![-]( "frankymore") frankymore at 15-05-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago)  (m) Lynnclassic U're absolutely right may God continue to bless u. These one here couldn't let me be. She said, Am a lawyer and u're a business man If only u can accept me to be ur wife wealth will never be our problems, I really love u so much and 'll do everything to make us rich, Just say it and i'll quit my fiance and marry u. That i should pls marry her. What about my Joy and Happiness ha? Nawa for gals ooo!!! | Posted: at 15-05-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Lynnclassic U're absolutely right may God continue to bless u. These one here couldn't let me be. She said, Am a lawyer and u're a business man If only u can accept me to be ur wife wealth will never be our problems, I really love u so much and 'll do everything to make us rich, Just say it and i'll quit my fiance and marry u. That i should pls marry her. What about my Joy and Happiness ha? Nawa for gals ooo!!!
pls don't 4 any reason give in coz the marriage will not be based on love!their r many failed relationships now coz pple don't realy go 4 what they need in life,take ur time don't allow her 2 push u in to it coz u will regret it later!!! | Posted: at 15-05-2011 10:02 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Lynnclassic U're absolutely right may God continue to bless u. These one here couldn't let me be. She said, Am a lawyer and u're a business man If only u can accept me to be ur wife wealth will never be our problems, I really love u so much and 'll do everything to make us rich, Just say it and i'll quit my fiance and marry u. That i should pls marry her. What about my Joy and Happiness ha? Nawa for gals ooo!!!
that alone should raise a RED FLAG. Some women just like to shoot themselves in the foot. She will leave you for another business man or even politician.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 15-05-2011 10:06 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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lol | Posted: at 15-05-2011 10:08 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "comiter") comiter at 15-05-2011 11:57 PM (12 years ago) (m) I don't accept polygamy but marriage is the ultimate institute of respectability for a woman.
ya......you make a nice comment here.............all dis is just hard luck nd a cause 4rom our father nd mother some times is not de laddys fault...i believe 2 get what i can whie i can, no time.......i no blem does dat get it in any ways it takes..if you are a womanbeing, really you will knows about love ...you will know love is kids nd kids is family there is no time 2 phyuk around just starting planing about ur family 4rom ur yurth age.........we all play with tors teddy even some of us give there own teddy real food just 2 showe love...my sisters wey dey phyuk around ..abeg time no dey if ur bobo know want say yes whie una don friend 4 5years i abeg you try get belly 4him weder he like it or not God no go vest....men folowe de cost all dis...4get say i be play bobo..... | Posted: at 15-05-2011 11:57 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "igbonnanna") igbonnanna at 16-05-2011 12:20 AM (12 years ago) (m) Na Love for Blackberry cause am.
lol. where hv u been? where-ever, welcome. | Posted: at 16-05-2011 12:20 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "igbonnanna") igbonnanna at 16-05-2011 12:39 AM (12 years ago) (m) hmmmmmmmmmmmm i no dey desperate oooooooo i go wait for Gods time
u dey wait God, I dey wait for Jesus Christ. Jesus + God's Time = we? | Posted: at 16-05-2011 12:39 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "igbonnanna") igbonnanna at 16-05-2011 12:41 AM (12 years ago) (m) lol
U ARE WONDERFUL. Keep it up! | Posted: at 16-05-2011 12:41 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "gimac") gimac at 16-05-2011 06:46 AM (12 years ago) (m) Put it why Nigeria ladys are desperate to get married
is only bc we africans believes that a good and responsible woman has to be married
so if u are not that means u most be bad woman or irresponsible one
this is fact deficient. I have not seen a nigerian woman at 50 on the net looking for a husband after she has married before. So why say this? Women all over has similar character especially when it comes to relationships. Bro go do your survey very well before post. After all in the west were you are indirectly using as an exception, ladies live with guys for years. So whats the difference with marriage? Its just the marriage vows only. [/quote i agree with you | Posted: at 16-05-2011 06:46 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "oohio2007") oohio2007 at 16-05-2011 09:45 AM (12 years ago) (m) With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.
VERY,VERY CORRECT.I WONDER WHY MOST GIRLS LOVE DECIEVING THEMSELVES? MARRIAGE IS A VERY HONORABLE INSTITUTION.THE BIBLE SAYS SO.THOSE WHO MARRY CORRECTLY,AUTOMATICALLY STEP INTO HONOUR.THOSE WHO CO-HABIT OR DONT WANT TO MARRY BUT PREFER TO JUMP FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER CAN NEVER EXPERIENCE TRUE HONOUR.MOST OFTEN THAN NOT,THEY END UP IN SHAME AND MISERY.
and jumping from man to man is out of question?
