why are ladies so desperate for marriage these days ???? (Page 7)

Date: 11-05-2011 10:14 am (12 years ago) | Author: lynn
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- typicalman84 at 14-05-2011 07:01 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 12-05-2011 12:20 AM
Na Love for Blackberry cause am.
lol.
Nne m kedu?
I'm good.and you?.Smiley
Great. How Momsi?
she's fine,thanks.and how is yours?.and how are my lil cuties?
Doing great. I didn't tell you i was in Nigeria Last month. it was great. Your little cuties are doing awesome and growing so fast.
wow!.you went to Naija.Now I understand your posts.lol. it seems you had a nice time.awwwwwww i bet your mom was superhappy.nice to hear that.anyway,remmember to save your lil neice for my cousin and your lil nephew for me now.make no body go close.lol
Ha. yeah Sure will.

Posted: at 14-05-2011 07:01 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Expresslady at 14-05-2011 07:34 AM (12 years ago)
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i've already tired the nut.. Grin
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- CammyWhite at 14-05-2011 07:42 AM (12 years ago)
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Who says that we are?
Posted: at 14-05-2011 07:42 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 14-05-2011 09:07 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 10:19 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-05-2011 07:00 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 01:56 AM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.
VERY,VERY CORRECT.I WONDER WHY MOST GIRLS LOVE DECIEVING THEMSELVES? MARRIAGE IS A VERY HONORABLE INSTITUTION.THE BIBLE SAYS SO.THOSE WHO MARRY CORRECTLY,AUTOMATICALLY STEP INTO HONOUR.THOSE WHO CO-HABIT OR DONT WANT TO MARRY BUT PREFER TO JUMP FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER CAN NEVER EXPERIENCE TRUE HONOUR.MOST OFTEN THAN NOT,THEY END UP IN SHAME AND MISERY.

What about those women who never slept around, and decided to remain single because they r better so,
and jumping from man to man is out of question?
I'm telling u,these women exist, and u guys should show some respect instead of jumping in conclusions!

IF ACTUALLY THERE ARE SINGLE WOMEN WHO DON'T HAVE SEX AND TOOK A DECISION TO REMAIN SINGLE FOR THE REST OF THIER LIVES.WHAT ARE THEY WAITING FOR? LET THEM JOIN THE CONVENT. PERIOD.
ANY THING BESIDE THIS IS ABSOLUTE SELF DECIET AND FIRST CLASS HIPOCRACY BECAUSE THERE ARE SITUATIONS WHERE MOST GIRLS CHOOSE TO REMAIN SINGLE AS A RESULT OF EITHER AN EMOTIONAL OR A PHYSIOLOGICAL DISORDER OR A BAD EXPRIENCE IN THE PAST.IF NOT,THEY WOULD LOVE TO MARRY.

Now there u messed it up big time!
Do u think u're in d best position to speak for all d ladies who chose to remain single? I don't think so!
U see,this is d problem with this damn world, jumping in conclusions and judging ppl who they know nothing about!
For ur info,some women don't need a man to be happy! In fact, a man in their life causes a lot of stress and pain,
so they choose to spare themselves of such mess!
We r not all d same,we don't want/need d same things,and some of us really abhor to be part of d crowd!


Posted: at 14-05-2011 09:07 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 14-05-2011 09:12 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: CammyWhite on 14-05-2011 07:42 AM
Who says that we are?

Good question!
And I think I know d answer! Are those ppl who don't have a life,and their main occupation is to label ppl
and to judge without having absolutely any right to do that!
There's a single Judge, above us,and He will definitely judge us all!

Posted: at 14-05-2011 09:12 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- preciouslyme at 14-05-2011 09:20 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 11-05-2011 10:14 AM
Ladies don't take this personal,is the fact that a lot of ladies these days are so desperate that they even get pregnant to tie a man down and are contributing to the high rate of divorce in our society,some use money to get a man to marry them.these days ladies don't even care if a man is married with kids cos of her desperation that age is not on her side or guys are not ready to ask for her hand in marriage she ends up destroying her fellow woman's home.how can a lady get pregnant and tell the man responsible that she will take care of the baby and  will not do abortion even if the guy does not want but ask your self why should you indulge in it just to tie him down even if he marries you cos of the baby will you have peace in your home knowing that you  forced him to do it.

