011 05:10 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- truenaija2 at 6-05-2011 05:11 PM (13 years ago)
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one thing that always baffle me is that people will never say on dis forum that they are the one involve in dis matter but it is always my friend needs advice,anyway sha one i will blame the girl becos i believe one should not starts what u can not finish,4 the guy to have said the girl no longer wash his clothe,iron dem and cook 4 him means that she has been doing it before which she now stops,for the girl to have still be waiting patientely for that guy for good 5yrs unless they started very too early then is something else,for the girl to have started staying with the guy on visit for complete 5days becos of holiday without being engaged to each other which am sure that is not the first long holiday that she has been spending there is uncalled for,i will just advice the girl to seat him down one on one and tell him her mind so that she will know where she stands and if she still needs to stay waiting or move 4ward,and as for that guy sef na real BIG THIEF him bi.

and of what interest is to u if am person or not? maybe u dont me but am d bold type and if its me, i will say its me and wont give a hoot about what pple may think abt me

na make we for see way take help you, make you talk true NOW oh, you fit still see guy here whey go take you as you be, no use your friend cover up


hia, u look me finish u tink say i dey find man? abeg oh

i no talk say you dey find man oh, na just advise i wan give, make person no use shy shy take miss wetin be im own oh
onye nwere nti ya nuru

Ehen! how e take concern u if she say na for her or her friend? Must u know to whom it may concern before u go comment? hia! Grin Grin Grin

wetin come dey shook you for the mata, abi na you be the guy she dey talk about, guy reveal yourself you if you need help make we know, no provoke me oh


LOL i don laugh so tey my belle wan  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin 8)burst
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