I'm telling u,these women exist, and u guys should show some respect instead of jumping in conclusions! IF ACTUALLY THERE ARE SINGLE WOMEN WHO DON'T HAVE SEX AND TOOK A DECISION TO REMAIN SINGLE FOR THE REST OF THIER LIVES.WHAT ARE THEY WAITING FOR? LET THEM JOIN THE CONVENT. PERIOD. ANY THING BESIDE THIS IS ABSOLUTE SELF DECIET AND FIRST CLASS HIPOCRACY BECAUSE THERE ARE SITUATIONS WHERE MOST GIRLS CHOOSE TO REMAIN SINGLE AS A RESULT OF EITHER AN EMOTIONAL OR A PHYSIOLOGICAL DISORDER OR A BAD EXPRIENCE IN THE PAST.IF NOT,THEY WOULD LOVE TO MARRY.
Do u think u're in d best position to speak for all d ladies who chose to remain single? I don't think so!
U see,this is d problem with this damn world, jumping in conclusions and judging ppl who they know nothing about!
For ur info,some women don't need a man to be happy! In fact, a man in their life causes a lot of stress and pain,
so they choose to spare themselves of such mess!
We r not all d same,we don't want/need d same things,and some of us really abhor to be part of d crowd! @BITTERSWEET.IT IS NOW SO,SO OBVIOUS THAT YOU WERE ONCE DEEPLY HURT BY A GUY AND YOU ARE REFUSING TO LET GO OF THE PAST.I NOW KNOW THAT YOU ARE PRETENDING TO BE HAPPY BUT YOU ARE NOT.YOU CANNOT HATE AND DO WITHOUT WHAT GOD HIMSELF HAS DESIGNED FOR HUMANITY TO ENJOY.YOU SEEM TO FORGET IN THE FIT OF YOUR ANGER AGAINST MEN THAT JUST AS IT IS NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE,IT IS NOT ALSO GOOD FOR THE WOMAN TO BE ALONE.CAN GOD LIE?IF A WOMAN DESIRE A MAN IN HER LIFE,SHE IS FULFILING GODS WILL.SAME GOES FOR THE MAN.SO IF YOU DONT NEED A MAN IN YOUR LIFE,YOU ARE GOING AGAINST GODS DESIGN.IT WAS BECAUSE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER DESIRED EACH OTHER THAT IS HOW YOU WERE BORN.YOU CANT GO AGAINST GODS DESIGN AND BE A HAPPY PERSON. YOU ARE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF. TAKE IT EASY.THIS MIGHT BE VERY HARD FOR YOU TO SWALLOW.YOU CAN HATE ME IF YOU LIKE BUT IT IS THE TRUTH  I don't hate anybody, that's a feeling who would only destroy a person, so I'll never waste
my energy with useless feelings! And stop repeating that I was deeply hurt because u're very wrong! If that would have happened,
I would have admitted, but it's not so!I didn't have many relationships during my lifetime (I hope u know I'm not a kid),because
I was a long term relationship adept,and when they finished, I always was d one who ended it,but not because they deeply hurt me,but bcz I hate making compromises, and a relationship means making compromises at daily basis! Sorry, but I can't do that for a lifetime, so I decided to keep them at distance! I'm satisfied so,trust me,for me a man is not equal with happiness, oh no,it's actually d other way around :, so I'm stress free,which gives me d peace one can not have with a guy by her side!And mind u,is not against God at all!Have u not read ur Bible well or what? 
1Corinthians 7:8-9, 27: To the unmarried and widows I say that it is best for them to remain as I am.
Paul and Jesus did regard celibacy as a higher spiritual state than marriage!Part of these differences in calling likely reside in each individual's sex drive and the variations from person to person, to put it bluntly. After all,God knows our frame,& won't allow us to be tempted beyond what we are able to endure (1Corinthians 10:13).Paul was aware of this, so although in 1Corinthians 7 he places the celibate state as being spiritually superior to the married state.
In some verses (1Corinthians 7:32-35), Paul explains his reasoning behind encouraging celibacy,in that married ppl r more divided in their interests in serving God compared to the devoted celibate single man or woman. In verse 26,he mentions the "present distress" as a reason not to marry, but that can't be deemed as a universally applicable reason that applies to all Christians at all times, but rather it applied in particular to the Corinthians who receive this letter roughly around 55 A.D. 24:19).
So, live ur life as u want, do d things which make u happy (as long they don't affect other ppls' life in bad),and stop judging and
labeling ppl who u don't know anything about, because u're sinning more than u imagine!