good topic, not everyman that comes along is there for Marriage, Gods time is best, and only sis marriages last
Posted: at 14-05-2011 09:20 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Texther at 14-05-2011 09:53 AM (12 years ago)
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I think those that are desperate about marriage are the ones that lost their DIGNITY long time ago!! U'll neva see a virgin desperate to marry.
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- jukkiebukwes at 14-05-2011 11:35 AM (12 years ago)
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if u ask me, na who i go ask? d matter wey u see so, e don tey wey e start. no be me go talk am coz e heavy 4 my mouth. if u ask me d matter wey dey 4 ground, na who i go ask (Omawunmi)
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- emminic at 14-05-2011 01:41 PM (12 years ago)
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the problem is that most of the ladies dont know jesus,the ones who claim to know him pretends they dont practicalise the word of GOD.no woman want to summit to her husband.they always want to be the head,SOME LADIES ARE LAZY THEY DONT WANT TO SUFFER,ALL THEY WANT IS  BRING MAKE I CHOP.AND NO MAN IS READY TO MARRY LIABILITY INTO HIS HOUSE
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- emminic at 14-05-2011 01:42 PM (12 years ago)
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the problem is that most of the ladies dont know jesus,the ones who claim to know him pretends they dont practicalise the word of GOD.no woman want to summit to her husband.they always want to be the head,SOME LADIES ARE LAZY THEY DONT WANT TO SUFFER,ALL THEY WANT IS  BRING MAKE I CHOP.AND NO MAN IS READY TO MARRY LIABILITY INTO HIS HOUSE
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- lynnclassic at 14-05-2011 02:10 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Texther on 14-05-2011 09:53 AM
I think those that are desperate about marriage are the ones that lost their DIGNITY long time ago!! U'll neva see a virgin desperate to marry.
hmmm very funny i don't think is bcoz a woman lost her virginity made her 2b desperate,coz many got married not being virgins!
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- justinaogbuagu at 14-05-2011 09:35 PM (12 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmmmm i no dey desperate oooooooo i go wait for Gods time
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- oohio2007 at 14-05-2011 10:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 14-05-2011 09:07 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 10:19 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-05-2011 07:00 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 01:56 AM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.
VERY,VERY CORRECT.I WONDER WHY MOST GIRLS LOVE DECIEVING THEMSELVES? MARRIAGE IS A VERY HONORABLE INSTITUTION.THE BIBLE SAYS SO.THOSE WHO MARRY CORRECTLY,AUTOMATICALLY STEP INTO HONOUR.THOSE WHO CO-HABIT OR DONT WANT TO MARRY BUT PREFER TO JUMP FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER CAN NEVER EXPERIENCE TRUE HONOUR.MOST OFTEN THAN NOT,THEY END UP IN SHAME AND MISERY.

What about those women who never slept around, and decided to remain single because they r better so,
and jumping from man to man is out of question?
I'm telling u,these women exist, and u guys should show some respect instead of jumping in conclusions!

IF ACTUALLY THERE ARE SINGLE WOMEN WHO DON'T HAVE SEX AND TOOK A DECISION TO REMAIN SINGLE FOR THE REST OF THIER LIVES.WHAT ARE THEY WAITING FOR? LET THEM JOIN THE CONVENT. PERIOD.
ANY THING BESIDE THIS IS ABSOLUTE SELF DECIET AND FIRST CLASS HIPOCRACY BECAUSE THERE ARE SITUATIONS WHERE MOST GIRLS CHOOSE TO REMAIN SINGLE AS A RESULT OF EITHER AN EMOTIONAL OR A PHYSIOLOGICAL DISORDER OR A BAD EXPRIENCE IN THE PAST.IF NOT,THEY WOULD LOVE TO MARRY.

Now there u messed it up big time!
Do u think u're in d best position to speak for all d ladies who chose to remain single? I don't think so!
U see,this is d problem with this damn world, jumping in conclusions and judging ppl who they know nothing about!
For ur info,some women don't need a man to be happy! In fact, a man in their life causes a lot of stress and pain,
so they choose to spare themselves of such mess!
We r not all d same,we don't want/need d same things,and some of us really abhor to be part of d crowd!


@BITTERSWEET.IT IS NOW SO,SO OBVIOUS THAT YOU WERE ONCE DEEPLY HURT BY A GUY AND YOU ARE REFUSING TO LET GO OF THE PAST.I NOW KNOW THAT YOU ARE PRETENDING TO BE HAPPY BUT YOU ARE NOT.YOU CANNOT HATE AND DO WITHOUT WHAT GOD HIMSELF HAS DESIGNED FOR HUMANITY TO ENJOY.YOU SEEM TO FORGET IN THE FIT OF YOUR ANGER AGAINST MEN THAT JUST AS IT IS NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE,IT IS NOT ALSO GOOD FOR THE WOMAN TO BE ALONE.CAN GOD LIE?IF A WOMAN DESIRE A MAN IN HER LIFE,SHE IS FULFILING GODS WILL.SAME GOES FOR THE MAN.SO IF YOU DONT NEED A MAN IN YOUR LIFE,YOU ARE GOING AGAINST GODS DESIGN.IT WAS BECAUSE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER DESIRED EACH OTHER THAT IS HOW YOU WERE BORN.YOU CANT GO AGAINST GODS DESIGN AND BE A HAPPY PERSON. YOU ARE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF. TAKE IT EASY.THIS MIGHT BE VERY HARD FOR YOU TO SWALLOW.YOU CAN HATE ME IF YOU LIKE BUT IT IS THE TRUTH

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- thowbee at 15-05-2011 12:20 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: oohio2007 on 14-05-2011 10:38 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 14-05-2011 09:07 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 10:19 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-05-2011 07:00 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 01:56 AM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.
VERY,VERY CORRECT.I WONDER WHY MOST GIRLS LOVE DECIEVING THEMSELVES? MARRIAGE IS A VERY HONORABLE INSTITUTION.THE BIBLE SAYS SO.THOSE WHO MARRY CORRECTLY,AUTOMATICALLY STEP INTO HONOUR.THOSE WHO CO-HABIT OR DONT WANT TO MARRY BUT PREFER TO JUMP FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER CAN NEVER EXPERIENCE TRUE HONOUR.MOST OFTEN THAN NOT,THEY END UP IN SHAME AND MISERY.

What about those women who never slept around, and decided to remain single because they r better so,
and jumping from man to man is out of question?
I'm telling u,these women exist, and u guys should show some respect instead of jumping in conclusions!

IF ACTUALLY THERE ARE SINGLE WOMEN WHO DON'T HAVE SEX AND TOOK A DECISION TO REMAIN SINGLE FOR THE REST OF THIER LIVES.WHAT ARE THEY WAITING FOR? LET THEM JOIN THE CONVENT. PERIOD.
ANY THING BESIDE THIS IS ABSOLUTE SELF DECIET AND FIRST CLASS HIPOCRACY BECAUSE THERE ARE SITUATIONS WHERE MOST GIRLS CHOOSE TO REMAIN SINGLE AS A RESULT OF EITHER AN EMOTIONAL OR A PHYSIOLOGICAL DISORDER OR A BAD EXPRIENCE IN THE PAST.IF NOT,THEY WOULD LOVE TO MARRY.

Now there u messed it up big time!
Do u think u're in d best position to speak for all d ladies who chose to remain single? I don't think so!
U see,this is d problem with this damn world, jumping in conclusions and judging ppl who they know nothing about!
For ur info,some women don't need a man to be happy! In fact, a man in their life causes a lot of stress and pain,
so they choose to spare themselves of such mess!
We r not all d same,we don't want/need d same things,and some of us really abhor to be part of d crowd!


@BITTERSWEET.IT IS NOW SO,SO OBVIOUS THAT YOU WERE ONCE DEEPLY HURT BY A GUY AND YOU ARE REFUSING TO LET GO OF THE PAST.I NOW KNOW THAT YOU ARE PRETENDING TO BE HAPPY BUT YOU ARE NOT.YOU CANNOT HATE AND DO WITHOUT WHAT GOD HIMSELF HAS DESIGNED FOR HUMANITY TO ENJOY.YOU SEEM TO FORGET IN THE FIT OF YOUR ANGER AGAINST MEN THAT JUST AS IT IS NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE,IT IS NOT ALSO GOOD FOR THE WOMAN TO BE ALONE.CAN GOD LIE?IF A WOMAN DESIRE A MAN IN HER LIFE,SHE IS FULFILING GODS WILL.SAME GOES FOR THE MAN.SO IF YOU DONT NEED A MAN IN YOUR LIFE,YOU ARE GOING AGAINST GODS DESIGN.IT WAS BECAUSE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER DESIRED EACH OTHER THAT IS HOW YOU WERE BORN.YOU CANT GO AGAINST GODS DESIGN AND BE A HAPPY PERSON. YOU ARE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF. TAKE IT EASY.THIS MIGHT BE VERY HARD FOR YOU TO SWALLOW.YOU CAN HATE ME IF YOU LIKE BUT IT IS THE TRUTH