I rest my case!
But you didnt start your scriptural quotation from 1corinthians7:6.In verse 6 paul made it clear that he was speaking from his mind(permission) and not as commanded (from God).in verse 7 he said he would(WISH) that all men were as he was which could also mean that he WISHED.So it was a wish from his mind and not a command from God.There was a situation in corinth at the time and he needed to solve the problem. As christians,celibacy is a very special situation and celibate christians must totally dedicate thier lives to the work of God.Celibacy is not a yard stick to determine ones spiritual superiority over the other.Among the greatest men that moved the earth for God only very few of them were celibate and more of the celibate ones were either reverend fathers or sisters. So if you have chosen a life of celibacy,make sure that you spend more of your time winning souls for christ even here in naija pals.Ensure your post or comments are truthful, sincere, encouraging and above all,draw people closer to God.I AM STILL YOUR FRIEND AND I HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A LOVELY DAY?
''NO MAN KNOWETH THE HOUR'' | Posted: at 16-05-2011 09:45 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.
VERY,VERY CORRECT.I WONDER WHY MOST GIRLS LOVE DECIEVING THEMSELVES? MARRIAGE IS A VERY HONORABLE INSTITUTION.THE BIBLE SAYS SO.THOSE WHO MARRY CORRECTLY,AUTOMATICALLY STEP INTO HONOUR.THOSE WHO CO-HABIT OR DONT WANT TO MARRY BUT PREFER TO JUMP FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER CAN NEVER EXPERIENCE TRUE HONOUR.MOST OFTEN THAN NOT,THEY END UP IN SHAME AND MISERY.
and jumping from man to man is out of question?
I'm telling u,these women exist, and u guys should show some respect instead of jumping in conclusions! IF ACTUALLY THERE ARE SINGLE WOMEN WHO DON'T HAVE SEX AND TOOK A DECISION TO REMAIN SINGLE FOR THE REST OF THIER LIVES.WHAT ARE THEY WAITING FOR? LET THEM JOIN THE CONVENT. PERIOD. ANY THING BESIDE THIS IS ABSOLUTE SELF DECIET AND FIRST CLASS HIPOCRACY BECAUSE THERE ARE SITUATIONS WHERE MOST GIRLS CHOOSE TO REMAIN SINGLE AS A RESULT OF EITHER AN EMOTIONAL OR A PHYSIOLOGICAL DISORDER OR A BAD EXPRIENCE IN THE PAST.IF NOT,THEY WOULD LOVE TO MARRY.
Do u think u're in d best position to speak for all d ladies who chose to remain single? I don't think so!
U see,this is d problem with this damn world, jumping in conclusions and judging ppl who they know nothing about!
For ur info,some women don't need a man to be happy! In fact, a man in their life causes a lot of stress and pain,
so they choose to spare themselves of such mess!
We r not all d same,we don't want/need d same things,and some of us really abhor to be part of d crowd! @BITTERSWEET.IT IS NOW SO,SO OBVIOUS THAT YOU WERE ONCE DEEPLY HURT BY A GUY AND YOU ARE REFUSING TO LET GO OF THE PAST.I NOW KNOW THAT YOU ARE PRETENDING TO BE HAPPY BUT YOU ARE NOT.YOU CANNOT HATE AND DO WITHOUT WHAT GOD HIMSELF HAS DESIGNED FOR HUMANITY TO ENJOY.YOU SEEM TO FORGET IN THE FIT OF YOUR ANGER AGAINST MEN THAT JUST AS IT IS NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE,IT IS NOT ALSO GOOD FOR THE WOMAN TO BE ALONE.CAN GOD LIE?IF A WOMAN DESIRE A MAN IN HER LIFE,SHE IS FULFILING GODS WILL.SAME GOES FOR THE MAN.SO IF YOU DONT NEED A MAN IN YOUR LIFE,YOU ARE GOING AGAINST GODS DESIGN.IT WAS BECAUSE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER DESIRED EACH OTHER THAT IS HOW YOU WERE BORN.YOU CANT GO AGAINST GODS DESIGN AND BE A HAPPY PERSON. YOU ARE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF. TAKE IT EASY.THIS MIGHT BE VERY HARD FOR YOU TO SWALLOW.YOU CAN HATE ME IF YOU LIKE BUT IT IS THE TRUTH
my energy with useless feelings! And stop repeating that I was deeply hurt because u're very wrong! If that would have happened,
I would have admitted, but it's not so!I didn't have many relationships during my lifetime (I hope u know I'm not a kid),because
I was a long term relationship adept,and when they finished, I always was d one who ended it,but not because they deeply hurt me,but bcz I hate making compromises, and a relationship means making compromises at daily basis! Sorry, but I can't do that for a lifetime, so I decided to keep them at distance! I'm satisfied so,trust me,for me a man is not equal with happiness, oh no,it's actually d other way around :, so I'm stress free,which gives me d peace one can not have with a guy by her side!And mind u,is not against God at all!Have u not read ur Bible well or what?