I am so with u on this....................I agree solely....its so glaring...
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- bittersweet at 15-05-2011 08:15 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: oohio2007 on 14-05-2011 10:38 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 14-05-2011 09:07 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 10:19 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-05-2011 07:00 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 01:56 AM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.
VERY,VERY CORRECT.I WONDER WHY MOST GIRLS LOVE DECIEVING THEMSELVES? MARRIAGE IS A VERY HONORABLE INSTITUTION.THE BIBLE SAYS SO.THOSE WHO MARRY CORRECTLY,AUTOMATICALLY STEP INTO HONOUR.THOSE WHO CO-HABIT OR DONT WANT TO MARRY BUT PREFER TO JUMP FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER CAN NEVER EXPERIENCE TRUE HONOUR.MOST OFTEN THAN NOT,THEY END UP IN SHAME AND MISERY.

What about those women who never slept around, and decided to remain single because they r better so,
and jumping from man to man is out of question?
I'm telling u,these women exist, and u guys should show some respect instead of jumping in conclusions!

IF ACTUALLY THERE ARE SINGLE WOMEN WHO DON'T HAVE SEX AND TOOK A DECISION TO REMAIN SINGLE FOR THE REST OF THIER LIVES.WHAT ARE THEY WAITING FOR? LET THEM JOIN THE CONVENT. PERIOD.
ANY THING BESIDE THIS IS ABSOLUTE SELF DECIET AND FIRST CLASS HIPOCRACY BECAUSE THERE ARE SITUATIONS WHERE MOST GIRLS CHOOSE TO REMAIN SINGLE AS A RESULT OF EITHER AN EMOTIONAL OR A PHYSIOLOGICAL DISORDER OR A BAD EXPRIENCE IN THE PAST.IF NOT,THEY WOULD LOVE TO MARRY.

Now there u messed it up big time!
Do u think u're in d best position to speak for all d ladies who chose to remain single? I don't think so!
U see,this is d problem with this damn world, jumping in conclusions and judging ppl who they know nothing about!
For ur info,some women don't need a man to be happy! In fact, a man in their life causes a lot of stress and pain,
so they choose to spare themselves of such mess!
We r not all d same,we don't want/need d same things,and some of us really abhor to be part of d crowd!


@BITTERSWEET.IT IS NOW SO,SO OBVIOUS THAT YOU WERE ONCE DEEPLY HURT BY A GUY AND YOU ARE REFUSING TO LET GO OF THE PAST.I NOW KNOW THAT YOU ARE PRETENDING TO BE HAPPY BUT YOU ARE NOT.YOU CANNOT HATE AND DO WITHOUT WHAT GOD HIMSELF HAS DESIGNED FOR HUMANITY TO ENJOY.YOU SEEM TO FORGET IN THE FIT OF YOUR ANGER AGAINST MEN THAT JUST AS IT IS NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE,IT IS NOT ALSO GOOD FOR THE WOMAN TO BE ALONE.CAN GOD LIE?IF A WOMAN DESIRE A MAN IN HER LIFE,SHE IS FULFILING GODS WILL.SAME GOES FOR THE MAN.SO IF YOU DONT NEED A MAN IN YOUR LIFE,YOU ARE GOING AGAINST GODS DESIGN.IT WAS BECAUSE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER DESIRED EACH OTHER THAT IS HOW YOU WERE BORN.YOU CANT GO AGAINST GODS DESIGN AND BE A HAPPY PERSON. YOU ARE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF. TAKE IT EASY.THIS MIGHT BE VERY HARD FOR YOU TO SWALLOW.YOU CAN HATE ME IF YOU LIKE BUT IT IS THE TRUTH

My friend, u screwed it up again!  Cheesy I don't hate anybody, that's a feeling who would only destroy a person, so I'll never waste
my energy with useless feelings! And stop repeating that I was deeply hurt because u're very wrong! If that would have happened,
I would have admitted, but it's not so!I didn't have many relationships during my lifetime (I hope u know I'm not a kid),because
I was a long term relationship adept,and when they finished, I always was d one who ended it,but not because they deeply hurt me,but bcz I hate making compromises, and a relationship means making compromises at daily basis! Sorry, but I can't do that for a lifetime, so I decided to keep them at distance! I'm satisfied so,trust me,for me a man is not equal with happiness, oh no,it's actually d other way around  :, so I'm stress free,which gives me d peace one can not have with a guy by her side!And mind u,is not against God at all!Have u not read ur Bible well or what?  Undecided
1Corinthians 7:8-9, 27: To the unmarried and widows I say that it is best for them to remain as I am.
 Paul and Jesus did regard celibacy as a higher spiritual state than marriage!Part of these differences in calling likely reside in each individual's sex drive and the variations from person to person, to put it bluntly. After all,God knows our frame,& won't allow us to be tempted beyond what we are able to endure (1Corinthians 10:13).Paul was aware of this, so although in 1Corinthians 7 he places the celibate state as being spiritually superior to the married state.
In some verses (1Corinthians 7:32-35), Paul explains his reasoning behind encouraging celibacy,in that married ppl r more divided in their interests in serving God compared to the devoted celibate single man or woman. In verse 26,he mentions the "present distress" as a reason not to marry, but that can't be deemed as a universally applicable reason that applies to all Christians at all times, but rather it applied in particular to the Corinthians who receive this letter roughly around 55 A.D. 24:19).

So, live ur life as u want, do d things which make u happy (as long they don't affect other ppls' life in bad),and stop judging and
labeling ppl who u don't know anything about, because u're sinning more than u imagine!
I rest my case!



Posted: at 15-05-2011 08:15 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- frayobkk at 15-05-2011 09:01 AM (12 years ago)
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Put it why Nigeria ladys are desperate to get married
is only bc we africans believes that a good and responsible woman has to be married
so if u are not that means u most be bad woman or irresponsible one

Posted: at 15-05-2011 09:01 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- thowbee at 15-05-2011 09:06 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: frayobkk on 15-05-2011 09:01 AM
Put it why Nigeria ladys are desperate to get married
is only bc we africans believes that a good and responsible woman has to be married
so if u are not that means u most be bad woman or irresponsible one


I feel ya...
Posted: at 15-05-2011 09:06 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 15-05-2011 09:18 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 15-05-2011 08:15 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 14-05-2011 10:38 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 14-05-2011 09:07 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 10:19 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 13-05-2011 07:00 AM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 13-05-2011 01:56 AM
Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 01:18 PM
With all this mindset from these women,I cant bet you most of you are going to end up being hoochie and sugar mama's.
I've seen alot of women who had this mentality of what's the big deal about marriage, but u know what they are the ones that end up in the club every other night sleeping wth different dogs, when they dont have a man in their life, then they resort to gossiping with girlfriends like them on the phone and  around themselves,they gossip about one of their frends married life, snatch people's husbands and the likes, so keep up wth that mentality you will be single and miserable in your old age.
VERY,VERY CORRECT.I WONDER WHY MOST GIRLS LOVE DECIEVING THEMSELVES? MARRIAGE IS A VERY HONORABLE INSTITUTION.THE BIBLE SAYS SO.THOSE WHO MARRY CORRECTLY,AUTOMATICALLY STEP INTO HONOUR.THOSE WHO CO-HABIT OR DONT WANT TO MARRY BUT PREFER TO JUMP FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER CAN NEVER EXPERIENCE TRUE HONOUR.MOST OFTEN THAN NOT,THEY END UP IN SHAME AND MISERY.

What about those women who never slept around, and decided to remain single because they r better so,
and jumping from man to man is out of question?
I'm telling u,these women exist, and u guys should show some respect instead of jumping in conclusions!

IF ACTUALLY THERE ARE SINGLE WOMEN WHO DON'T HAVE SEX AND TOOK A DECISION TO REMAIN SINGLE FOR THE REST OF THIER LIVES.WHAT ARE THEY WAITING FOR? LET THEM JOIN THE CONVENT. PERIOD.
ANY THING BESIDE THIS IS ABSOLUTE SELF DECIET AND FIRST CLASS HIPOCRACY BECAUSE THERE ARE SITUATIONS WHERE MOST GIRLS CHOOSE TO REMAIN SINGLE AS A RESULT OF EITHER AN EMOTIONAL OR A PHYSIOLOGICAL DISORDER OR A BAD EXPRIENCE IN THE PAST.IF NOT,THEY WOULD LOVE TO MARRY.