1Corinthians 7:8-9, 27: To the unmarried and widows I say that it is best for them to remain as I am.
Paul and Jesus did regard celibacy as a higher spiritual state than marriage!Part of these differences in calling likely reside in each individual's sex drive and the variations from person to person, to put it bluntly. After all,God knows our frame,& won't allow us to be tempted beyond what we are able to endure (1Corinthians 10:13).Paul was aware of this, so although in 1Corinthians 7 he places the celibate state as being spiritually superior to the married state.
In some verses (1Corinthians 7:32-35), Paul explains his reasoning behind encouraging celibacy,in that married ppl r more divided in their interests in serving God compared to the devoted celibate single man or woman. In verse 26,he mentions the "present distress" as a reason not to marry, but that can't be deemed as a universally applicable reason that applies to all Christians at all times, but rather it applied in particular to the Corinthians who receive this letter roughly around 55 A.D. 24:19).
So, live ur life as u want, do d things which make u happy (as long they don't affect other ppls' life in bad),and stop judging and
labeling ppl who u don't know anything about, because u're sinning more than u imagine!
I rest my case!
But you didnt start your scriptural quotation from 1corinthians7:6.In verse 6 paul made it clear that he was speaking from his mind(permission) and not as commanded (from God).in verse 7 he said he would(WISH) that all men were as he was which could also mean that he WISHED.So it was a wish from his mind and not a command from God.There was a situation in corinth at the time and he needed to solve the problem. As christians,celibacy is a very special situation and celibate christians must totally dedicate thier lives to the work of God.Celibacy is not a yard stick to determine ones spiritual superiority over the other.Among the greatest men that moved the earth for God only very few of them were celibate and more of the celibate ones were either reverend fathers or sisters. So if you have chosen a life of celibacy,make sure that you spend more of your time winning souls for christ even here in naija pals.Ensure your post or comments are truthful, sincere, encouraging and above all,draw people closer to God.I AM STILL YOUR FRIEND AND I HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A LOVELY DAY?  , everybody lives their life
as they wish,and as long as their decision doesn't harm anybody, and as long as they don't sin,I don't see any problem!
I don't want to continue on this issue, because we could go on and on on this topic and I'll eventually make u understand
that Jesus Himself approves celibacy as long as is a pure one!
Have a good week, Oohio! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 16-05-2011 09:53 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "tando") tando at 16-05-2011 09:56 AM (12 years ago) (f) one wants to be lonely. if not married atleast you must have someone next to you. God made everything to have its own time and function. when lonely you end up despising lovebirds because you are lonely. having someone is part of life and growth. | Posted: at 16-05-2011 09:56 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "gimac") gimac at 16-05-2011 10:02 AM (12 years ago) (m) heye | Posted: at 16-05-2011 10:02 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "tando") tando at 16-05-2011 10:06 AM (12 years ago) (f) no one wants to be lonely instead of one wants to be lonely | Posted: at 16-05-2011 10:06 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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no one wants to be lonely instead of one wants to be lonely
I can't agree with u on this!
I love to be lonely! Stress free!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 16-05-2011 10:07 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 16-05-2011 10:10 AM (12 years ago) (m) no one wants to be lonely instead of one wants to be lonely
I can't agree with u on this!
I love to be lonely! Stress free! i will act like i didnt c that coming! | Posted: at 16-05-2011 10:10 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "tando") tando at 16-05-2011 10:10 AM (12 years ago) (f) no one wants to be lonely instead of one wants to be lonely
I can't agree with u on this!
I love to be lonely! Stress free!so you will service you? its part of life. better use the really one than toys (you know what i mean). | Posted: at 16-05-2011 10:10 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Live and let live! | Posted: at 16-05-2011 10:13 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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no one wants to be lonely instead of one wants to be lonely
I can't agree with u on this!
I love to be lonely! Stress free!so you will service you? its part of life. better use the really one than toys (you know what i mean).
Last time I checked, I wasn't an animal! I am very able to control myself!
I don't need any kind of "service " for God' sake!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 16-05-2011 10:16 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "tando") tando at 16-05-2011 10:17 AM (12 years ago) (f) i | Posted: at 16-05-2011 10:17 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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