Now there u messed it up big time!
Do u think u're in d best position to speak for all d ladies who chose to remain single? I don't think so!
U see,this is d problem with this damn world, jumping in conclusions and judging ppl who they know nothing about!
For ur info,some women don't need a man to be happy! In fact, a man in their life causes a lot of stress and pain,
so they choose to spare themselves of such mess!
We r not all d same,we don't want/need d same things,and some of us really abhor to be part of d crowd!


@BITTERSWEET.IT IS NOW SO,SO OBVIOUS THAT YOU WERE ONCE DEEPLY HURT BY A GUY AND YOU ARE REFUSING TO LET GO OF THE PAST.I NOW KNOW THAT YOU ARE PRETENDING TO BE HAPPY BUT YOU ARE NOT.YOU CANNOT HATE AND DO WITHOUT WHAT GOD HIMSELF HAS DESIGNED FOR HUMANITY TO ENJOY.YOU SEEM TO FORGET IN THE FIT OF YOUR ANGER AGAINST MEN THAT JUST AS IT IS NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE,IT IS NOT ALSO GOOD FOR THE WOMAN TO BE ALONE.CAN GOD LIE?IF A WOMAN DESIRE A MAN IN HER LIFE,SHE IS FULFILING GODS WILL.SAME GOES FOR THE MAN.SO IF YOU DONT NEED A MAN IN YOUR LIFE,YOU ARE GOING AGAINST GODS DESIGN.IT WAS BECAUSE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER DESIRED EACH OTHER THAT IS HOW YOU WERE BORN.YOU CANT GO AGAINST GODS DESIGN AND BE A HAPPY PERSON. YOU ARE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF. TAKE IT EASY.THIS MIGHT BE VERY HARD FOR YOU TO SWALLOW.YOU CAN HATE ME IF YOU LIKE BUT IT IS THE TRUTH

My friend, u screwed it up again!  Cheesy I don't hate anybody, that's a feeling who would only destroy a person, so I'll never waste
my energy with useless feelings! And stop repeating that I was deeply hurt because u're very wrong! If that would have happened,
I would have admitted, but it's not so!I didn't have many relationships during my lifetime (I hope u know I'm not a kid),because
I was a long term relationship adept,and when they finished, I always was d one who ended it,but not because they deeply hurt me,but bcz I hate making compromises, and a relationship means making compromises at daily basis! Sorry, but I can't do that for a lifetime, so I decided to keep them at distance! I'm satisfied so,trust me,for me a man is not equal with happiness, oh no,it's actually d other way around  :, so I'm stress free,which gives me d peace one can not have with a guy by her side!And mind u,is not against God at all!Have u not read ur Bible well or what?  Undecided
1Corinthians 7:8-9, 27: To the unmarried and widows I say that it is best for them to remain as I am.
 Paul and Jesus did regard celibacy as a higher spiritual state than marriage!Part of these differences in calling likely reside in each individual's sex drive and the variations from person to person, to put it bluntly. After all,God knows our frame,& won't allow us to be tempted beyond what we are able to endure (1Corinthians 10:13).Paul was aware of this, so although in 1Corinthians 7 he places the celibate state as being spiritually superior to the married state.
In some verses (1Corinthians 7:32-35), Paul explains his reasoning behind encouraging celibacy,in that married ppl r more divided in their interests in serving God compared to the devoted celibate single man or woman. In verse 26,he mentions the "present distress" as a reason not to marry, but that can't be deemed as a universally applicable reason that applies to all Christians at all times, but rather it applied in particular to the Corinthians who receive this letter roughly around 55 A.D. 24:19).

So, live ur life as u want, do d things which make u happy (as long they don't affect other ppls' life in bad),and stop judging and
labeling ppl who u don't know anything about, because u're sinning more than u imagine!
I rest my case!




hmmm interesting debate
Posted: at 15-05-2011 09:18 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gimac at 15-05-2011 09:56 AM (12 years ago)
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i will be bk
Posted: at 15-05-2011 09:56 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jcmaiah at 15-05-2011 10:27 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: frayobkk on 15-05-2011 09:01 AM
Put it why Nigeria ladys are desperate to get married
is only bc we africans believes that a good and responsible woman has to be married
so if u are not that means u most be bad woman or irresponsible one
this is fact deficient. I have not seen a nigerian woman at 50 on the net looking for a husband after she has married before. So why say this? Women all over has similar character especially when it comes to relationships. Bro go do your survey very well before post. After all in the west were you are indirectly using as an exception, ladies live with guys for years. So whats the difference with marriage? Its just the marriage vows only.
Posted: at 15-05-2011 10:27 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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